my boyfriend can't or wont express himself. we've talked about it a lot recently, and during these discussions he says that he will tell me how he feels about me, but then he still doesn't. and i don't want him to say it just because i asked him to either. i'm getting fed up of me telling him and rarely getting it back in return. i don't expect him to say he loves me, but just something. i'm seriously beginning to think that if he doesn't talk soon, i'm gonna walk. what do you all think about this?
2007-02-15 14:48:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetheart, I can completely relate to you here. Relationships are alot of work and you've gotta think....if its upsetting you this much, and appears to be stressing you out; is it worth all the hassle?
Try giving it one more shot, if he doesn't speak you've got to make a selfish decision and choose what is best for your emotion and mental happiness.
Good luck
2007-02-15 14:57:26 · answer #1 · answered by toronto_leafs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in what way do you want him to express himself?
i mean if you really loved him, its enough that you are together,
and that you would be patient enough to wait for him to come out of his shell
but i guess youre not that in love to wait for that moment
so, yes
go away for a while and think things through
2007-02-15 22:57:25 · answer #2 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it will come in time but if you have been wiating a logn time i would dumb the dude its not worht it if your not feelign love or appreachiated find a guy thats right for you and that pleases you!
2007-02-15 22:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by J-Dep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long you have been dating & if how long you are willing to settel for this.
2007-02-15 22:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by charlie c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesnt apreciate you as much sa you him
then find someone who does
2007-02-15 22:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by WhatTheHell? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋