I go to a Christian School with around 250 kids including elementary. Lately, some people think that me and my friend act "weird". We don't get invited to sleepovers, or many other small social events. We used to be very good friends with these guys, but then we got girlfriends. They both are very attractive, and we are the only 2 kids that have them. They have been taking up alot of time, but I don't know if they are worth losing my guy friends over. What should I do?
2007-02-15 15:02:13 · 10 answers · asked by Cole S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yeah what she said!!
2007-02-15 15:05:32 · answer #1 · answered by Matty G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I have several thoughts that immediately come to mind, and I'm listing them below in no particular order. I hope they help.
1. They could just be jealous.
2. I would do what you think is right and what you want to do. Don't worry about what other people think of you.
3. You should never have to cut another person out of your life, because you have someone new in your life. Make time for your girlfriend, and make time for your guy friends. No one should ever give you an ultimatimum. And if someone is forcing you to choose, then they may not be a very good friend in the first place.
4. It may also be that you act differently now that you have a girlfriend. Maybe they see something you don't, and that you've changed without knowing it. Maybe they see she's not good for you, but don't know how to tell you.
5. The best thing you can do is talk to these guys. Find out why they think you're acting weird. Talk to them and figure out a way to improve or "fix" your friendships with the guys. There are many possiblities here. Talk to the guys, be honest, and be willing to hear everything they have to say, even if it hurts.
Good luck!
2007-02-15 23:13:17 · answer #2 · answered by taima_adara 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just respond to them in a kind way and continue being yourself. We as human are placed on earth for a reason and a purpose, not to like or dislike one another. So what if people think that your weird. You are just like everyone else. You have red blood flowing through your veins just like everyone else. Try not to let words bother you in any way. You are a human being and also you have feelings just like all of us too. The ones that are weird are the ones that talk crap about others. My friend continue being yourself. You don't need to change for no one. If you do change by all means change to your standards only!
2007-02-15 23:14:05 · answer #3 · answered by George 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey you know what just be yourself. in school i went out with a girl that was just two years younger than me and everybody thought it was wrong but love isn't wrong. i am myself no matter if i have friends or not. the friends i have are my friends because im just being myself.
2007-02-15 23:12:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the ladies ahead of me. Make time for both.
2007-02-15 23:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by rubyred 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what you can tell them...
"YOU LAUGH AT ME 'COS I'M DIFFERENT,
I LAUGH AT YOU 'COS YOU'RE ALL THE SAME
Man, just be yourself...we tend to hurt ourselves more trying to be somebody we're not. No need to impress or satisfy anyone but yourself
2007-02-15 23:05:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go and work out
Then when they do something that makes you mad just beat the crap out of them.
2007-02-15 23:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by derek-timm@sbcglobal.net 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hang out with the guys at night and the gurls at day.
2007-02-15 23:06:44 · answer #8 · answered by vulu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make time for BOTH of them.
Don't just be forced to choose.
2007-02-15 23:04:16 · answer #9 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Determine your true sexuallity, If you find that you rather have guy friends.................................. well.............that settles it!
2007-02-15 23:06:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋