when someone you loved and cared about and still care about wants absolutly nothing to do with you?? This person was definitly in the wrong but I was forgiving, yet the person cant seem to talk to me and now told me doesnt' want me in their life. :( Is it shame? Even though this person is at fault, I feel very bad, and nothing I say seems to matter. I feel a void in my heart. Noone has ever been this way towards me and I hate this feeling, my feelings are hurt. Like I was wrong, and deserve to be punished. How do you cope? I feel like someone died. :(( Anyone been thru something like this or can relate? Why is this person acting this way?
2007-02-15 14:33:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just let this person go if they dont want anything to do with you. You cannot make someone love or want to be with you. I am sure you have heard it said many times that if you love someone you let them go. You cope one day at a time and if you need counseling and help to get past the pain of this then seek help for it. Hugs to you today and i hope things get better for you soon. I understand your feelings are hurt and that you dont see past the pain of this right now but trust me with time things will get better and you will get past this and be able to move on with your life. Someday you will find Mr Right.
2007-02-15 15:13:35 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you really do have to let go of a person that you love very much. Its a part of life. Its kinda like death except you know the person is still alive...just not a part of your life.
The first weeks hurt the most. Then proggressively a little less. Lost a girlfriend that I loved so much I cant even explain it, but she wanted to go somewhere that didnt involve me in it. It hurt for about what 3 years, but the way to get over it is to admit to yourself everyday that you can live your life without that person.
you can do it. I know you can
2007-02-15 22:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by whatwouldyodado2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if they feel that you were in the wrong for something,it only shows their own guilt.Maybe you would be better off without them, if you don't have someone that is willing to forgive you when your willing to forgive them for the wrong they do,then you need to move on and be with someone that's willing to be in a relationship where there's room for forgiveness.Sometimes people feel bad about the things they do, that they have a tendency to push it off on the other person.Don't beat yourself up about it,who knows he may come back begging you back. Good luck
2007-02-15 22:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by glorene b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi again, I feel when this type of thing happens
1) they feel the are not good enough for you
2) feel out of love for someone else
3) is depressed and does not know what they want,
the best thing to do, I know it is hard, to try to move on and find new love, it is the hardest thing next to someone in your family dieing, trust me, I know
2007-02-15 22:46:29 · answer #4 · answered by Johnny L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either they can't be with you anymore because it reminds them of what they did, or they did what they did because they don't want to be with you anymore. Sadly you will just have to move on. You put it out there to them that you will take them back, you can let them know you are not going to wait forever and that could speed them up if they do want to come back, but more then likely you are just going to need to take some time to get over it and move on. Sorry.
2007-02-15 22:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by HereIAm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... losing someone, whether through death or other means, is still a loss. Give yourself time to grieve and then let it go. If this person doesn't want you in his/her life, you've got to move on and eventually find someone who will love you and deserve you.
2007-02-15 22:40:06 · answer #6 · answered by selena n 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have felt like this too. and it is really hard to accept that someone doesn't care enough about you to at least try to help mend your heart. it sucks. I found comfort and understanding while watching the Oprah show one lonely afternoon. It really changed my life! here is the web address just copy and paste it.
take care.
http://www.oprah.com/tows/pastshows/200504/tows_past_20050427.jhtml
2007-02-16 00:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by rondalaurell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
email me i will tell you the exact thing im goin through
2007-02-15 22:47:57 · answer #8 · answered by can u ♥ moi? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give it more time.
2007-02-15 22:37:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋