Why doesnt my girlfriend want to do other stuff?

Question

We make out, that was fun for the first 5 or 6 times....but its not as fun after that. I've hinted around doing other stuff but she doesnt want to. Im getting a little bored but its not because im starting not to like her, because i do, I love her even more than ever....She said she doesnt want to rush anything, but then at other times she jokes about "other stuff". Im confused, sometimes i think she wants to do other stuff but then sometimes im positive she doesnt. What do i do? By the way, we're 16

Answer 1

She's just not ready to do more. I was the same way at 16... kind of curious, but just not really ready. It would be a mistake to push her for more than she's comfortable with.

Answer 2

Maybe she just isnt ready.
Im sure shes curious about it which is why she jokes or hints, but she may want to be sure she has no regrets. Dont rush it, it'll happen when the time is right :)

Answer 3

Consider this. True Christian women will not have intercourse until they are married. All secular women or women who fall for temptation have fallen away from their Christian belief or are not Christian at all, or think they are. It might be possible that you might have an assume Christian Woman on your hands that you should be thankful that she has interest in a secular heathen like yourself.

Answer 4

it could be many things. She could be afraid of going further... or worse maybe she dosent like you that way. I was talking to this one guy once and i told him that cause i wasnt attracted to him. Or Maybe she isnt comfortable enough around you yet or not ready to take it that far.

Answer 5

if you truely love her then you will let her decide when the time is right. chances are that she is scared and needs sometime. you are both still young take things slow