he says that he wants to "see other people" because we have nothing in common (which isnt true) and that he doesnt really get to see me anymore since he already graduated, i'm still and school, and when i'm not in school, he's at work... soooo... there also may have been the whole "i call him a lot" factor, which i promised not to do as much since i'll be getting a job soon too... and i always manage to get him to realize that we do have lots of stuff in common... we've almost hit the 2 year mark in our realationship, but i just need help trying to get him to realize that he's making a mistake... not to mention the fact that him and i are supposed to move in together so that we can go to college together...
2007-02-15 14:51:27 · 11 answers · asked by sillygoose1015 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, so i didnt mention that we are BOTH 18, BOTH in the graduating class of 2007 from our high shool... he is also not the type to cheat on someone cuz he got cheated on and knows how it feels... we have a very honest relationship...
2007-02-15 15:33:30 · update #1
omg. . . you people are so stupid shes asking how to get him back stop frekaing saying oh give up blah blah just cuz you guys are failures at getting a relationship back dont do the same to others......................any ways . . . umm try and send him a note with something really sweet remind him all the fun and loving things u guys have done together . . . hope everyhting works out xoxoxoxo
2007-02-15 15:03:20 · answer #1 · answered by Mickster 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give up. There's plenty of others in the world, which obviously he's discovered. Nothing is a bigger turn-off to a guy than desperation in an ex. Just be glad he's not exploiting you.
Just because someone's been cheated on in the past and they "know how it feels" doesn't mean squat. Sometimes they discover why someone cheated on them in the first place. There are several reasons why and how people cheat - at younger ages it usually is they like the security of an "official" relationship while they try to seek out another relationship. A fall-back position.
In almost all cases, someone who says they "want to see other people" usually already has someone in mind. Don't become delusional, keep your head on and it'll become quite apparant. Move on.
2007-02-15 22:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by wigginsray 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best way to approach this to give your bf some space for a while and for goodness sakes stop calling me so much. There is just not alot of things you can talk about in one day. Give your bf the gift of missing you.
"see other people" means hes grown tired of you. I'm sorry to break this to you but its either you spend time with him way to much by calling him, talking or whatever, or hes found someone to be with that makes him happier (could be anything, not just a girl).
You are blinded by your emotions, I really suggest you look at this from the outside and really think about your future with him..Your still in highschool and I dont think its a good idea for people at that age to move in together..not just yet. My advice is to give your bf some space and just talk to him once in a while and if he realizes that he made a big mistake, he'll come back to your arms and you guys will be more in love than ever.
2007-02-15 23:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by John C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Why would you ever want to be with someone who for whatever reason has chosen not to be apart of your life anymore? Can't you respect the fact he doesn't want you. Is your self esteem that low?
Move on and go to college with the thought in mind, As one door opens the other door closes.
To better happier times.
"Why worry... There should be laughter after pain"
Your' LL see.
Good luck
2007-02-15 23:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by Bluelady... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I didn't read your whole question........................... But a relationship is like and oral contract, you both agree to be faithful, love each other, support each other, etc.
If he want to see other people ........... He's breaking the contract. He's not your boyfriend anymore.
"Tip from the wise"
When a man say "he want to see other people" he is already doing it. (a sailor won't jump off a perfectly good sailboat to sail on another boat before he's had time to make sure it won't sink)
2007-02-15 23:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. if you have nothing in common you will regret the union.
Stand on your own girl before you learn to have a man take care of you
2007-02-15 22:56:50 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with b-illy. He has already graduated who doesn't want to go out with someone who is stll in high school.
2007-02-15 22:57:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't know what to say but the 2 year thing is very inportant see y he is doing this
2007-02-15 22:56:44 · answer #8 · answered by akon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP BEING SO NEEDY. feel confident in yourself first. then show him how much fun you have together. reshow him everything that you guys loved together. then he will notice what he is missing.
2007-02-15 22:57:00 · answer #9 · answered by annabanana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the healthy thing to do is let him go. if it was meant to be then he will come back on his own
2007-02-15 22:56:02 · answer #10 · answered by lvmassagepro 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋