Today was my senior class trip to DisneyWorld. Last night, due to my high sensitivity and the fact that I'm prone to anxiety attacks, I decided not to go at the last minute. I called one of my friends who was going and told her I wasn't going and to alert the teachers, chaperones, etc of this. I didn't tell my 2 friends who I'm closer to that I wasn't going cuz I knew somehow they'd make me feel rly bad for my decision. I didn't go cuz I was getting rly rly nervous and I just knew I'd get a panic attack cuz I had a nervous breakdown 2 yrs ago that makes me sort of leary of traveling...
My 2 friends that I didn't tell are so pissed at me. They didn't even call me today. One of my other friends did and I heard in the background one of the girls saying 'is that [my name]?' but she didn't even say she wanted to talk to me like she usually would.
I'm just so hurt. I REALLY WANTED to go but I just COULDN'T & I hate myself for that.
what should i do? how can i stop feeling so bad?
2007-02-15 16:43:33 · 1 answers · asked by newyorkrose9 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I didn't call them cuz I knew they would just make me more confused and more upset...so I called the person I did because I knew that they'd be understanding and have my best interest at heart...
2007-02-15 16:45:26 · update #1
if they are pissed off bcauz of yu, why don't yu just tell them why yu didn't want to go. mayb they'll understand. in case they don't understand just tell them tht yu are really sorry tht yu made yur decision without telling them. if i was yu, i would jus leave them alone for a while until they calm down even though imma b lonely. once my friend was being madd at me for me being madd at her friend. she told me tht she wasn't my friend anymore so i jus didn't talk to her for a while. now us two are back together, she kinda understood why i was madd at her friend. sorry i didn't help yu much and good luck...
2007-02-16 03:06:46 · answer #1 · answered by goofy's child 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋