well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and looks away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? she also trys to get my attention alot. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. does she like me?i've also been ignoring her lately. what should i do now?
2007-02-15 14:41:20 · 14 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, she likes you but, she's not use to seeing anyone and because she is, her friends don't like it that someone is interested in her and they don't have that too. Take it easy and show some interest in her, but do it slowly and in a gentlemanly way. Try some old timer stuff, you know, make her laugh, show some attention to her only, not in front of anybody, but definitely, take it slowly, show off, but just a little, don't scare her off. Then, if she doesn't respond after a long, long time, then back off. I'm sure by then, you will know for sure where she stands, and whether or not you want to keep pursuing her. Good luck.
2007-02-15 14:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by lisa z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's shy and the way you asked her out might have shocked her, It depends how you asked her out, If you told her You want to go out with me than that's the reason why she rejected, the right way to ask her out is by telling her you want to get together sometime and maybe she would say yes, But if you did ask her like I told you than the problem might be her lack of confidence maybe she thought her friends would make fun of her, maybe personal issues, but I would say don't ignore her give her another shot and if she rejects you again than just move foward and look for someone else.
2007-02-15 22:50:05 · answer #2 · answered by Vicz101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i were you i would try and talk to here person to person heres a tip never go through friends that never works she was more then likely talking it over with her friends and they might have been the ones to push her in the opposite direction so i would try taking the time and talk to her personally make sure you let her know just how much you actually like her and for her good qualities that attract you to her
2007-02-15 22:48:06 · answer #3 · answered by Holly W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She kinda sounds like me lol..the reason I do it is because I dont knwo if I like the guy and I wonder what my freinds will think of me if I dated him, ad also hes a huge player so I dont wanna be just another one of his "girls"....but i still look at him in class and stuff...but but i don't tell my friends to tell him wheter or not I like him, I do it myself....shes probably confused, give her some space and time..good luck!
2007-02-15 22:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by Juls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you already ask this question? anyway, she probably does like you if she tries to get your attention. but if you already asked her, it's up to her to make the next move. focus you attention on something(or someone) else. focus on your friends, schoolwork, or a club/sport/etc. if you just can't handle not talking to her or w/e ask her out again. she may have changed her mind but she doesn't want to ask you out.
2007-02-15 22:49:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what shes doing...one of her friends maybe asked her if she was seriously going to go out with you and just wanted to be "with it" instead od what she really feels....you need to talk to her alone. maybe on the phone or somewhere else...take her out for lunch or something so you two can talk about things
2007-02-15 22:52:21 · answer #6 · answered by leilani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i kno when i look at a guy a lot and look away and act shyish, i seem to like them, so, u kno it was her friends who told u, so mayb they had something to do with her decision, but idk, bu i think u should try talking to her, and if i was acting shyish, i would rather have the guy approch me, so yea, im not totally sure about if she does like you or not, but thats how id act sometimes if i liked some1! lol
2007-02-15 22:49:24 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably likes you and is hiding it or she is trying to avoid you because she said no.
2007-02-15 22:46:30 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude shes jest playing games. She knew you were looking befor and liked it know shes afraid that your not lookin. Jest ingnore it and it will change.
2007-02-15 22:48:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you, so confront her about it, when shes not around her friends. ask her for the truth, tell her that you do like her, and that if she doesnt like you to just be honest and you wont get upset, but be sincere about it
2007-02-15 22:50:38 · answer #10 · answered by mani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋