2007-02-15 14:56:21 · 26 answers · asked by luckycadmiss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you're both under 65 and not working two jobs--YES!
2007-02-15 14:59:59 · answer #1 · answered by Restless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who's only having sex once every six months, and he's only been married for 18 months. Yep, if you're wanting it more or your partner is, then your marriage is in trouble.
It all depends on how long you've been married, how old you are, what your sex life was like before, what the reasons behind not doing it more often are. If one of you is requiring more than the other is willing to give, there may definitely be a compatibility problem. Talk to your partner, see if they feel the same as you.
2007-02-15 15:06:47 · answer #2 · answered by meh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends in your situation. If both of you are working more than 40 hours a week and you have to take care of house holds and children, I bet all you want is a good night sleep and not sex. I mean if you have ot pass thru this it is good. But make sure you will have that time again where you two can be intiamte more frequently. And again, I am not married and single, two months pass away without me even thinking about sex. Imagine I am 26 and single not thinking about it for 2 months. So no biggy. After all you didnt't get married to have sex.
2007-02-15 15:06:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That could depend on a lot of things.
-How old are you? If you are an older couple (over 70 for instance), it would be unreasonable to expect the labido to be as strong as it was in your 20s or 30s.
-Are there any medical reasons that may be affecting you or your partners sex drive? There are a myriad of medical, physical and mental conditions (including heart problems, diabetes, menopause, etc.), all of which are treatable, but any of which could be an underlying cause for your concern.
-If it is just that one of you is losing interest in having sex with the other one, I would suggest that you both get proffessional marital help ASAP.
If you don't find out what the problem is (this usually requires COMMUNICATION between you and your partner) and try to understand and deal with it in a proactive way, I suspect that a Divorce Lawyer will be in your not too distant future.
2007-02-15 15:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by Class Act 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lack of sex is only one item. How do you converse with your mate? Are you having problems you have to work out? Are you of the opinion you're going to stick out the bad times as well enjoy the good? You could even check with your doctor if you think it may be a physical problem. It is not a single problem. You have many choices on how to work on this situation. You're not the only one who has trouble in this area. It happens to everyone at one time or another.
2007-02-15 15:05:09 · answer #5 · answered by rubyred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how often you both want sex. If you are both only wanting to have sex every 6 weeks you are probably fine. Look at other aspects of your marriage too. Do you still talk? When you have a good or bad day who is the first person you want to talk to about it?
2007-02-15 15:01:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your marriage is not in trouble unless one of you are not satisfied with each other. In other words, if you two are communicating well and discussed this matter honestly with each other and decided to have sex every 6-7 weeks, your marriage is just perfect.
If there is no understanding and lack of honest communication and one partner is wanting more often, but the other is not demanding or unwilling to have sex as often as the partner wants then you sould think about it twice.
2007-02-15 14:59:17 · answer #7 · answered by purplemollies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your marriage is not in trouble as long as u r both satisfied with it.. If it is ok for u to have sex every 6 weeks and u r happy with it, then u've got a healthy marriage coz u r both satisfied... sex isn't all there is in marriage
2007-02-15 15:06:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for starters, how long have you been married? Infatuation goes away over time. That is perfectly normal. If it really bothers you, talk to your spouse. He/she could be feeling the same way, but also afraid to talk about it.Or perhaps it circumstance and has nothing to do with you. Just talk about it. I'm sure you'll get peace of mind that way
2007-02-15 15:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by aerowrite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-10 16:19:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants it more often and you are the reason for the lack of sex, yes you are in trouble. If you both don't care to have sex, then no you are getting what you want.
2007-02-15 15:02:10 · answer #11 · answered by duncabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋