i am really shy and this girl who really isn't shy told me that she likes me. i don't know her very well but i want to have a relationship with her. she's a flirt though. and every time i see her get along with another guys so well it makes me really sad. (even though it shouldn't)i just care about her soo much. she's so sensitive and caring and beautiful and i don't want to do something stupid to make her think of me differently. it just confuses me when she can get along wit h all the other guys and not me. i did something for her for valentines day and she said she really liked it...but still i get mixed messages. how can i be sure she actually likes me? is there any sign i am missing? help please i don't wanna lose someone like her!
2007-02-15 16:17:48 · 10 answers · asked by joe p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her if you can call her and then ask when a good time to call would be. Start taking little Hershey Kisses to school - - maybe a small handful in your pocket and give her one every time you see her. Open doors for her. Tell her, "You look great today". Don't overdo it on telling her how beautiful she is - -- then she will think you are interested in her just because she's pretty. Smile at her a lot and tell her you hope she has a great weekend and then ask if she would be interested in going to the movies sometime with you. That will open the door to how, where and when.
Make sure you have good hygiene. Keep your face. hands and ears washed. Teeth brushed . Wear clean clothes and don't wear smelly shoes. Maybe a little cologne - - - but not too much - - - girls like it when a guy smells good --- it gets their attention.
If she likes to flirt - - and all pretty girls do at that age - - don't get an attitude about it. It may be that once she is in a relationship that she will basically cut out most of that other flirting with guys. If she becomes your girlfriend and she is as caring and sensitive as you say she is, then don't get jealous. No matter how much she laughs with other guys, you'll be the one to hold her heart.
Okay - - good luck!!!
2007-02-15 16:36:49 · answer #1 · answered by TPhi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you guys seem young and being in a relationship is very hard when you are young because honestly you REALLY don't know what your true feelings are.EXample: When I was a kid I thought I knew what love was and now that I'm in my 20's I'm like"wow I was soo dumb to think I was in love w/him!!''.I hope u get it.And being that I was a young girl I know what you mean...I felt like I was too young to be someones ''g.f'' and even when I was I didn't take it too seriously cuz it really isn't when your school aged....so thats Y she is talking/flirting w/other guys cuz she knows you guys are not getting married(lol) and she basicly just can do this & probably geta way w/it cuz you think u like her soo much and she probly can but u need to just talk to other girls as well so that she can see that 2 can play that game...j/k but she will get the point get jealous & show u more affection! trust me
2007-02-15 16:26:38 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow confusing, i hope it all works out, well if she said she liked you..go for it. I mean if you know for sure it would be better than driving yourself mad with questions. I think its terribly sweet that you did something for her on Valentines Day, just go for it..do what feels right ask her out, and the whole "getting along with other guys" maybe thats just her personality, and maybe she doesnt act that way towards you because she is a little shy to you, im sure shell probably act that way towards you after getting to know you..lol dont worry so much it will all work out for the best ;)
p.s. if she knew you cared for her as much as you have stated above im sure she would try to furthur the realastionship...good luck!!!
2007-02-15 16:23:36 · answer #3 · answered by ameeaiken31304 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't want to make a mistake then be careful in what you do. the reason she may not get along with you as well is because, like you said, your shy. maybe she finds it harder to talk with you or to be flirty with you because of that, she doesn't hardly know what to do. since she likes you the best thing to do is just to keep talking to her until you feel comfortable, then things will be smoother for you.
2007-02-15 16:27:41 · answer #4 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Given that you say that you like her, it's probably time to ask her out on a date. Sometimes you just have to take the plunge and see where things lead to. I wish you the very best of luck.
2007-02-15 16:31:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me you are being played with. If she really liked you, she would spend more time with you than others. There is also the possibility you may have misunderstood. Did she say she liked you as a friend or with that attitude? or did she say she liked you and follow up with a kiss?
2007-02-15 16:23:17 · answer #6 · answered by phoenix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her if you could go on a date ask her if she is having a good time wait for the right time ask to be her boy friend keep dating and you might have a happy life.
2007-02-15 16:22:40 · answer #7 · answered by charles m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful, you are describing the character of a "flirt", she likey want attentions, but if you really interested in a flirt, be ready to pay the price, they usually have little attention span (oh i know).
incase you want to know.. ask her if she want a date. see her reaction. if shes really into it.. good for you, if she find excuse to drop it.. well.. sorry my friend
2007-02-15 16:23:09 · answer #8 · answered by Curious G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bye her a doz red roses. that will help.then you will no.if she really like you.
2007-02-15 16:26:23 · answer #9 · answered by romance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know her
2007-02-15 16:21:37 · answer #10 · answered by iyalcf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋