Ok so I am in eighth grade and I broke up with my boyfriend (lets call him Stephen) then I got together with another guy (Blake) and I realized that I liked Stephan better. But he got a girlfriend (Stephanie) and now I dont know what to do. I cant even look at Stephan anymore. So now I am trying to flirt more with Blake and actually trying to like him more but we just dont have the connection. (p.s. i broke up withblake because he kept flirting with other girls right infront of me) So what should I do? Please help me.
2007-02-15 16:17:40 · 6 answers · asked by Brooke Zeo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Date no one till you can figure out what you want...Your being unfair to your now BF and your ex....
2007-02-15 16:41:25 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like Blake is the wrong direction. Stephan has a girl friend now, and actually you should respect that. But if you are compelled to intercede, I would be subtle at first. Be friendly, more available, and more fun. I would not put Stephanie down as she might be a nice girl too. Just make yourself noticeable, have fun, be outgoing, but not cheap. You have to present yourself as a better catch than Stephanie. When she is not present, you can flirt more openly, maybe touch gently, things like that. If he finds you more fun, more approachable, he will likely make the change without too much effort.
Unknown factor - why did you break up with him before. Any likeliness of repeat? If so, put your efforts elsewhere.
2007-02-15 16:40:50 · answer #2 · answered by TopCatt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, congratulations on your exceptional grammar and typing skills. They're excellent for an 8th grader. Would you consider teaching the Yahoos here how to do it?
Hell I forget what the question was. Oh yeah... forget both guys and move on. Trust me, boys are like buses, there's a new one every 15 minutes.
2007-02-15 16:23:42 · answer #3 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your gr 8? geez, concentrate on school
stop causing problems, dump your bf now for being unfaithful, and dont even think about your ex, unless you want to be make fun of behind your back
2007-02-15 16:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by Curious G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in the 8th grade...do what you want...you will probly not even be with either one of those guys in the future. you are still young........
2007-02-15 16:21:16 · answer #5 · answered by MomOf2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't always have to have a bf ......god your only in 8th grade chill and have fun with your other friends.
2007-02-15 16:24:03 · answer #6 · answered by LoVe*is*PoWeRful 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋