i had been friends with this girl from primary school though to high school she put me though alot of stuff that upset me like hurting herself in front of me and hanging out with people who she thought were better then me (until they didnt like her anymore she would come back to me). i wanted to be there for her and i was we had some good times when we were kids just not all the time. until one day i had , had enough and i walked away from her at about 16yrs old and we have not been in touch for about 12yrs. She found me on a website and she sent me an email saying sorry and she wants us to be friends again i dont no if i should go there again. i no she is still unstable what do you think should i stay away from her or slowly become friends again.
2007-02-15 14:55:24 · 2 answers · asked by DJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do you still care? I think you do.. give her another chance. But, dun put all your faith in her again. People like this...they might really have changed, or they may not...so give her a chance and see how things goes.
I have a similar situation, I gave my fren a chance, but it still din work out. Well...I have given her that chance, but she din know how to treasure it...and so we go out separate ways again...but I know I have done the right thing and thus, wouldnt feel bad again it.
Good Luck
2007-02-15 15:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by poohbaby2212 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone deserves the chance to redeem their self. If she never hurt you physically, you should give her the benefit of the doubt; assume she's grown up and matured and has better emotion stability.
Talk with her, see how things go and if it feels like its slipping back into a loop, then slowly slip away. If not, it may be the rebirth of a great friendship
2007-02-15 22:59:55 · answer #2 · answered by toronto_leafs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋