Okay so I have this friend her name is Sally* (not her accual name) Sally* has been my best friend for 2 years now and we have so much fun together.
Here is the problem:
She thinks that everyone is out to get her.
Whenever I want to talk about my "guy" problems she says, "you know what I don't care....but Joe*...."
She calls me all the time looking for answers to the homework.
I like her a lot but she gets on my nerves when she thinks that EVERYONE...and I mean everyone is out to get her. For example she is in snowboarding this weekend and she told me that this guy was walking by while she was at the gas station and she took the keys out the ignition and locked all of the doors and started freaking out.
What am I supposed to do?!?
I am sooo not like that....I am really the opposite.
2007-02-18 16:38:54 · 4 answers · asked by M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your friend is very conceited. What you should do is ask your friend if she has visual proof (footage, witnesses) that people are actually out to get her. And if she tells you her guy problems you should yawn and say
"Frankly I don't care about your boring love like, kay?" and if she calls for homework answers give her the wrong answers but don't show her that you had the right answers. And if she keeps asking say
"Wow, didn't know you were too stupid to not be able to get your answers."
2007-02-18 16:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's got some deep-seated issues. I'm wondering where the paranoia and fear has come from. Have you tried asking her why she feels the way she does? She may not be aware of what's really going on herself. If you really care about your friend, you'll be there for her...it may not be easy, especially when she's getting on that last nerve. But then again, that's why friends are called "friends".
2007-02-19 01:42:31 · answer #2 · answered by graphitegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to think about if you really want someone like that in your life. TRUE friends are always there for you, and most importantly LISTEN to you. If she can't even be there for you when you want to talk about guy problems, will she be there when you really need her to be? I'm 25 now and when I look back on some of the friends I've had, I made a lot of mistakes in choosing friends. I've realized that the best friends you can have are the ones that are always there for you, always supportive, and always there when you need them to be. You don't need the stress of someone who isn't truly there for you.
2007-02-19 00:52:28 · answer #3 · answered by Jane Doe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she really needs to be evaluated by a professional. I hate to scare you, but most of the mental illnesses start to appear whle you're going through puberty. I'm not saying she has a mental illness, but her behavior warrents attention.
2007-02-19 00:56:22 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋