Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

i like this guy and he always said love ya or love ya honey and when i didnt say it back he got mad so what should i do should i ask if he likes me or should i let him ask me first and just to let you know i am afriad it is a joke that he is playing so could you help me

2007-02-15 14:43:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I live in a medium-size town but there is nothing but stores and fast-food joints and some restaurants here. We have bowling alleys but on Friday Nights they are ALWAYS packed because that's the only thing there is to do around here in the winter. We usually just go back to his house and play video games or watch movies and cuddle and fall asleep, but we've been doing that for like two months now. I don't have any problem with going to his house and doing that but he can't always like to just hang out at his house right? We don't see eachother that often because we both work and go to school, he just started college actually and we've gone to the theatre too but THAT wasn't even that fun because all these stupid imature Freshmen kids were there. ANy ideas on what to do so that we don't get so bored?

2007-02-15 14:43:21 · 8 answers · asked by eve25 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Say you're a guy who knows a really nice girl online for about half a year that you're really fond of, both as a friend and possibly as more than that. You exchange e-mails with her several times a week and sometimes even more than once the same day. You also try to keep in touch by phone and chat with her when you have the time. And you and her talk about pretty much everything, both light-hearted and serious.

In the first several months, she shows some strong hints that she might like to be more than friends which she indicates may be feasible eventually, but then you feel that her interest slowly starts to wane over time. Then you send her an e-mail telling her what's really in your heart and she says due to the distance, she says she cares but thinks the best thing to do would be to be friends, and she starts contacting you less often than before although she still keeps in touch.

2007-02-15 14:42:17 · 6 answers · asked by 011 1 in Singles & Dating

well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and looks away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? she also trys to get my attention alot. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. does she like me?i've also been ignoring her lately. what should i do now?

2007-02-15 14:41:20 · 14 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't know how I would classify this, probably as OCD, but I feel that that's a bit more serious than what I have:

A lot of times, little, tiny things that don't affect other people bother me or make me anxious. For example, in class, if the teacher erases words off the board but doesn't completely erase it and little pieces of the words are still left - it makes my stomach sort of roll and I get little shivers down my spine and I want to erase it.

A lot of the times when I'm typing, I feel like I haven't pressed the R or L or whatever letter hard enough and I press it as hard as I can until it feels right. Also, if I touch something but I feel as if I haven't touched it with all of my hand, I touch it again.

These things don't happen all the time, but when they do I feel anxious and wary and I can't move on until I've touched or wiped or erased.

I think OCD is a bit more serious. What do you think?

2007-02-15 14:41:18 · 16 answers · asked by Christy J 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy friend of mine, that I'm developing a crush on and he's really shy, so I don't know if he likes me or not because one of his friends told me that he likes this other girl. But when he found out I like him he started to show mixed sign.....here's the signs he shows:
-when talking to me he looks at me for 2 seconds then turn away, as if he's nervous or something(so it's like he afraid of looking at me straight in the face and avoiding long eye contact)
-when we're alone he's always the one who's starting the conversation, like asking "how's your life going?" or "how's your morning?"
-when we're talking he smiles a lot
-he once called my name and wanted me to wait for him so we can walk to class together alone.
........so does he like me or is he's just being friendly?
P.S. He doesn't act like this when his friends, but often he's really quiet around everyone, and when we're in a group of friends he doesn't talk that much w/ me, but will only talk if I strike up the conversation.

2007-02-15 14:41:01 · 6 answers · asked by Alinn 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and his ex-wife have joint custody but he is the primary custodian. They live with us Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday and every first weekend of the month. She has threatened to pick them up on Monday after school for his being late dropping them off to her today. What should he do to make her quit this kind of thing?

2007-02-15 14:40:14 · 20 answers · asked by Joni 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-15 14:39:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i think my girlfriend might be mad at me.
should i call her tonight, or should i let her cool off?

2007-02-15 14:39:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

finally got up the nerve to ask my crush(my trainer) to 'hang out". i text messaged him asking him that we should hang out soon and he text messaged me back ten minutes later...that he would, although it have to be the next time he gets paid because he's broke as a joke" quote on quote.. andas we conversated furthur he went on furthur to say that he's a shy guy when it comes to women because he's afraid or rejection.. I asked him does he fell confident enough to get with an attractive woman..and he said yes but usually and he's not in pursuit .. well, he said it depends what mood he's in...So I text messaged him about a job..he's suppossed to be hooking me up with get no return message,I even called ..no call


I know in the past he has invited me to his church group(but never came through on his invite)..and he invited me to workout with him(never followed through)..but he has told me that if I ever hang out to call him..so we can hit up a movie..so I did..

2007-02-15 14:39:16 · 5 answers · asked by Laura the Capricorn 1 in Friends

I was at one of my friends houses, and I have a crush on her brother who is like, my age, and after everyone was asleep, he came out and talked to me till like, 2 o' clock. Then, when his mom saw he was in there and kicked him out, he came in at 6 o' clock and talked to me some more.
WE aren't like, friends or anything. More like, we know each other pretty well.
So like, does he like me or something? why did he come out there and talk to me?

2007-02-15 14:38:52 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend always seems flirty, but i'm not sure if it's just being flirty or friendly in her own way, I'll let you decide. Well everytime we stand in a little group and talk, she's always looking at me even though i'm not talking, and she'll be facing me the whole time and sometimes staring me down. Sometimes she'll get very close to me to where her hair touches my arm. If i don't do something that satisfies her, she'll make a little pouty face, then laugh about it. One time i layed my head down on her side of the table just to annoy her, but she lay her head down on top of my back. Why does she act like this? I'M A GIRL. But she completely ignores me around her friends.

2007-02-15 14:37:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have never been in a real relationship

2007-02-15 14:37:30 · 7 answers · asked by gotta love fast willie #39 2 in Singles & Dating

wat do u understand about love??
define it....

do love always must come with sex(making love)?
how u noe that u met ur love partner?

2007-02-15 14:37:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

While I like this guy named Tyler and I think that he likes me but I don't know if I should tell him I like him.

2007-02-15 14:37:03 · 7 answers · asked by racalex2005 1 in Singles & Dating

see i dont want it to be so imberasing i want him to know that i enjoyed it

2007-02-15 14:37:01 · 18 answers · asked by cupcake 2 in Singles & Dating

I must admit that at 63 I am flattered but some of these 25 year olds are way too young. But I am flattered nonetheless. Just curious what do these young men see in 60 year old women?

2007-02-15 14:35:05 · 21 answers · asked by Karin E 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-02-15 14:35:05 · 12 answers · asked by taytay 3 in Singles & Dating

This crush of mine has just been apparently leading me on. he has been ignoring me lately and my friends (who are also friends with him) told me that the reason he hasn't been talking to me lately is because he hooked up with this other girl over the weekend, and he felt bad and was too cowardly to admit it to me. He did it after he kissed me and told me he loved me and everything. I'm heartbroken because we both liked each other a lot, and I finally thoguht he would make a move. He's been lying to me and said that he was "tired of waiting" for me to break up with my ex. But somehow I want to forgive him, because I really liked him. I'm giving him the weekend to think about what he did to me, and on monday I'm going to ask him if he wants to be friends or what. What should I say to him?

2007-02-15 14:35:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 14:34:40 · 8 answers · asked by I 1 in Singles & Dating

when someone you loved and cared about and still care about wants absolutly nothing to do with you?? This person was definitly in the wrong but I was forgiving, yet the person cant seem to talk to me and now told me doesnt' want me in their life. :( Is it shame? Even though this person is at fault, I feel very bad, and nothing I say seems to matter. I feel a void in my heart. Noone has ever been this way towards me and I hate this feeling, my feelings are hurt. Like I was wrong, and deserve to be punished. How do you cope? I feel like someone died. :(( Anyone been thru something like this or can relate? Why is this person acting this way?

2007-02-15 14:33:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this guy but he is a year older than me...also i dont think he would ever even like consider liking me and i keep hearing how much my friends love there boyfriends and i just want one also...what should i do about him??

2007-02-15 14:33:24 · 3 answers · asked by dodgergurl 1 in Singles & Dating

years ago i dated my next door neighbor. we broke up and recently he said he still loves me. i don't see him very often because of our schedules. i always see his mom and she always tells me how he is and what he's up too and whenever i see him, its at these important (specific) moments in my life. both our families would get along great. now my question is, what do you think, is it fate? and what should i do next time i see him?

2007-02-15 14:33:22 · 2 answers · asked by latina ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 14:33:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 14:32:56 · 4 answers · asked by CABB 1 in Friends

2007-02-15 14:32:43 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 14:31:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 14:30:56 · 14 answers · asked by I 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 19 and i am single. all i do work, i am to shy to speak to a girl i find interesting or i like.

i go every where by my self i do enyo going out all lone but i need a women really.

2007-02-15 14:30:48 · 28 answers · asked by kurdland 1 in Singles & Dating

See, I can see both sides of the issue. Alot of people say, what a girl or guy did in the past, slept with alot of peope, went crazy, etc, is in the past and their a changed person now. You know all that garbage that those reformed hookers spout when their trying to attract Mr. Right. I suppose I can understand that.

However, that arguement doesn't really hold up, because if a girlfriend of mine murdered someone and then ate their body (in the past), well, I think I would hold it against them, even if it was in the past. Same with if they cheated on their past boyfriend or slept with every man in cuba.

What's your opinon on th matter?



P.S. This question doesn't apply to my personal life at all, just random musings.

2007-02-15 14:30:27 · 12 answers · asked by Tyson 3 in Singles & Dating