my ex contacted me again after not seeing or speaking to eachother for 4 years(we had a clean split we just didn't have the opportunity to keep in touch.) he's now married and has a kid. he said he has never stopped thinking about me and never stopped loving me. i feel the exact same way...i know i shouldn't/can't do anything about it. any advice to what i can do?
2007-02-15 16:12:10 · 9 answers · asked by NIC 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he didn't have a wife and kid, I'd say go for it. But leave that alone. Talk to him. Tell him you are more than happy to be 'just friends' with him and whatever. But make it clear, JUST FRIENDS. That's my advice.
Good luck
2007-02-15 16:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it behind hes married, Kids. Think about his wife and his kids "dont get involved."
He might be having a bad time with his wife and is missing you and thinking of his past. There is a reason why you split. Recollect why you split in the first place.
I would let him go there is plenty of fish in the sea. Good luck
2007-02-15 16:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by Nat555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!! the guy grew to become into enjoying you, he had to ascertain the type you will react to what he did. in case you call him back amazing away he will comprehend he could try this.. i'd wait some days, then nonshalantly call and say you considered his quantity on the caller identity and basically had to ascertain what he needed.. save the verbal substitute small, such as you gotta flow.. maximum adult men are very intreged whilst women human beings blow them off.. they like a challenge.
2016-10-02 05:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said there is nothing you can do. There was oviously a reason why the relationship didnt work out the first time. Ask him what he wants you to do? Weather he was just telling you to hurt you or if he wants to get back together. Hope all works out for the best!!!!
2007-02-15 16:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by Kiara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing. He's married now. Leave it alone. Tell him it's not a good idea for him to contact you since he's married. If they split and he contacts you, you can reexamine your feelings then.
2007-02-15 16:17:26 · answer #5 · answered by itry007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truely love someone then you should do what you can to secure you relationship. this is strange. ive been with my lady for almost six years. im getting ready to go to jail for about five months and im letting her go because i dont want to think about what shes doing while im in jail. follow your heart. ask him if hes serious about being married. he may just want a peice of ***. a peice of strange. im sure he feels close to you and that may be why he wants to be next to you. he may feel a bond with you. i know when i leave my ol lady, ill hook her up when she needs. just out of respect. i know i can trust her. i feel your pain and wish you luck.
2007-02-15 16:25:00 · answer #6 · answered by lewismcneillis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is married leave him alone. dont take that kids daddy away. just think of how you would feel if your husbands ex contacted him and he still loved her. put yourself in his wifes shoes for a minute and think of how you would feel if your husband left you for an ex. our feelings for other people sometimes leave us without thinking of what kind of hurt we put others through. i would really think this through if i were you.
2007-02-15 16:19:14 · answer #7 · answered by MomOf2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, don't ruin his marriage. Don't cheat either. He's looking for an affair. Don't do it! Would you want to be the woman on the other end?
2007-02-15 16:16:12 · answer #8 · answered by coolchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat is he thinkin? he shud get divorced first, then call u if he was rly serious. in this case, he only wants an affair. dont talk to him nymore
2007-02-15 16:25:17 · answer #9 · answered by iyalcf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋