2007-02-15 16:11:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
only if you don't mind them cheating on you again later on
2007-02-15 16:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by T D 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If they could forget about you for those few or many moments in which they were cheating on you, chances are they don't care for you at all. They may say they do and they may be very convincing, but the truth is you would be quite foolish to believe them. NO NO NO NO NO!!!!!!!! Cheating is NOT ACCEPTABLE! If they loved or cared about you at all they would have never cheated on you in the first place. And if they did it once, chances are they will do it again. There are wonderful people out there who will not cheat on you - try to find one of those people. You deserve better! Know that and believe that!
2007-02-16 00:20:26 · answer #2 · answered by jilando 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in second chances! Once a cheater, always a cheater.... I never thought like that until i was cheated on and then after giving him a second chance he went ahead and cheated again and again!!!!! I'm sure people can change and we are humans and make mistakes but i personally will never again give a cheater a second chance!
2007-02-16 00:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to be honest that is really your call. Do you love the person? I have been in that same situation and was in it for a year. It is hard to say cause when you love someone it doesn't matter to some. Some can forgive and forget and others can't. I wouldn't jump into things to fast. Give it sometime. See if they have really changed. No since in rushing into something and getting hurt again. Just let things go and see what happends.
Good Luck!!!
2007-02-16 00:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by Living n Loving 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was going through a mid-life crisis, I had to prove to myself that "I still had it". At that point in my life I had been married to a great person for 13 years, but wasn't thinking with the head on my shoulder's. (If you know what I mean) After having an affair and getting caught, I then realized that I had lost my best friends trust. My wife. That hurt. I didn't realize what I had until I lost it. She gave me a second chance and we will be celebrating our 25th wedding Anniversary this April. We are all human and we all make dumb mistakes. Weight the situation and say to yourself, does this person really deserve a second chance to get back into your life? In my case I got my best friend back and most importantly, I got her trust back.
2007-02-16 00:30:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really love this person and they are really sorry and shows that they are sorry. If there is some sense to why they cheated, perhaps give them another chance if this is the first time. If its not the first time then let them go, if they did it more than once it will happen again.
2007-02-16 00:23:08 · answer #6 · answered by Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been cheated on, so I know how it feels. My first relationship was the worst. I kept taking him back like an idiot, thinking I could talk him through his need to stray (in other words, try to change him). In the following three years, he must've cheated on me four more times (and those are the ones he told me about).
Here's my motto: once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater. Dump 'em!
2007-02-16 00:18:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, I did that about six weeks ago and it's breaking my heart. It's not worth it, don't take them back. Even if you care about them very much you will never trust them or even look at them the same way again. Then you can expect to told that you are being unforgiving and have a guilt trip put on you deflecting the blame on you and making ending the relationship more inevitable and necessary, but painful nonetheless.
2007-02-16 00:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, in all honesty, people rarely ever change. If whoever this was did this before, then there is a good chance that they will do it again.
But that's really your call to make. It depends on the individual situation. If you really believe them: then go ahead, give them another chance, but don't be surprised if they hurt you with it.
2007-02-16 00:15:22 · answer #9 · answered by Wolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you dun mind, still like the person and open ur heart to trust the person again. Even not able, times will heal. You will still have to give other people a chance to kn u and open ur breaking heart to trust others.
2007-02-16 00:20:07 · answer #10 · answered by ouch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will once a cheater always a cheater but if you love this person enough theres always the saying forgive and forget so try again
Good luck!!
2007-02-16 00:21:09 · answer #11 · answered by JAZMIN G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋