finally got up the nerve to ask my crush(my trainer) to 'hang out". i text messaged him asking him that we should hang out soon and he text messaged me back ten minutes later...that he would, although it have to be the next time he gets paid because he's broke as a joke" quote on quote.. andas we conversated furthur he went on furthur to say that he's a shy guy when it comes to women because he's afraid or rejection.. I asked him does he fell confident enough to get with an attractive woman..and he said yes but usually and he's not in pursuit .. well, he said it depends what mood he's in...So I text messaged him about a job..he's suppossed to be hooking me up with get no return message,I even called ..no call
I know in the past he has invited me to his church group(but never came through on his invite)..and he invited me to workout with him(never followed through)..but he has told me that if I ever hang out to call him..so we can hit up a movie..so I did..
2007-02-15 14:39:16 · 5 answers · asked by Laura the Capricorn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
eh he's fickle. doesn't sound like he knows what he wants from one minute to the next.
2007-02-15 14:51:54 · answer #1 · answered by Dawnita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had the same thing happen to me. Just not a trainer, lol...and it was a girl.
Anyway, the thing that has always helped me to get through it has been to fall back on good friends. Go do things you like. Hang out, eat food, go through life because that stuff happens. That's what life is, you know?
Everyone has a different "coping" method, and i can't say for sure what yours may be. However, he didn't sound like that great of a person in the first place.
Don't hate him, don't be stuck on/to him, and especially don't shut him out. That's not ever good.
It'll take time, and it might hurt a little bit to think of what might have been. The only thing i can say to that is this: Don't think back. Don't look back because they didn't "follow through". Don't worry about it. Keep living life because wherever you are, it happens. And you never know; another one may just pop out of nowhere. You wouldn't want to be dragging your tail then, would you?
Stay positive and you'll make it.
2007-02-15 22:53:52 · answer #2 · answered by CABB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep busy. Be glad you weren't in there a bit deeper. Besides; business and personal life don't make for good mix.
2007-02-15 22:45:41 · answer #3 · answered by Joyce E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him hes acting pricey not rejection
2007-02-15 22:45:36 · answer #4 · answered by youngtwoheartz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want you. Take the hint,
2007-02-15 23:04:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋