My fiance and I had a relationship for 7 years, been living together for 4. I got pregnant back in July..He was REALLY excited. We live in Louisiana but his dad offered him a job on Wyoming. We had been fighting alot because of my hormones..His dad called last month and stated that the job wouldn't be there for long. So me and him agreed for him to move up there, then me and the baby would follow. He called me 2 weeks ago and broke up with me over the phone. Just saying that It can't work but he is still in love/and loves me. I don't know if he is scared or overwhelmed. He wasn't calling alot until last week..He calls alot now and I try not to answer, he called me yesterday to wish me a happy v-day..He hasn't called me today and it makes me upset...Do you think he will come back? I know there is no way you can answer it for sure but given what I told you, I was wondering what your opinion could be. We pretty much had a good relationship, everyone goes through some tough times I guess.
2007-02-15 16:15:08 · 10 answers · asked by angelsdeath420 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I never felt like he wanted out..We had such a good time over the holidays, went on vacation and everything. It is like he changed over night.
2007-02-15 16:15:51 · update #1
You're right in sensing that he's overwhelmed, and I agree with you. I think the situation is very new to him, and eventually he'll come to his senses. Of course you guys will get back together, I think there's too much history between the two of you!! I don't think it's fair for you to avoid his calls though, you miss him just as much as he misses you, that's why you get upset, so why punish yourselves? Just stay true to yourself and your feelings and everything will work itself out.
2007-02-15 16:30:14 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Knowitall 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He did change overnight, the question is why?
It seems you guys have a lot of immature things going on at a time when the baby should be the priority. You're fighting over hormones, you agree to relocate the family, he decide it won't work, He calls, he doesn't call, you don't answer, you get mad if he doesn't call..................STOP IT!
Call him and make the call worth the dime ($3.60 min.). Tell him whatever it takes to get back together. Because if you don't you two risk meeting other people, making more children and before you know the whole world will be screwed up.
2007-02-16 00:28:05 · answer #2 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you letting this boy treat you like a toy/yoyo? And then you get his calls and decide not to answer them. And now you are upset that he didn't call today. Stop being so selfish, and think about that baby you're carrying. You're going to be a mommy and right now you need to be thinking about how you are going to take care of your baby. This stress over your boy/sperm donor can't be good for you. Who knows if he will be back. So get your life together and make a life for that baby. Sometimes we women have to do it on our own. You don't always need a man to make you complete. Good luck.
2007-02-16 00:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by 2Bme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he calls you again, tell him to stand up to the plate and be a man. After all, a part of him is growing inside you. If he won't be there for you now, do you think he's worth having? I mean, if he's just up there working, that's one thing. But getting you all upset with the delivery coming up is not right! I can tell by what you wrote that you really love him, so I hope it works out for you.
2007-02-16 00:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by meteor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to say this but he not coming back. he got what he
want to say what he need over the -phone which was quite
wrong, he should have been a man a talk about what was going
on, you have a child together so he should have at least
respect you for being the mother of his child. i would not
waste time and wating around for him to call he might and
he might not. sound like he move on.
2007-02-16 00:21:57 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there are a very situations. 1. he is seeing someone else and wants to let you go easy, so he doesnt think he is hurting you. 2 he is scared and you need to be there for him through this. 3. he is trying to get things together for you two. you need to pick up the phone when he calls and talk with him
2007-02-16 00:20:15 · answer #6 · answered by Andrea 14369 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll probably comes back after he comes clean with what he's doing out of town and even tho he knows your suppose to go there,he's hiding something.Ask him to tell you the truth.Only then,can you's move on with whatever you's decide.Pretty cruel to break up over the phone,he could have came and talked to you face to face.You do have his child.You deserve that.I hope all turns out for you for the best.Take care.
2007-02-16 01:04:58 · answer #7 · answered by countrykarebare 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deffind your family, dont lose your self, if he loves u ,u can forgive something, but ur kid must grow up in a real family, and the word family can't have (distance) in its meaning
2007-02-16 00:22:26 · answer #8 · answered by osoris h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you waiting for him. He is deliberately hurting you. He does not have enough emotional maturity to be a father to your child.
2007-02-16 00:31:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"If you wade in your worries you will drown"..If its meant to be it will happen..Stop trying to control things that are out of your control..it gives you a lot of unnecessary stress
2007-02-16 00:19:52 · answer #10 · answered by Bad Mood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋