i'm in love with someone and he's in love with me, but i still mess around with my ex...it's part of our "friendship". but sometimes it feels like i need him more than the other person, and i know it's more than a "like" or "infatuation" feeling with him, and he's expressed to me that he feels the same way. but he knows i'm in love w/ my bf that i have now, and that i feel bad when i mess around with him. i'm in love with one person, but it feels like i'm also developing "love" feelings for my ex. is it wrong to feel this way? what can i do to at least try to turn off the feelings that i'm developing for him?
2007-02-18 16:40:01 · 11 answers · asked by Nacho Chacho 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop cheating on the one you love. This obviously means you dont spend enough time with him.
Split the time you spend with the ex in threes
one for your boyfriend
one for your friends
one for yourself
2007-02-18 17:03:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you single out the Mormons? There are people from virtually all religions that express hatred toward homosexuals. If your experience has been that only Mormons hate gays, you need to get out more. Mormons are not taught to hate anyone; instead they are taught to love everyone. If a Mormon hates someone for any reason, then that Mormon has some repenting to do. Homosexual behavior is sinful (and Mormons aren't the only ones who believe this). I am a Mormon, and I have actually had some very good friends that were gay. Did I hate them? Of course not. But I don't approve of homosexuality. I also hate listening to foul language, but do I hate everyone who has a potty mouth? No! "Hate the sin, love the sinner."
2016-03-29 02:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FOCUS ON YOUR TRUE LOVE, SHE'S THE ONE YOU BELONG WITH...just put the other woman out of your mind. Or just think she's already messing around with other men, get real...another guy is inside her so that should help u forget her right? And im sure u have a beautiful girlfriend,cherish her!
2007-02-18 16:45:47 · answer #3 · answered by lovebug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible to love lots of different people. When you have sex with more than one of them however it can get awfully confusing. Part of growing up is learning how to respect yourself and your relationship enough to focus your sexual expression int an appropriate manner. That means consciously choosing, not just doing it because you feel like it in that moment.
2007-02-18 16:45:29 · answer #4 · answered by pepway 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it goes against what society says *love* should be but it does happen...
the love that starts as friendship then turns to *passion & love* can return to friendship and love....
often called marriage after years of the love/friendship... LOL
OH HOW TRUTHFUL YOU ARE.... but forget the one that is *all about passion*... feeling good only lasts so long but does not endure
GOOD LUCK
2007-02-18 16:47:10 · answer #5 · answered by H.O.T. Dog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still feel the love for your ex. b/c you are stilling with him. Did you ever have closure with your ex. if not you need to.But that is normal so just try and let one of them go who you have less feelings for.lol
2007-02-18 16:47:17 · answer #6 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's wrong. Wrong and impossible...people that are truly "in love" don't disrespect that person by turning into a deceitful, cheating whore!! Pick one and walk away from the other. You owe him that much at the very least.
2007-02-18 16:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it's wrong? what are you doing to 'mess around' with your ex? i'd say save your relationship and stop seeing your ex. dont ruin your current relationship
2007-02-18 16:45:58 · answer #8 · answered by Love Doctor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your brain. Pick one. Do the smart thing. Do the right thing. You know what it is.
2007-02-18 16:45:10 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. Eric Cartman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
interesting..im in the same exact situation.
2007-02-18 16:44:33 · answer #10 · answered by itsxkrex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋