I'm almost 30years old guy and just few months ago I went through a break up from a 5 year long relations ship....it was a major blow below the belt for me
the girl lied lied and lied last few months of the relation ship and totally destroyed my ability to trust another woman
I'm very independent person and I can take care of my self and do everything that woman can do
I can cook, clean, do laundry,iron laundry, fix a button on a coat basically all of the things that traditionally woman of the household would do I can do it to
so right now the only thing that woman can give me is sex....and lately I've been looking at women in that way only
I know that its shallow of me but I cant seem to get pass that
I could care less if the girl could make a good girlfriend, wife or mother to my kids no matte how nice she is
all I want to do is have sex and then ignore them and act like it never happened....whats up with me...I was never like that
2007-02-15 15:08:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have to say that your comments are disappointing - but I appreciate you are honest. First, please don't say you can do all the things a woman can do - if you can do all these "traditional" things then you can do some things more than I can - and I happen to be female. I find that in this day an age - to state these as "female" responsibilities is disheartening.
If all you want is sex - then at least have the integrity to be up front with any women you are with about this. There are women that may only want this from you as well - and actually appreciate your shallow, meaningless drool.
If you are wondering why you are like this - perhaps it would be wise to look at what other areas to which you are egocentric. If you are sincere and want to change, then consult a therapist.
2007-02-15 15:14:32 · answer #1 · answered by Monkey Lips 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a feeling that this is not as "new" to you as you say it is. I think that you've been independent bordering on selfish for a really long time and that she knew it all along.
Maybe use this as an opportunity to do a little self inspection - do a relationship autopsy and see what REALLY went wrong with you guys, not just what SHE did wrong.
2007-02-15 15:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me it sounds like your hurting and your building a wall up as a form of protection against getting hurt again. so you look at them as to what they can give you for the minute and forget about it because you dont want to risk yourself of getting hurt again is what it sounds like. And it seem like you just noticed all this.
2007-02-15 15:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got hurt. Give it time??
2007-02-15 15:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by squirrelgirl749 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you sound so much like me, we must be related. But what, exactly is your problem? You ain't goin gay, are ya?
2007-02-15 15:12:36 · answer #5 · answered by reaganontherock 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋