ok me and this guy are sort of dating but not going out idk its complicated...but i was talking to him and so was my best friend he told her that he broke up with his last gf in august and that he hoped they would get back together which i knew the whole story behind it before that, but i thought he would have gotten over it by now..but some how it got brought up in our convo and he said i still really care for her and i wonder sometimes what she thinks of me. I know this probably means he isnt ready for a relationship but he still ask me out to do stuff and the other day he actually called it a date for the first time..if he isn't ready y is he leading me on? or is he ready and just doesn't like me like that?
2007-02-15 14:50:40 · 7 answers · asked by whatdoesitmatter05 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not leading u on. He's enjoying your company. Just because he is spending time with u and calls the time a "date" doesn't mean that he wants it to go further than that. But maybe he does. You should ask about it. He says that he hopes he and his gf can get back together so that's a sign that he hasn't moved on but alot of people still have attraction to ex gf/bf. It doesn't mean that he isn't open to new relationships, though u should be cautious. Only way to know is to talk about it.
2007-02-15 14:59:28 · answer #1 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh why cant you just say sure i would love to go out with you. dont make something more complicated than it is. hes not asking you to marry him, just a date. hes not leading you on. he was open with you about how he felt in the first place. you are making too much out of a date. do you do this with every guy that asks you out?
2007-02-15 22:56:07 · answer #2 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be using you as a rebound, but he also looks at you as a good friend. he opened up to you and told you he still thinks of his ex. if i was you, id stay only friends with him for a couple more months and see what happens. he may start thinking of you more than his ex becuase he'll see that youre there for him.
i do not think it would be a good idea to date him right now though. he is not ready to move on, but he could use a good friend who could potentially become a girlfriend. good luck.
2007-02-15 22:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you keep him as a friend,because when someone openly talks about not being over someone,they are usally on the rebound and they are looking for someone to fill that void in their life.It's not fair to you if he still has feelings for his ex.You may pick up with him later down the road when your sure he's over her,that's if you like him that much.Good luck
2007-02-15 23:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by glorene b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you, but he misses his gf still. He's just thinking that it might be to soon t be "going out." that's why he hasn't called your dates "dates." give him time, he'll come around
2007-02-15 22:55:55 · answer #5 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out for coffee where the two of you can have a quiet conversation and you can get all of your questions answered.
2007-02-15 22:58:55 · answer #6 · answered by rubyred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him this same question face to face and see his reaction let him know it feels like he is leading you on and what his intentions are.
2007-02-15 22:55:27 · answer #7 · answered by mikeb265 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋