Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

2007-02-15 16:43:49 · 14 answers · asked by jay 1 in Singles & Dating

Today was my senior class trip to DisneyWorld. Last night, due to my high sensitivity and the fact that I'm prone to anxiety attacks, I decided not to go at the last minute. I called one of my friends who was going and told her I wasn't going and to alert the teachers, chaperones, etc of this. I didn't tell my 2 friends who I'm closer to that I wasn't going cuz I knew somehow they'd make me feel rly bad for my decision. I didn't go cuz I was getting rly rly nervous and I just knew I'd get a panic attack cuz I had a nervous breakdown 2 yrs ago that makes me sort of leary of traveling...

My 2 friends that I didn't tell are so pissed at me. They didn't even call me today. One of my other friends did and I heard in the background one of the girls saying 'is that [my name]?' but she didn't even say she wanted to talk to me like she usually would.

I'm just so hurt. I REALLY WANTED to go but I just COULDN'T & I hate myself for that.

what should i do? how can i stop feeling so bad?

2007-02-15 16:43:33 · 1 answers · asked by newyorkrose9 3 in Friends

my friend is on a TIGHT budget and is getting married she is just having close friends and family..

2007-02-15 16:42:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

she is from very rich family & also she has boy friend of her categary means from rich family now suggest me how does i propse her for merridge ???????

2007-02-15 16:42:38 · 9 answers · asked by NISHAD P 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has done so much for me over the years. He's been there for me through the hard times, hes seen me through college, and has worked his rear off for me. I feel like I should do something special for all that he has done for me.

Given that he has never been with another woman except me, I feel like I should give him a threesome or something wild like that. I can tell that the fact that he has never been with another woman is starting to get to him. Especially since I had my fun before I married him. I just think it would be selfish and hypocritical for me to deny him that kind of pleasure. Plus I don't want him going to the grave regretting that he never experienced all of what life has to offer.

Why should he be punished for being a good husband to me all these years? The way I see it, he has earned it.

And please no lectures about vows or sanctity of marriage.

2007-02-15 16:41:53 · 24 answers · asked by Mai L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Family can't easily discuss, friends avoid the subject ... books you can read, but not humanly relate ... there is no support to be found it seems! No self pity, just a realization that this part of life is something you must go through alone, and cope with ... alone. When I try to discuss with friends, they get upset about their own loss even years ago, and quickly change the subject. How do I discuss, when no one will let me? I could pay $100 an hour to talk with a psychologist, and then have them look at their watch and tell me "time's up" and leave with that cold feeling in your heart, emptier than when you went in. God is indeed there, and comforts. But as humans, we need each other. To tell someone "I care, now don't talk to me about it" leaves me sad, and feeling as if they don't care at all. So I wind up on the internet, face to face with 1280 dpi, and if it's windy, can get shocked if I try to touch their "face" (so to speak). Anyone understand?

2007-02-15 16:41:17 · 14 answers · asked by QuietOne 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have someone I could go with, he doesn't go to my school though.

My best friend doesn't want to go to prom at all and so I'd be going with my date who didn't know anyone there.

I'm not really friends with a lot of the people in my class. ( I go to a REALLY small private school) so I'm wondering if it would just be WAY to awkward to go?

I have always WANTED to go to prom, and I think it could be a lot of fun, especially if my friend went too...

...should we just have our own little mini prom? get dressed up, go out? but not to the dance?

Any suggestions?

2007-02-15 16:41:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So his friends will come over, but my boyfriend will not allow me to communicate with them. When they try to say "hi" or have any sort of conversation with me,my boyfriend will go into his room and cry. Then later, he will get mad and yell at me for responding to them. And this doesn't seem normal to me. But he says if i care about him then I will ignore them, but I really don't want to seem rude.

2007-02-15 16:41:10 · 10 answers · asked by girll90957 1 in Singles & Dating

Its backstabbing and dirty politics all in one.GM is retiring, the acting is a minority who slugs around, no work but pretentious all the way. Do nothing but claims the credits. No work moves, all work stagnant because the acting is indecisive but pretend to know all. Was backstabbed by a minor and involved in a serious ..really..really serious arguement with the acting. (the acting favors the minor and basically took to his side) The acting rally support to show that he's the right one and now, the whole organisation is looking at me as the devil at work. Rumours had it that one of the seniors would be the next gm and this acting already took him to his side. What to do, please...advise, before I kill someone!
Not the right place to ask this, pardon me.

2007-02-15 16:40:55 · 3 answers · asked by chasing rainbow 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I think that I'm better off by myself, although maybe not happy, because the relationships I've had were extremely abusive. My daughter's father almost broke my arm... People tell me that I should get over it and try to be happy, but I don't really trust anyone to allow myself to be happy. I'm married but I haven't seen my husband in a year, he won't allow me to get a divorce cause he says he'd rather be a widower than a divorcee... I don't think I want to be alone for the remainder of my life... but I just don't see myself with anyone. Has anyone ever been through this?

2007-02-15 16:39:12 · 6 answers · asked by Annabella Stephens 6 in Singles & Dating

why is it that if a guy has girlfriend it's so special.. but when time they married the sweetness decreases?

2007-02-15 16:39:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Just asked a question on what the norm is for sex over a month.

Was asking that 1- I am dating someone who works a lot and couldnt make it over Valentines Day although we talked and I dont think he is with anyone else. 2- The person I am dating says he has a high sex drive but doesnt always take it when its offered 3- My previous relationship (10 years) averaged at least once a day (even after kids and marriage) and often well above that.

Are some men just not as interested? What does a man place above sex? Do emotions play a big role for some men? Sorry just trying to figure this out and I know its not me. Thanks.

2007-02-15 16:39:07 · 12 answers · asked by Paradox 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't think I'm too ugly, but I have some physical flaws, like goofy ears. I dress fashionably though, and keep myself pretty well groomed. I've just been having trouble talking to girls. They're girls that I indirectly hang out with all the time (they're friends of my friends) but it seems like they're short with me when I talk to them. I was just wondering if a guy being ugly is enough for a girl to not be as interested in being friends. Thanks.

2007-02-15 16:38:39 · 13 answers · asked by Scott H 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay he invited me over but i bailed because he lives all the way on the other side of town and i don't drive and his car is broken but he said that " it was okay " and he works in the mall and i see him almost everyday and when i see him he gets all happy and says " what up baby" but then he never calls what is that about?!!

2007-02-15 16:38:21 · 2 answers · asked by JAZMIN G 1 in Singles & Dating

A few years ago I made the decision to let my then 5 year old go to live with her dad because I thought he would be able to provide for her financialy better then I could. At the time, I was making $10 an hour and he was making $18 and was married to a family law paralegal making a good chunk of change herself, somehow I ended up paying $400 a month in child support. I need it to go down, the entire time I was paying, I could bairly afford rent in a shared house. Now I have a second child and we can not survive. When I do the work sheet online it says I shouldn't be paying anything. That can't be right. Does anyone know of an organazation in AZ who can help me with the paper work to get it lowered?

PS. Hes also got a judgement against me for back support during the time I was pregnant with my son and unable to work, I've fallen even further behind because the baby was unable to go to daycare until 13 months due to illness.

2007-02-15 16:38:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok....I'm black/white....I know many other people who are multitracial....


but what do people who are full race (full white...full black...full hispanic) think of multiracial people. If I told you I was black and white...but would you think?

2007-02-15 16:35:43 · 15 answers · asked by The_Resa 2 in Singles & Dating

I apologize.If I'm chatting online with a guy I've never met,take the correct precautions while doing such - no giving out address, phone no.,personal info that may track him to me,etc - and I've been talking to him since the beg. of Oct. '06,is this wrong:

Im over 18

I like talking with him,feel comfortable,relate to him in some ways

He lives in my area and Im sure (tho I won't say how) that he is who he says he is

He's a little over 10yrs older than me

Tho I *stress* the importance of being friends first,we sometimes talk about more personal issues

Question has arrived - if I should want to meet up with him and become intimate with him,would that be bad?I have never been intimate with anyone and I feel like it would most likely be him because I'm anxious to do it and get it over with,I'm quiet outside of family and it's mistaken as being stuck up. I want to experience that and lose myself in it.I feel like it wouldnt be a big loss

Is this something I'd regret?

2007-02-15 16:34:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want that girl to talk to me she is my collegemate she is very timid as a deer in her nature but she watches me all the time , when i see her watching me she acts as though she is not wathing

2007-02-15 16:34:12 · 5 answers · asked by viju 1 in Singles & Dating

My gf and I have been together for a while, I really love her... but the strange thing is we never really gone out for a date....sometimes i just want to go out with her, but she says she is too lazy or not hungry...what should I do? Is this weird?

2007-02-15 16:33:14 · 6 answers · asked by Lantis D 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this lady at work, she recently marry this guy but she claims she made a mistake, it appears she is or was attracted to me and I am definately attracted to her. One day we got together for lunch and we hugged and kissed, she is all over me saying these things, next day she is confused and ignores me, I started ignoring her too and she sent me an email asking me not to be that way, she claims is not easy for her to talk about her feelings. Since I like her a lot, I try to talk to her but she plain ignores me, did not reply to my emails, and I finally called her but she did not pick up, I just wanted for her to talk to me, I just said I did not appreciate her behavior, I felt as though she was laughing at me
was I played?
I am going to see her at work but I just going to ignore her and pretend nothing happen, I am hurting, what can one do? I don't know what to do, I thought she was sincere

2007-02-15 16:32:49 · 13 answers · asked by Mr 777 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am more than financially able to move out but the amount of money I am saving is the big reason. I have dated quite a few girls and none of them has seemed turned off by me living with my parents. I have lived on my own for years and know how to take care of myself but.... the money I am saving is great to have.

2007-02-15 16:32:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does he have underlying motives? what could they be?pls im so naive.....
My BF keeps making excuses 4 hurting my neck? what is he really trying 2 do, & get away with?
i told him dont touch my face, he keeps moving my face which causes my neck to unwillingly move right to left cusing me days of pain and in my shoulders, and neck just by him simply moving my face right or left unvoluntarily. i told him not 2 do this anymore and that its causing me pain, and he it now keeps happening and he keeps saying he likes touching my face. If your boyfriend gives you a box of opened, all ready eaten chocolates, could he be trying 2 poison you?
FOR VALENTINES DAY-2 months ago he told me he wanted revenge, and will not be satisfied until he gets it. he hurt my neck 3 times in the last 2 months and said it was an accident. they are fannie mae turtle chocolates some have dented, tiny holes in a few. maybe it was just manufactured that way.

2007-02-15 16:31:10 · 22 answers · asked by newport l 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys - let's say you've finally met or have the chance to be with the "girl of your dreams" or the "girl you want to be with". She feels the same way you do about her (she adores, cares, and loves you) and everything is perfect BUT she can't committ to anything serious because of major things going on in her life (finishing her degree, just things an individual has to do on their own to grow up and fufill their dreams). She doesn't want to "risk" anything because she's protective of this relationship and doesn't want anything bad to happen. She thinks she'd be more "selfish" if she tried to have a relationship, with you being number 10 on her "priority list" than - she prefers do finish what she needs to do before she can whole heartdely be there for you - do you think this is unfair?

2007-02-15 16:30:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance always offers oral but I often shy away from it. It just doesn't feel as good as sex and often feels wierd to me. Is it just me? Do some women just not enjoy oral? Or is there something different I can tell him to do?

2007-02-15 16:27:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy for about 4 years, we have never said I loe you to each other, he cheated on me about 6 months agao and I caught him, I went back to him and then I found out he went out with the same girl again, he told me that he would never do it again, then I caught him answering personal ads on the computer for nostrings attached, what do I do, I really care about him but he is not paying attention to me unless we are having sex, no affection, no emotions, is this just him or is he just using me, I need help in deciding what to do, I broke up with him on Saturday and it's killing me?

2007-02-15 16:27:36 · 14 answers · asked by dolphin 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my mom have a strong relationship. We love each other alot. But, we have fights because I always prove her wrong. She doesnt like it when she proved wrong. I raise my voice, but don't shout. Today, she said I got sick again and that i don't wear thick jackets. She said.. last time when you go sick, you wore such thin clothes. I got mad because it wasn't true, and I said I DID WEAR THICK CLOTHING. then she got extremley mad, and seirously went crazy. She started crying.. talking really loud when I was in my room. I came out to the kitchen, and told her why I was mad. The reason was because the thing she said wasn't true. Then she went crazy again.. and like kneeled on the floor and said GOD PUNISH ME THEN! SHE SAID I LIED! PUNISH ME! and started bowing but hitting her head on the ground. I was like.. WHAT ARE U DOING MOM!? Then my dad came in and yelled at told me everything was my fault and that I am hard to raise. All i did was state the truth. What do I do? btw, I'm almost 17.

2007-02-15 16:27:01 · 18 answers · asked by rebecca 2 in Family

I love people...PERIOD
Black men are the best but they don't know it.
In my mind Asian men are smart but probably no smarter than most men.
Middle Eastern men are controlling... seems like they are.
Hispanic men are arrogant would-be Blacks. ..my opinion

2007-02-15 16:26:42 · 16 answers · asked by Jacks036 5 in Singles & Dating

She starts eating a lot of sweets when she has PMS. I am terrified at the thought she is going to gain weight - as we all know its a huge turn-off... Luckily she has really short attention span so everytime she is reaching for ice-cream I call her cell phone from a private number and hang up... Then she forgets to eat it. But I need some fresh ideas.... HELP!

2007-02-15 16:26:00 · 18 answers · asked by Rona9 2 in Singles & Dating

sorry if words are spelled wrong. I was typing pretty fast!!

2007-02-15 16:25:59 · 1 answers · asked by susan 1 in Friends

I just recieved a refferal for cheating at school. my parents don`t know this yet. i`m afraid that my teacher will call or ask for a conference to talk about it. i don`t what to do. i really need help. i have this guilty feeling in the bottom of my stomach that feels like i need to throw up. i hate feeling like this. WHAT THE HELL SHOULD I DO?

2007-02-15 16:25:53 · 5 answers · asked by Nidhiwashere [: 1 in Family