we dated for about 6 months, and it got a little to serious for her, or she felt she wasnt what i was looking for. even though i know she is. im really excited to have some time alone with her again, but i dont want to do anything stupid, or move too fast. do you think i should try and make a move, or just play it cool and not try anything.
we've been talking everyday since we broke up. although we've had a few altercations on the weekends while out partying, i think everything has gone well. i want to give her time but i cant stand being away from her.
anyway, for anyone whos been in a situation like this, some advice would be great. thanks
2007-02-18 16:44:51 · 6 answers · asked by lenly36 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just take it nice and slow, I wouldn't even go for a kiss for the night. Good Luck
2007-02-18 16:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the best thing for you to do right now..is just talk to her...not as a friend...but not as a boyfriend...talk to her but show her signs that you still like her. Drop some hints with her...flirt with her...show her you care...then maybe she'll feel as if..things weren't moving too fast...and that she only thought it was. I've only been in one relationship...although right now...we've broken up...but i've been with him for a year...and it's been 6 months since we've been apart..and i still miss him...a lot...but i can remember wen i first went out with him...i felt as if things were moving too fast too. Sometimes...girls just need time to think it over...because they're scared of making the wrong choice....they're scared of being rash..and letting the guys get to them..then IF there's a break-up...they'll be really hurt...i mean..now that me and my bf broke up..i still even think about that...i don't know if i made a rash decision...i don't know if i made the right choice being with him in the first place...sometimes i wonder if it's better if i wasn't....so mayb...she has something on her mind. If you reallly love her...then show her that...things aren't going to fast...but instead....it's going just fine...but in order for you to show her that...sometimes u gotta give it some time. So you have to be patience yourself. i know being away from her...is pretty hard...but if you want her....then it shouldnt' matter.
2007-02-18 16:56:23 · answer #2 · answered by 2Quinn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be polite,Show her you can slow down like she ask .
She might be wanting a commitment from you ,not sex .
2007-02-18 16:52:46 · answer #3 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just take it slow and see how things go, you dont want to
rush into anything.
2007-02-18 16:49:38 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Still go with her, only as a friend...
2007-02-18 16:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just play it cool.
2007-02-18 16:47:32 · answer #6 · answered by msi_cord 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋