I must admit that at 63 I am flattered but some of these 25 year olds are way too young. But I am flattered nonetheless. Just curious what do these young men see in 60 year old women?
2007-02-15 14:35:05 · 21 answers · asked by Karin E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To the negative commenters, I maybe 63 but I look better than many 40 year old women. I have good genes and take very good care of myself. Some say I have movie star looks but I cannot understand the attraction from a 25 year old. Everytime my husband and I go out dancing, I have these twenty somethings asking me to dance and if "we play". I can only imagine what that means. LOL
2007-02-15 14:48:01 · update #1
I'm about 24 years younger than you and found a 26 year old that "rocked my world - and not in a sexual way." The younger men are raised by good women who teach them how to treat a lady. They have a lot more respect and are concerned about your life experiences. Some may be looking for the sugar mama thing or generally they are attracted to you for various different reasons. I'll say this - Honey you still got it - and be damn proud of it!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-15 14:44:26 · answer #1 · answered by Martini Babee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Older people in general have much more confidence than those who are young. They don't mind giving a compliment where a compliment is due whereas guys your age may be a bit shy. The media has led many to believe that beauty has color. These lies cause minority women to become shocked when a man of a different race is attracted to them. Most fail to realize that the media is filled with white women who can only express their views. These women cannot speak for men because men think totally different from us, they only showcase what/who they find attractive, and most times it's not a minority. It saddens me to see women not understanding why a man of a different race finds them attractive. You should be able to look in the mirror and clearly see why. Men, unlike most women, love beauty. They don't necessarily care what color it is. However, society does play a major role in how a man may react to that attraction. On the other hand, older men have lived long enough and made enough mistakes and could care less about what "society" and the "media" thinks.
2016-03-28 22:06:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are actually 25, I'll call it like it is.
Either they see money in their future, or they are just being sweet or sympathetic to older people. From your question, it is impossible to tell if they are just being gentlemen, flirting, or actually asking you out, but I would say that if it is just one of the first two, then they are being sweet. Maybe you remind them of their moms, or even grandmothers, and they want to treat you nicely because of it?
Some of them may be genuinely attracted. (I am sure that you are a lovely lady.) In this day and age, almost all of the old boundaries are being broken, so attraction wouldn't shock me. However, if it is happening frequently, I am afraid that you may be noticing something that just isn't there.
2007-02-15 14:41:28 · answer #3 · answered by Bobby S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure about 63...nothing personal but I go to 40 max. I like the older woman due to the maturity factor. They know what they want from life and are over the "experimental phase".
2007-02-15 14:38:46 · answer #4 · answered by r1badairman 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Experience
2007-02-15 14:37:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL! wow, I can only hope to still be able to get 25 year old guys when I'm 63. You must have it goin' on! Honestly, if I were you, I think I wouldn't question it so much!
2007-02-15 14:39:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Experience.
At 17, I was the very lucky recipient of the experience of a 48 year old woman, whom taught me well how to properly please a woman in many different ways, even other than sex.
These young men are more than likely seeking a woman whom can teach them the ropes, so to speak.
So then it comes to you, teach them and perhaps gain some valuable experiences of your own, or, move on and leave them be.
2007-02-15 14:38:48 · answer #7 · answered by royalpainshane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-15 14:37:53 · answer #8 · answered by nice_boy4all_2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a 41 yr old like me did it will you still be flattered
2007-02-15 14:39:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's because they know that you are a sweetheart and that they feel secure with you in there surroundings and they know that you are capable of making it on your own so basically there looking for someone to baby them and you probablly would
2007-02-15 14:40:08 · answer #10 · answered by Holly W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋