Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

2007-02-15 14:56:21 · 26 answers · asked by luckycadmiss 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Without going into much detail. A situation happened to me 9 years ago when I was 17 years old. I was touched intimately against my will by a 32 year old man. I went to counceling for it once but never went back when the counceler told me "Is that all??" when I told her everything that happened. I have been in tears all night because I keep replaying the situation in my head. It has caused me many sleepless nights. Sometimes I wonder if it really isn't a big deal because he didn't rape me (there was no penetration) but the other times I feel that I am entitled to feel this way because I have the feelings of disgust, anger, sadness.

How can I get over this?

2007-02-15 14:56:04 · 9 answers · asked by Angela G 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i really love this girl, but she doesnt love me back.any tips?

2007-02-15 14:55:47 · 23 answers · asked by Travis T 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend can't or wont express himself. we've talked about it a lot recently, and during these discussions he says that he will tell me how he feels about me, but then he still doesn't. and i don't want him to say it just because i asked him to either. i'm getting fed up of me telling him and rarely getting it back in return. i don't expect him to say he loves me, but just something. i'm seriously beginning to think that if he doesn't talk soon, i'm gonna walk. what do you all think about this?

2007-02-15 14:55:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i had been friends with this girl from primary school though to high school she put me though alot of stuff that upset me like hurting herself in front of me and hanging out with people who she thought were better then me (until they didnt like her anymore she would come back to me). i wanted to be there for her and i was we had some good times when we were kids just not all the time. until one day i had , had enough and i walked away from her at about 16yrs old and we have not been in touch for about 12yrs. She found me on a website and she sent me an email saying sorry and she wants us to be friends again i dont no if i should go there again. i no she is still unstable what do you think should i stay away from her or slowly become friends again.

2007-02-15 14:55:24 · 2 answers · asked by DJ 3 in Friends

so me and my love have been together almost a year ( i know not and extremely long time) but heres what happened, i know it was wrong of me and i dont know what i was doing but, we kind of "split up" but were basically still together. And he went out with this other girl, that he knew from like junior high, and he kinda "liked" her now, but we still act like were dating but he WILL NOT act loving towards me in public or where anyone he knows will see him.. he wont hold my hand and the online Facebook.com page i will tell him i love him and he will erase it so no one will see, but on the fone and stuff he will tell me he loves me and he just is confused right now about what hes going to do ( either stay single, or get back with me) later i asked about what he was gunna do and he keeps telling me he doesnt know. and this whole ordeal is just killing me, so i need to know wut to do now.. should i keep trying or just move on? he says he dosnt want othr ppl to hate him 4 bein w/ me again.

2007-02-15 14:55:07 · 4 answers · asked by jccolaw 1 in Singles & Dating

okay,im writing here because 110 characters is too little,anyways, i have asked many times how to know if a girl likes you,well im the 7th grade and shes always hanging with her firneds and when we do talk she looks at them and not me,only briefly,when she brushes her hair back(p.s. is that a sighn?)som like...what are other signs ?

2007-02-15 14:53:48 · 3 answers · asked by Phil D 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy friend of mine, that I'm developing a crush on and he's really shy, so I don't know if he likes me or not because one of his friends told me that he likes this other girl. But when he found out I like him he started to show mixed sign.....here's the signs he shows:
-when talking to me he looks at me for 2 seconds then turn away, as if he's nervous or something(so it's like he afraid of looking at me straight in the face and avoiding long eye contact)
-when we're alone he's always the one who's starting the conversation, like asking "how's your life going?" or "how's your morning?"
-when we're talking he smiles a lot
-he once called my name and wanted me to wait for him so we can walk to class together alone.
........so does he like me or is he's just being friendly?
P.S. He doesn't act like this w/ his friends, but often he's really quiet around everyone, and when we're in a group of friends he doesn't talk that much w/ me, but will only talk if I strike up the conversation.
----(I'm sorry it's long, but I'm really confused now...)--THANKS!!^_^

2007-02-15 14:53:47 · 8 answers · asked by Alinn 2 in Singles & Dating

I was at one of my friends houses, and I have a crush on her brother who is like, my age, and after everyone was asleep, he came out and talked to me till like, 2 o' clock. Then, when his mom saw he was in there and kicked him out, he came in at 6 o' clock and talked to me some more.
WE aren't like, friends or anything. More like, we know each other pretty well.
So like, does he like me or something? why did he come out there and talk to me?
His lil sis is like, 3 years younger than me and him (lol)
She just turned 12.

2007-02-15 14:53:43 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that everybody says likes me but I'm not sure. He always looks at me and smiles at me and he drank out of my waterbottle and he is just flirting with me. But there is one problem he is going out with my friend and it's the forth friend of mine that he has gone out with and my friends say hes trying to make me jealous but he says he doesn't like me so does he???

2007-02-15 14:53:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 14:53:19 · 7 answers · asked by becca O 1 in Friends

he says that he wants to "see other people" because we have nothing in common (which isnt true) and that he doesnt really get to see me anymore since he already graduated, i'm still and school, and when i'm not in school, he's at work... soooo... there also may have been the whole "i call him a lot" factor, which i promised not to do as much since i'll be getting a job soon too... and i always manage to get him to realize that we do have lots of stuff in common... we've almost hit the 2 year mark in our realationship, but i just need help trying to get him to realize that he's making a mistake... not to mention the fact that him and i are supposed to move in together so that we can go to college together...

2007-02-15 14:51:27 · 11 answers · asked by sillygoose1015 2 in Singles & Dating

ok me and this guy are sort of dating but not going out idk its complicated...but i was talking to him and so was my best friend he told her that he broke up with his last gf in august and that he hoped they would get back together which i knew the whole story behind it before that, but i thought he would have gotten over it by now..but some how it got brought up in our convo and he said i still really care for her and i wonder sometimes what she thinks of me. I know this probably means he isnt ready for a relationship but he still ask me out to do stuff and the other day he actually called it a date for the first time..if he isn't ready y is he leading me on? or is he ready and just doesn't like me like that?

2007-02-15 14:50:40 · 7 answers · asked by whatdoesitmatter05 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend recently lost her virginity and every time she has sex she doesn't like it, because she doesn't feel anything, why is that?

2007-02-15 14:50:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really love him, but the way he has been for the last couple of years is not good for me, which in turn is not good for our kids. Yes I will admit to being a little lonely and in need of some TLC which he has always done very well. I just dont know if I can perform without getting emotionally hung out to dry.

2007-02-15 14:49:40 · 10 answers · asked by sugarpunk123 1 in Marriage & Divorce

in a situation where u likea girl, you found out she likes u as a friend and dosn't wanna be in a relationship because last year your friend hurt her (love wise)

i really want her.

what should i do.
i already told her how beautiful she was and everything.........

2007-02-15 14:49:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have dated my boyfriend for nearly 3 years now. He gets me some of the coolest things for my birthday and christmas. For some reason I find it hard to shop for him. His birthday is in a week and I no idea what to get him. Some ideas would be really great.
Thanks

2007-02-15 14:49:19 · 3 answers · asked by rosetta 2 in Singles & Dating

Some of us girls have the world eating out of our palms. Why don't these girls want to hear it. Is it me or do they always pick some fluffy girl that sounds as hopless as they are for, Best answer?

2007-02-15 14:48:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend can't or wont express himself. we've talked about it a lot recently, and during these discussions he says that he will tell me how he feels about me, but then he still doesn't. and i don't want him to say it just because i asked him to either. i'm getting fed up of me telling him and rarely getting it back in return. i don't expect him to say he loves me, but just something. i'm seriously beginning to think that if he doesn't talk soon, i'm gonna walk. what do you all think about this?

2007-02-15 14:48:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 14:48:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well I didn't call her on the phone and I played it cool and I asked couple of days ago when we got out of class "are we still on for lunch"(on monday) she said "yeah, just give me a call". I didn't call her but I did talk to her for a bit in IM. The next time I saw her I ask her "so what are you doing on friday(asked her on wednesday) she said "oh, im going to lunch with my uncle" and says how she doesn't really want to do it and stuff then she said "just im me on aim and well talk about going to lunch". at that point I just didn't want to try anymore, this girl obviously doesnt like me enough for us to go grab lunch. She just keeps making excuses here and there.

My friend suggested that just stop trying to chase and and just tell her that she should call me when she wants to have lunch since obviously asking her for lunch isn't working.

Is she playing extremely hard to get or does she plain don't like me?

2007-02-15 14:47:58 · 2 answers · asked by John C 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 14:47:31 · 5 answers · asked by mikaelacupp 1 in Friends

2007-02-15 14:47:26 · 7 answers · asked by Carlos 2 in Singles & Dating

Be true

2007-02-15 14:46:18 · 25 answers · asked by wasupcorkyluu 1 in Singles & Dating

wat is the most important thing(s) or person(s) in ur life??

2007-02-15 14:45:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Parents(or at least mine) are really strict. It seems like everybody around me has more fun than i do. At school I'm really popular, but at home i am cut off from the outside world.It seems like all my friends got to parties and dates and movies, but i can't go to movies without my mom(it's mostly her) knowing every single detail. I am not even allowed to date, I feel like if I don't get experience now I won't every learn how to have fun. If my parents knew I was writing this online they probably wouldn't let me or I would have a big conversation/ argument about it. My parents don't let me go to new friends houses unless they have talked to the parents and I have to schedule over a week ahead! They think they understand what I'm going thru but the were born in Africa and lived their till they were like 17. (I'm 13). On the weekends all ican do is sit around and watch TV and visit family members. I want to have more of a life outside of school.Do your parents do the same; What can i do

2007-02-15 14:45:00 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

There's this guy who knows i like him and i just want to know if he likes me back or not, but it's hard to tell since the only sign he gives is staring at me sometimes
he's known to be REALLY shy and i'm really shy when im around him too.
guys are so confusing...:/

2007-02-15 14:44:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

last night I felt like 2, I took 'em cause they were small.....

2007-02-15 14:44:31 · 5 answers · asked by reaganontherock 2 in Singles & Dating

Yes, I'm addicted to internet gambling and I gave up a lucrative job at an ad agency to pursue my dream of being the worlds best internet gambler..here is the problem..I sent my wife to a second job ( at 7-11 ) because I've been on a bad streak and need the extra cash to pay off my visa. Now she's complaining that her and the kids are cold ( gas was turned off Dec. 23/06) but we have two space heaters..and the 7 year old twins are not getting their proper meals and the school has called cause their teeth are starting to rot ( lack of proper vitamins ).Does she NOT realize that this is just a bad streak and in no time I"ll win BIG/HUGE ? Then we can get the gas back on and get the kids to the dentist..Why does she always complain ??? I told her when she married me it was for better or worse, so she not only promised me, but promised God..I think she is out of line and needs an attitude adjustment..what is the best way for me to make her stop nagging and complaining ???

2007-02-15 14:44:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-15 14:43:46 · 17 answers · asked by luckycadmiss 1 in Marriage & Divorce