Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

neglecting your spouse, belittling your spouse, refusing sex with your spouse, never talking or listening to your spouse....the list goes on.
When you get married there are a lot of things meant in those vows. As I recall, I never said "I solemnly swear never to have sex with anyone else", but it was implied somewhere in there. Shouldn't everything I mentioned above be taboo in a marriage? So many people on here talk about what terrible people "cheaters" are, but how can they judge without knowing the whole story? To me, someone committing any of the things I mentioned is not holding up their end of the bargain, and yet if they were to be cheated on, it would be their spouse you would judge. Why is that?

2007-02-15 15:43:52 · 9 answers · asked by meh 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My step-son is 13 years old and he continues to lie to me about everything. Some of the thing's that he lies about is quite obvious and when I call him on it he swears that he is not lying. He get very angry with me which in turn pisses me the **** off. What can I do???

2007-02-15 15:43:32 · 2 answers · asked by Alice S 1 in Family

I'm going to be a bridesmaid in my friends wedding in july 07. (she'll be 20 & I'll be 19) I know I have to get her a wedding present, but since I'm a bridesmaid, we grew up together, & our families are friends, do i get her something really special?? I should anyways just cuz I'm a bridesmaid right?? How much should I spend & what should I get?? I have NO idea what to do.

PS: My twin sister is also a bridesmaid in the wedding, so we're pooling our money together to get her something.

2007-02-15 15:43:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

If you have a continuous casual relationship with someone...for like say...over a year...can you pretty much say that they are attracted to one another right?

2007-02-15 15:42:24 · 12 answers · asked by V i P b A b Y 1 in Singles & Dating

I hate thursdays. everything that i wanted to happen today didnt. in fact it went the exact opisite of what i wanted. my new science teacher was freaking out, everyone thinks any idea i have on anything is stupid or freaky, acourding to some people who are dream readers say that i feel invaded b/c i have dreams of aliens(english we talked about dreams and there meanings, and it happened that the teacher asked who dreams about aliens and i love aliens and i have had them in my dreams so i raised my hand. she told me what that ment and now everyone won't shut up about how i feel invaded) accounting is confuzing more than **** and art is the most frustrating subject. and when i want some alone time my friend won't take a hint that i want to be alone so i run as fast as i can home. and even after that she follows me home and i have to explain to her that i don't want to go and walk around with her and now i probably have lost a best friend b/c i "yelled" at her. i didn't yell. more:

2007-02-15 15:41:00 · 8 answers · asked by alien 3 in Singles & Dating

Hi and Thanks in advance! my (soon to be) ex wife and I moved to Australia about 5 years ago with a sum of cash to start over here. As we are getting a divorce soon, she has told me she would like half of that sum of money (of which we had none when we separated through no fault of either of us, Just living expenses). That sum would be a lot more than the total of all my belongings would be. What can I expect when this all goes through?

2007-02-15 15:40:48 · 6 answers · asked by Mackem Paul 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you run the vacuum cleaner around the house wearing only a thong so your husband can enjoy watching you work nearly naked? If so why? If not why not? Be specific. What would your husband have to say to convince you to do this for him? My wife will not do anything like this for me. I can't even get her to be naked around the house. Why? Any advice would be most appreciated.

2007-02-15 15:40:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is three guys at my school that always come up to me and say im watching you and it kind of freaks me out so i usaully walk away and my friends say they like me but two of them have girlfriends but they sit with me and talk to me but it just kind of creeps me out when they tell me that what do i do?

2007-02-15 15:39:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 15:39:15 · 4 answers · asked by klunk 4 in Singles & Dating

Me and this guy named Taylor went out and and when we were on a date he broke up with me for my friend and it took me forever to get over him. Now he wants to go out with me again what do i do?

2007-02-15 15:38:58 · 12 answers · asked by gigi 1 in Singles & Dating

i notice that i tell myself that i wouldn't make the same mistakes in future because i learned from the past and in the new one i make the same mistake again and again... and it just not me i notices this with my friend. they consistently make the same mistakes. for example they fall in love to fast, give in, take in the mother role, meet jerks, meet uneducated men ( no college degree even worse no high school diploma), come off to strong aka head strong, a little too sexual

2007-02-15 15:38:34 · 1 answers · asked by mickie1108 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 15:38:33 · 5 answers · asked by yogendra s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i'm 13 years old and my parents got a divorce when i was 3.my mom remarried and i have a WONDERFUL stepdad i'm his daughter and he's my dad!we're close and we love each other as if i really were his biolodgical(sorry probably spelled wrong)child.his real children(3) have not lived w/ him all their life,one moved in 3 years ago,but moved out last year(got married),another years ago,and one moved in when he was 7(now 21)but was sent to juvie,and moved out when he was 16 or 17. and he(my stepdad) tells me all the time i'm more like his children than any of them but.....like i said i am now 13 and biolodgical dad wants to have somethin to do w/ me now.I don't really want to mess w/ him b/c he's on drugs and he's not really stable he lives in a apartment w/ his brother.he has said this b/4 but he's only ended up hurting me and my sister b/c he'll call us for a week and then stop,then he'll write crybaby letters,telling how everybody does him wrong and nuthin is his fault it's so-and-so's

2007-02-15 15:38:12 · 8 answers · asked by ~♥~Tiffany~♥~ 4 in Family

Would you still talk to me in the morning.

Just wondering.

LiL EarlE

The Postal Service Rules

www.enterthecollector.com

"The Journey Begins"

2007-02-15 15:37:07 · 9 answers · asked by LiL EarlE 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 15:36:41 · 25 answers · asked by Aurosmita M 1 in Weddings

2007-02-15 15:36:34 · 6 answers · asked by Tom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK i told this girl that i dont want to date her i just wanted to be her friend, and she still hinting at us getting together it drive me nuts and i really dont care about her i am sorry to say that but my heart dosent feel anything for her even as a friend we have both diffrent intrests and lifestyles for us to match as friends and all of a sudden she wants to be all close to my heart wich she said and wants to get us to the point of me saying i love her ok i deleted her from my msn am i an a hole because i feel bad

2007-02-15 15:36:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey theres this girl that i like so much. and i appreciate her like shes the person she is. But im tired of this. Shes really cool. But all & everything i do for her she seems not to appreciate it at all. she just lives eeveryday like i dont care for her. its confusing. i quit. i asked her out today just to do something but she never gives me a honest anwser. she always gets nervous and tries to ingnore wat im trying to act her with something else. i wrote her song for valentines day SONG! and i asked her HOW you" like my SONG i wrote you" O i didnt have time to listen to it. that hurt me. im like wow you dont have 3 minutes to dedicate to listen to something that took me 10 hours + to make 4u . aggravating. im really getting tired of it and im nearing the end. wat should i do plz HELP.

-Anthony-

2007-02-15 15:35:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anthony V 2 in Singles & Dating

O.K- my husband has been unfaithful in the past and i forgave him..well i sent him a sexy email on our joint email account..(that i havent visited for years)..he uses it primaraly. well last week we went on it togher and the password was the same as it always was..WELL tonite i went on to see if he opened my mail as he's away on business and the password has been changed . I cant get into it.! Now ive noticed things off for a while..thats why i was trying to spice things up.. i called him and asked him why he changed the password and there was silence..then..'i didnt do it'..
that was 2 hours ago..and he still swears that he has NO clue what happend.. i have NO clue what to think! what do u guys think is goin on here? And has a password ever just 'stopped' working? i need some answers..please..

2007-02-15 15:35:01 · 13 answers · asked by lisa baby... 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I sit next to this kid in science class and i think he's funny and cute but i can never say the right things. I really like him but i always feel like everything i try to say seems too ovious? He likes sports should i talk to him about that? Do u know of anything i can say to make him think i might like him? and wat can i say to start a conversation?

2007-02-15 15:33:50 · 9 answers · asked by orangesmarty2600 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to find a white dress for a wedding...now i'm going to have a traditional nice gown for walking down the isle and so on but i'm thinking about having another dress for the dancing/reception so i could move more and have more fun. And all the wedding sites i've been on only have the traditional dresses. anyone know of any sites that have shorter not as traditional dresses for after the I Do's? Thanks.

2007-02-15 15:33:14 · 14 answers · asked by Kara T 1 in Weddings

my name is heather and i have a chick friend she met me on my space/We hang out sometimes. For some reason she lies to me about everything.Her name is linda.She lies about Where she lives ,her job, and she contradicts herself a lot too. Well I know i shouldnt be friends with her but I am still because I am confused about the whole situation. I took her to dinner for her bday and i met her other friends. One is just a party friend and the other is a nice girl like me.Her name is lori. Lori is Married and has a good job.Seems normal and i met lori threw her.Lori Lori and i were getting along great. I was wondering why lori was friends with the one who lies a lot to me (linda)Anyways lory and i got along great.she took pictures of us at square one and put them on her myspace. Well 2 days later she removed them.do you think that my myspace lying friend told her stuff about me? also why do you guys think shes lying to me all the time? and why does she have a decent friend if shes a liar

2007-02-15 15:32:38 · 8 answers · asked by sophie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-15 15:32:25 · 10 answers · asked by jennifer 1 in Singles & Dating

im 13 and in the middle school still...im not pouplr at all and i sometimes get made fun of..i dont want 2 bring a purse because they would think i would try to copy them....all my teachers love me and i really dont know what to do..any advice?

2007-02-15 15:31:23 · 32 answers · asked by Shay B 1 in Friends

My love and I broke up suddenly after he got back from war. I asked for signs if we'd get back together. I got so many that said yes. But he has a new girl now and well, yeah....
I always believed in signs but not sure that I do now anymore, and I still love him which hurts too.

2007-02-15 15:30:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont understand this, Why cant people date friends? They always want to date someone they dont know, I ask my friend if shes interested and she was shock when i tell her, and same does everyone that is advising me? why?

2007-02-15 15:30:39 · 3 answers · asked by Curious G 2 in Singles & Dating

There this one guy that I've been crushin' on like for 5 months nows..OMG...he's so hot...anywayz.....I don't know him....but I've seen him around school and I told him how I felt about him....He just got all cheesy....and red....but thing is he has a grulfren.....BUT...evertime I see him in the hallway he gets all chessy again...

2007-02-15 15:30:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my 43 year old half sister is obease and mean! i wrote a tacky email and accidently sent it... what now?

2007-02-15 15:29:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im 15 and ive been dating my boyfriend for two months and i have recently realized that i no longer like him anymore. I dont want to say that i wanna break up because i dont like him anymore... that sounds so shallow and mean! how do i say this in different words that sounds nicer?

2007-02-15 15:29:16 · 10 answers · asked by krissy 1 in Singles & Dating

This boy (if you read any of my previous asked questions) its the friend of the ex, who I'm unsure if I should spend anytime with, or consider anything in "that" sort of way, Called me last night I didnt answer because it was late and I was sleeping. I KINDA want to call him back, but am WAY nervous. Am I being ridiculous. What does this mean? I sound ridiculous

2007-02-15 15:28:48 · 4 answers · asked by sarajanicew 2 in Singles & Dating