Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

ex: the way you look at her? kiss her? how you hold her?

2007-02-15 16:24:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend and i of 17 yrs have not spoken in a year due to an argument we have not spoken in like a year due to an argument we had. I can't help but think about our friendship. i just found out she has a myspace page , should i e-mail her ?

2007-02-15 16:24:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-15 16:23:19 · 6 answers · asked by Jamie 4 in Singles & Dating

My best friend who is married and has 3 kids begin an affair with a single guy. He found a single girl to date but my friend is clinging and is very depressed and can't let go. How can I help her??

2007-02-15 16:22:42 · 16 answers · asked by friday 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi,
There are a lot of times when i want to like wrestle with my husband only because i feel like it's playful and a way to initiate sexual intimacy but my husband says it's annoying and he doesn't like it. Then one day our 10yr old walked in on us play fighting and wanted to join in. My husband spends 8-10hrs a day in front of his pc playing games. Do you think i am being to aggressive when i engage in this type of play? Do you think there is an underlying reason why i do it, or am i just seeking my husbands attention because he does spend so much time in front of the pc? Is it wrong for me to allow our son to engage in this as well?
Thanks In Advance to everyone who replies!!!

2007-02-15 16:21:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

To get over being dumped by someone you really loved? It's been weeks and I still get all emotional. I think it would help if I knew WHY? But, I never found out. I just keep getting hung up on or letters sent back. I think that is mean. At least have the courtesy to tell me why! Oh well, life happens right?

2007-02-15 16:21:10 · 20 answers · asked by Fireman T 6 in Singles & Dating

after a lengthy marriage, i find myself single. i don't have any close male friends or family nearby. do my kids need a male role model to succeed in life?

2007-02-15 16:20:36 · 9 answers · asked by dƒ 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

How much of the date do girls expect the guys to pay? I have gone on a few dates and she always wants to pay. I do not mind paying but then when we get to the movies she wants to pay as well. I might let her buy some popcorn but then she likes to sprinkls stuff on it that tastes wierd. When we get to the bowling alley he wants to be the one who takes off and puts on her shows? I guess us guys will never get you girls. Ha Ha

2007-02-15 16:18:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 16:18:17 · 6 answers · asked by Avenia's wolf 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend have a problem with her other friend. She felt that she was betrayed by her. What should I advice to her?

2007-02-15 16:17:56 · 14 answers · asked by Jeanus 2 in Friends

i am really shy and this girl who really isn't shy told me that she likes me. i don't know her very well but i want to have a relationship with her. she's a flirt though. and every time i see her get along with another guys so well it makes me really sad. (even though it shouldn't)i just care about her soo much. she's so sensitive and caring and beautiful and i don't want to do something stupid to make her think of me differently. it just confuses me when she can get along wit h all the other guys and not me. i did something for her for valentines day and she said she really liked it...but still i get mixed messages. how can i be sure she actually likes me? is there any sign i am missing? help please i don't wanna lose someone like her!

2007-02-15 16:17:48 · 10 answers · asked by joe p 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so I am in eighth grade and I broke up with my boyfriend (lets call him Stephen) then I got together with another guy (Blake) and I realized that I liked Stephan better. But he got a girlfriend (Stephanie) and now I dont know what to do. I cant even look at Stephan anymore. So now I am trying to flirt more with Blake and actually trying to like him more but we just dont have the connection. (p.s. i broke up withblake because he kept flirting with other girls right infront of me) So what should I do? Please help me.

2007-02-15 16:17:40 · 6 answers · asked by Brooke Zeo 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 16:17:20 · 8 answers · asked by blondie 1 in Family

This woman was divorced several years ago, they have two kids. Her ex was emotionally and minorly physically abusive. They developed a very common custody arrangement, which works well for the young children involved 6 and 7. Her ex is remarried with 2 more kids already (and possibly planning on more). What is happening is that he keeps taking her back to court, first to ask for shared placement (1 week 1 week kind of thing) the court ruled that is not in the best intrest of the child. Now not even 1 year later, to ask for extended visits (which would bring visitation just shy of shared placement arrangements) and a silly contempt charge over a trivial incident. My question- She is in a terrible depression caused by the ongoing emotional abuse, but won't seek help fearing that it will hurt her case. She thinks that it will show she is "unstable" But don't you think that it will show he is still emotionally abusing her? and the kids, because of her depression? Couldn't that help

2007-02-15 16:17:15 · 6 answers · asked by R♥bin 4 in Marriage & Divorce

He called me up at work to ask me if I would like to "eat in" for valentines day. Turns out he had a $5 gift certificate from a local pizzeria and I found out after the fact, he had asked his 17 and 18 yr old kids to go along. They declined.
We stopped by a dollar store on our way to buy something he said he needed. I passed by a box of chocolates and noticed they were left over on the clearance rak from Christmas and never really thought much except I wondered who would buy them now since Christmas is way over.
We finally arrive at the pizza joint and I notice him fumbling with something under the table. Next thing I know, he is under the table picking up chocolates he dumped all over the floor. He finally gets up and hands me this box of chocolates I just saw at the dollar store along with a card.
The card says something corny like " Happy Valentines day Sweetheart" and some other stupid old people stuff. He signed the card "thanks" Andy.
Would you be offended or what?

2007-02-15 16:17:11 · 3 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

would you pull down his pants, tease him and expose him or would you accept it.

2007-02-15 16:17:05 · 1 answers · asked by timmy h 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 16:15:57 · 8 answers · asked by -♥- onalou -♥- 1 in Friends

ok well ive been going out with my boyfriend for almost 3 months..but i havent seen him for 2 months because hes been in the hospital for depression issues.well i recently met this really great guy and i really like him..i thought nothing of it because i really like my boyfriend..but i cut my hair real short and he yelled at me about it, which i though was really f***ed up.also my boyfriend really likes me he claims to love me but i just dont know anymore...well the real question is...is it wrong of me to break up with my boyfriend for this other guy i really like, when i know this new guy might cheat on me.
and yes i know the obvious thing is too just do what seems right to me..whatever will make me happy..but i just want oppinions on this cuase i do need help.

2007-02-15 16:15:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she's a tease, yet she seems to be nicer to me... either that or im not watching how much she "flirts" with other guys. so what are signs that girls give to guys who they like?

2007-02-15 16:15:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I had a relationship for 7 years, been living together for 4. I got pregnant back in July..He was REALLY excited. We live in Louisiana but his dad offered him a job on Wyoming. We had been fighting alot because of my hormones..His dad called last month and stated that the job wouldn't be there for long. So me and him agreed for him to move up there, then me and the baby would follow. He called me 2 weeks ago and broke up with me over the phone. Just saying that It can't work but he is still in love/and loves me. I don't know if he is scared or overwhelmed. He wasn't calling alot until last week..He calls alot now and I try not to answer, he called me yesterday to wish me a happy v-day..He hasn't called me today and it makes me upset...Do you think he will come back? I know there is no way you can answer it for sure but given what I told you, I was wondering what your opinion could be. We pretty much had a good relationship, everyone goes through some tough times I guess.

2007-02-15 16:15:08 · 10 answers · asked by angelsdeath420 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Person X (can't say) told a random guy at the bar whom she talked to ALL night that if she weren't engaged she'd go home with him... and then gave him her number which I think was her real number...

2007-02-15 16:14:29 · 16 answers · asked by Shannon Kay 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, want to know something do guys just have sex for the fun of it. Or Do they really like the person their having sex with? I want to know because It happen to someone i know n just want to know if he really likes the girl when their havin sex.

2007-02-15 16:13:38 · 15 answers · asked by LiL'BiNt 3 in Singles & Dating

my gf and i are ready to go a little further together (not all the way, but further) but we both are still in high school and live with parents and sisters and we can never be truely alone. we both want this but dont know how to do it.

we cant be in a car because its winter and its freezing and both our cars dont have good heating
we cant be in our basements because both of our parents like to "check" on us every once in a while.

any tricks or advice?
thank you soo much!!

2007-02-15 16:13:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it a good thing?

2007-02-15 16:12:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex contacted me again after not seeing or speaking to eachother for 4 years(we had a clean split we just didn't have the opportunity to keep in touch.) he's now married and has a kid. he said he has never stopped thinking about me and never stopped loving me. i feel the exact same way...i know i shouldn't/can't do anything about it. any advice to what i can do?

2007-02-15 16:12:10 · 9 answers · asked by NIC 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 16:11:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I met a great guy and we have incredible chemistry. He's nearly 20 years older and lives in France. I visited him recently and sparks flew, but now I'm home and miss him terribly. We're hoping to see each other periodically (4-6 weeks?) and continue to date locally. We're both grown ups (I'm 33 he's 52)...

I dunno... do we have a chance in hell of making it work, or should I consider this more of a long distance fling?

Also: are there any french guys that can tell me about any stereotypes the French have about California girls? Thanks!

2007-02-15 16:11:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that when you'e on the first date with a guy you like you're wondering if he is going to kiss you???

2007-02-15 16:10:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We make out, that was fun for the first 5 or 6 times....but its not as fun after that. I've hinted around doing other stuff but she doesnt want to. Im getting a little bored but its not because im starting not to like her, because i do, I love her even more than ever....She said she doesnt want to rush anything, but then at other times she jokes about "other stuff". Im confused, sometimes i think she wants to do other stuff but then sometimes im positive she doesnt. What do i do? By the way, we're 16

2007-02-15 16:10:09 · 5 answers · asked by Ryu Kuramoto 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a virgin and have not been treated the best by guys, most guys just want to **** me because i am a virgin. why? what is it about virgins that make guys act like idots?

2007-02-15 16:09:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating