Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

My friend is 22 and she has had sex with almost 60 guys and she lost her virginity when she was 18. Is this normal because I think I need to talk to her about this! She has been pregnant twice..2 miscarriages, had an STD and has been told me she has slept with half the starters on the university basketball team. And many times she talks about letting 2 or 3 guys all have sex with her! Is it my business to help her stop this??

2007-02-15 15:12:38 · 3 answers · asked by katalina 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am having a wedding in September of this year. I am going for the autumn theme and decided to have my bridesmaid dresses Champagne. I, apparently, went over this with my maid of honor (first cousin) and she seems not to agree with the color. She doesn't approve because it won't match her skin-tone. So I changed it to a Chocolate/Bronze color just for her, meanwhile the bridesmaid don't mind what color or dress I pick. Finally, I told her I am choosing an off the shoulder dress. And there she goes again, whining how her shoulders are way too broad. I am aware this is MY wedding, but I am trying to avoid conflict here. I can't let her have it her way. What can I do or say, in a polite manner, that she doesn't have a say in what I choose, or she won't be maid of honor.. but once again, in a polite way! Please help.

2007-02-15 15:12:08 · 22 answers · asked by Soldier'sWife 3 in Weddings

hey heres a little backround information about me. i'm 16 years old and currently in highschool and i just wanted some advice on what i should do. i'm the one pursuing/chasing after this guy right now and giving him attention. he knows im into him and i dont really see any signs of him being interested in me, but were not exactly "friends". what strategies should i use on him, what should i do??

2007-02-15 15:11:04 · 29 answers · asked by OMGJessica 2 in Singles & Dating

ask people on yahoo answers if i should stay with him or not? every little thing i say about my boyfriend, people tell me to break up with him over it. is it really smart to take their advice and do it? or do i try fixing the problem myself? afterall, i cant have a long lasting relationship with someone if i break up with him over every little thing.

2007-02-15 15:08:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm almost 30years old guy and just few months ago I went through a break up from a 5 year long relations ship....it was a major blow below the belt for me
the girl lied lied and lied last few months of the relation ship and totally destroyed my ability to trust another woman
I'm very independent person and I can take care of my self and do everything that woman can do
I can cook, clean, do laundry,iron laundry, fix a button on a coat basically all of the things that traditionally woman of the household would do I can do it to
so right now the only thing that woman can give me is sex....and lately I've been looking at women in that way only
I know that its shallow of me but I cant seem to get pass that
I could care less if the girl could make a good girlfriend, wife or mother to my kids no matte how nice she is
all I want to do is have sex and then ignore them and act like it never happened....whats up with me...I was never like that

2007-02-15 15:08:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 15:08:00 · 15 answers · asked by luckycadmiss 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey

I met a window in online and we shared our pictures and know each others feelings. I Love her and wanted to take care of her along with her kid(she is studying in 3rd standard). But she refuses to meet me in person. Daily we are chatting online. Any one help me how to make her to agree and she is afraid of the society.

Thanks in Advance

carthik

2007-02-15 15:07:49 · 25 answers · asked by carthick 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have three friends and we have a lot in common. all four of us are Scorpios, black females, college students ( almost there to graduate school). i mean we pretty but we seem to never met a man that we want but the men we dont want..we meet the same type hood guys who want to be babied all the time... i dont mind doing things for other people but im nobody mother.i meet guys who aren't mature enough aka not man enough and always wants me to play the mother role. and at times never settle down aka MR big.well my friend jackie meets the same type of guys who only stick around or want to deal with her when it convinont for him.my friend jen meets men who are selfish, self centered at time a MR BIG.my friend D always meets men who are just losers not even high school diploma, street guys.when we get together we talk about what we want in guy ( humor,education, manners) i even tried to date out side my race but still the same type of men. advice please! what are we doing wrong

2007-02-15 15:07:27 · 7 answers · asked by mickie1108 3 in Singles & Dating

i madeso many friendships.but they do not lost for long time,because i find many bad qualities in them then only! whether problem lies in me.

2007-02-15 15:06:49 · 11 answers · asked by gowtham k 1 in Friends

i was on vaction in ca and he took her with out asking me first then my 15 yr went and did one on his self cuse he wanted on . i'm not aginst tattoos but i feel they are to young . and she is my child from my first marrage. i think that i should have the last word on what is to be done with her. just like with his son i have always asked him first. then to top it off the family is going to come down so hard on me. i feel that no one gave me a choice on wether i wanted this kind of trouble . i dont know what to do i feel i cant trust him well any of them.please help

2007-02-15 15:06:30 · 11 answers · asked by b 2 in Family

i made my boy a mixed tape of his fave bands and hid chocolates in his room, and he didn't get me anything. it sucks what you all think of this?
also, anyone else get disappointed on v-day?

2007-02-15 15:06:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey guys, Ive been really depressed lately because of a lot of stuff I dont want to go into. (relationship crap) any body got any suggestions for getting over it? Maybe something adventurous or tough? Maybe beneficial to me as a human being? lol... Thanks. (i thought scuba diving but they want a grand for the classes) Yikes!

2007-02-15 15:05:57 · 15 answers · asked by hopes2graduate 1 in Singles & Dating

What's the time frame..when JUST Starting to get to know each other should a person return a text message? Or a phone call before you write them off as being a jerk or rude?

2007-02-15 15:05:02 · 1 answers · asked by Trish T 1 in Singles & Dating

cheek or lip?

2007-02-15 15:04:54 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like would it be okay for a woman to kill her husband after repeated domestic violence? Why?

2007-02-15 15:04:46 · 23 answers · asked by larathexplorer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he waits for me after class to walk with me in the hallways
he sits beside me if we go anywhere
he stares at me at class
he always makes kind of mean comments as a tease
he seems to laugh at most of my jokes

im not sure if he likes me as more than a friend..... are these signs too general to tell??
THANK YOU!!!!!

2007-02-15 15:04:23 · 8 answers · asked by Halomot 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm from the UK and have noticed a lot of men from the old British colonies like Canada, America, and Australia go crazy Asian oriental women, why is that? We don't have many Asian women in the UK so theres really no Asian woman craze here but I hear its huge in the old colonies. I Hear you see a lot of older white guys with really young Asian women.

Are Asian women that much sexier? Are they just less of a hassle?

2007-02-15 15:04:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I watch these movies but sometimes i think the girl is hott and sometimes the boy but in life i think they girls are pretty i don't know if im just jelous of how they look or im atractived to them... I know i like guys but im not sure about girls...

2007-02-15 15:04:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'll be 15 soon and ive never ever had a bf ever i know adults thik thats young but they should walk inside my high school...i feel so lonely and left out because everyone i know has a bf or has had one and i feel so bad. im not skinny but does that mean im not gf material? im a nice person but i dont really talk to anyone because they take one look and me and make fun of me. do you guys think i'll ever get a bf? is there any suggestion you guys may have other than "lose weight you fat ***"

2007-02-15 15:03:54 · 1 answers · asked by tweety girl 1 in Singles & Dating

They certainly don't want the mess that a man leaves when they are done...they don't want to do the dry cleaning...WHAT does a woman want?

2007-02-15 15:03:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I go to a Christian School with around 250 kids including elementary. Lately, some people think that me and my friend act "weird". We don't get invited to sleepovers, or many other small social events. We used to be very good friends with these guys, but then we got girlfriends. They both are very attractive, and we are the only 2 kids that have them. They have been taking up alot of time, but I don't know if they are worth losing my guy friends over. What should I do?

2007-02-15 15:02:13 · 10 answers · asked by Cole S 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay let me start by saying that i am a spiritual man...not just some jerky person. and i dont joke around about sex. but there is this girl, and i havent even talked to her...last year i thought she liked me for a minute because she talked like that but now I dont even know her, she has a boyfriend. but i feel so sexually attracted. what should i do?

2007-02-15 15:00:35 · 5 answers · asked by John Frusciante 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it okay to get a b oner when you grind?

2007-02-15 14:59:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is a deep sleeper and it often takes me an hour or so to get her up in the morning. How can I wake her quickly and without pissing her off?

2007-02-15 14:58:49 · 2 answers · asked by tallspot07 2 in Marriage & Divorce

See my friend wrote notes to this guy she likes and I was wondering was that a good idea for her to do that.

2007-02-15 14:58:40 · 6 answers · asked by racalex2005 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 14:58:34 · 6 answers · asked by ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 14:57:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What kind of divorce will she have to file for a guy who hasnt been back to the us for over 7 years. She also has no address info on him. He is definately gone though. He ripped off a whole lot of people including my girlfriend, and left the country. What does she need to do before we can get married??

2007-02-15 14:57:04 · 5 answers · asked by wubba1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and she always asks the stupidest questiuons, like "Do you really care about me, or are you just here for the sex"? Is she really that stupid? Of course I don't care about her and am only there for the sex. Are there any women that don't ask such philosophically retarded questions?

2007-02-15 14:56:52 · 3 answers · asked by reaganontherock 2 in Singles & Dating

ex-boyfriend will not realize that i don't like him that way and is pursueing and stalking

2007-02-15 14:56:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends