ask people on yahoo answers if i should stay with him or not? every little thing i say about my boyfriend, people tell me to break up with him over it. is it really smart to take their advice and do it? or do i try fixing the problem myself? afterall, i cant have a long lasting relationship with someone if i break up with him over every little thing.
2007-02-15 15:08:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do agree with carmie, however there are some things you need to consider. In every relationship there are going to be things that the 2 of you just will not agree on. That is life. Beyond the physical, most boys do not know what "love" means to a girl. Does he really want to learn? Can he see that if he really wants to be with you, then he really does need to cater to some of your desires. He needs to respect your point of view. Is he willing to ask for your advice? There are things that you need to know, or is it just going to be all give on your part while he does as he pleases. He should be putting you first. If he is being mean to you, you really don't need him. All of this said, you need to make your own decision, and yes you can. You can decide if he is worth your time, and effort. If he shows a willingness to not only show a desire to accept things you like, then he might be worth your time. If not, he never will and you probably will not be happy with him. I guess it's like having bought a car that is a "lemon", are you willing to keep it and risk your life with it and to always have to fix it, or do you want one that is reliable and give the performance that you like. It is all your choice. Consider your needs and desires for happiness first.
2007-02-15 15:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A LOT of people on this website don't give a crap. They just give a crap about the point system. That's why you just hear them say "Dump him" or "Break up with the jerk."
It is up to YOU whether or not you are truly happy in your relationship. Sure, take some advice from people on this site if you want to. Consider what they think if you want to. But really listen to your heart.
Of course you can't have a long lasting relationship with someone if you just break up with them over every little thing.
But only YOU know whether or not it's a petty thing. Have you talked to him about the things that bother you? Does he consider your feelings? Does he atleast try to change the things that bother you? Those are the things you should consider in your situation.
Are they things that you can really live with for the rest of your life? You have to think about that. Does he treat you with respect? If you really feel like he's wrong for you, do something about it. Atleast tell him how you're feeling.
And remember... if in your gut you feel like he's not the right one for you, you are actually missing out on an opportunity to be with someone who REALLY deserves you. Don't keep thinking to yourself that this is as good as it gets.
God has a plan for you. Just have faith in Him.
I hope that helped some. Remember... follow your heart AND your brain.
2007-02-15 15:13:07 · answer #2 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend,i guess u should listen to ur heart and not others.BUT donot think that if u break from him then will not live happily with any other guy.keeping that in mind donot compromise.life always gives another chance,may be a better one who knows!!!!!!!!!!.
Still you feel that he is the one for u and u can stay for the rest of ur life with him then go ahead.
Dear make a decision BOTH from your heart and mind,as afterall it is ur life and no one else.So donot be depressed or down ,but think practically and decide and choose the right way u think.
However i donot know ur story but by reading ur mesg i guess u r reaaly confused and in a big delimma.Anyways if this helps u,it is good.
Take care and all the very best.
2007-02-15 15:33:38 · answer #3 · answered by reena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Solve your own problems. Common sense.
2016-03-28 22:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u better ask it u'r self. cuz every little problems come to u,
u r the best person give answer for them. I mean u both realy know what's going on. best thing is try to do less mistakes. after
u can cary on u'r relasionship. less mistake never gives big problems. try to be flexyble with u'r boy friend.
2007-02-15 15:17:01 · answer #5 · answered by thipathni a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, go with your heart, not what some random person is telling you what to do. You make the decisions in YOUR life, not people from yahoo answers.
2007-02-15 15:10:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
you should listen to your intuition, if someone tells you that you should break up with him and you feel like your problem can be solved differently then do it, other wise you could regret breaking up
2007-02-15 15:13:00 · answer #7 · answered by kita 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on what he does, nobody is perfect. You shouldnt break up with him unless it feels right for you.
2007-02-15 15:13:24 · answer #8 · answered by Jeff w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all we can do is tell what we think from what we know...your the only one who knows if your happy or not...so you have to do some soul searching and see what you want most...
2007-02-15 15:12:50 · answer #9 · answered by Naib Link 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to live your on life and decide what you want for yourself listening to friends is ok and use their advice to help you decide what you want to do.
2007-02-15 15:13:06 · answer #10 · answered by Robert C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋