Ive truely met the girl of my dreams and within the past 6 months we have become best friends. No sooner than that, did each of us begin having feelings for the other, however now we face the dilemma of phasing from an amazing friendship to what could potentially be a fairytale relationship. I have welcomed this progression 100%, unfortunately she seems to be quite weary and seems to be particularly worried about hurting our friendship. So i ask in the event she decides not to progress forward, do i simply accept her decision or should i fight for us? Do i tell her she means the world to me; do i give her time and hide my feelings from her; could our being bestfriends actually stop us from going further and if so how could i change that??? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Its been driving me nuts.
2007-02-18 16:35:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
pursue her! if you're in late high school or post high-school and you're sure you'll have a lasting relationship, then go for her. tell her how you feel, and if it doesn't work, dont go too far so that you can still be friends.
2007-02-18 16:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by Love Doctor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is worth scuffling with for!!! i'd combat for it. My fiancee and that i've got been pals for a complete 300 and sixty 5 days in the past we've been given romantically in touch yet we knew one yet another greater valuable than all people else that's why we are actually engaged and appropriate for an added. The fairy tale stuff you study and the gentle chick flicks ought to truly ensue in actual existence and my fiancee and that i stay evidence. i'd combat because of the fact in case you do no longer, you will by no ability forgive your self. you will spend something of your existence thinking approximately "what would have been", i do no longer know why she wouldnt' prefer to offer it a attempt. women are continually saying they prefer a guy that they might have as a guy and as a appropriate buddy, then they locate one and maximum of them run from it. My fiancee is my appropriate buddy in the international, he's conscious me greater valuable than all people else and we are able to communicate over with one yet another brazenly approximately something in the international. we also have a appropriate relationship. We do agrue on occasion are not getting me incorrect, yet we continually compromise and get by it because of the fact all of us know one yet another nicely adequate to renowned the thank you to restoration what became into incorrect and the affection between us is so good that neither human beings ought to take the different being disillusioned. I wish you the two the appropriate!!!
2016-11-23 17:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by trickey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly if you wan to date... do it before you know her on a best buddies vibe... i knew a gilr for 10 and a half years ... form my childhood till i was 16 pretty much.. a month later we broke up and i can barely look her in the eye... she might seem to be your dream girl and she could be but examine her moves towards you alittle more then you would normally... if they feel like she has some feeling for you sit down and talk to her on a serious level... but if she seems like a friend cherish being with her... you never know when a good thing will leave.
~Quin.
2007-02-18 16:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the fourth question today, Eesh! I think that if she wants it too, go for the fairy tale, I thought that's what every girl (not including me) wanted.... She may be asking the same question. If you can put yourself in her position. What would you want there? Just go with the flow, if the time is right, then the fairy tale may begin. Stick to what your heart says, but remember what your head says. I could go into what parts of your mind to believe, but I hardly get my theory myself, and if I described it 10 million times no one would understand still.
Here's the simple way:
Go with the flow, follow your heart, and bear in mind your head.
2007-02-18 16:41:01 · answer #4 · answered by Crappy Haircut Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should fight for the woman of your dreams no matter what anyone says. Remember you live life for yourself, so make decisions that make you happy. I know getting your dream girl will make you happy, just tell her how you feel from your heart. Its okay if shes shy about the whole idea at first, she will come around later if she does that. Remember girls like to feel like there pursued (who doesn't?).
2007-02-18 16:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that. I was friends many years with a guy, and he chased me and caught me. He wanted to date me. It became obvious. I was the one who wanted to keep us as friends. I tried at least..
Well, if one person has feelings, the friendship won't work. He was jealous of my dates...etc..Well, one day he made the move and caught me. We dated for a year and then he wanted to move on. I guess he decided he didn't want this afterall? It didn't last...But the moral is ...you have to take the risk to reep the rewards. It was the best year!
2007-02-18 16:44:10 · answer #6 · answered by cares 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg...and i thought only i was goin through that problem...bt with me..the boy is 13 and im 15 turning 16 in july...anyways..he is tottaly fallen for me and i sorta like him..bt we talked and we told each other that we can still hang in stuff but if we go out and when we break up it would ruin our friendship...so..we rn't goin 2 go out...may b in like a yr or so...anyways..if u think she's ur dream girl..then tottaly go for it..just make sure u tell her all that stuff and think of the good and bad things...and tell her that and just see what happens.
2007-02-18 16:41:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh God, skip the friggin drama---she told you and you heard for yourself--she is NOT ready--probably has other priorities in life---and so should you---Fight a losing battle??? Are you being weird??? Get the BIG picture and leave her alone--you can't just go changing peoples minds to suit you...let nature take its course---maybe it will or will not happen--life is tough---now go do your homework
2007-02-18 16:42:22 · answer #8 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's afraid. What u do is, proceed slowly, get her to trust u, but don't give in into what she says, her fear is keeping her back from one on the most amazing relationships she could have.
So...fight for ur dream-girl with understanding, care and love.
2007-02-18 16:44:45 · answer #9 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on here are u talking about taking the relationship to the next level or what...... my advice to you my freind is that u tell your gf straight from your heart.
2007-02-18 16:43:05 · answer #10 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋