Would you run the vacuum cleaner around the house wearing only a thong so your husband can enjoy watching you work nearly naked? If so why? If not why not? Be specific. What would your husband have to say to convince you to do this for him? My wife will not do anything like this for me. I can't even get her to be naked around the house. Why? Any advice would be most appreciated.
2007-02-15 15:40:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wouldn't because I'm not comfortable with my body. Although I'm a very sexual person I'm very self-conscious about my body. It doesn't matter that my man constantly tells me how beautiful & hot he thinks I am....it stems from my own personal issues and past relationships. It has caused us some problems but we have come to somewhat of a compromise........I will be completely naked in the privacy of our bedroom but that's it....no showers together....no strutting around or vacuuming in a thong! Try to be understanding of your wife's feelings and maybe suggest she explore counseling for herself. I am just beginning that myself. Good luck to both of you!
2007-02-15 17:17:35 · answer #1 · answered by Nunya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would my husband have to say?
Nothing cuz I do what I want when I want to. I don't do it upon his request, most of the time. I do it when he least expects it. Add's more surprise and spice.
But I don't vacuum naked though. Have way to many window's for someone to easily walk up and see everything from the drive way. I think the UP's guy flirts too much as it is lol.
Don't force her. Allow her to be comfortable in her own skin and respect her modesty. Find other comfortable things and enjoy a fully clothed woman who can easily show off her body still and leave the "what is under neith" to be left into exploring in the bedroom or (around the house..lol).
2007-02-16 00:45:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would YOU run the vacuum cleaner around the house wearing only a thong so your wife could enjoy watching YOU work nearly naked? If you answered no, then why should she do it for you? If yes, then she should consider it.
2007-02-15 23:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would in a heartbeat, my husband thinks and tells me that I have the best body and that he loves my body and he can't keep his hands off it.... wait I might not get any cleaning done:P. I would because he would enjoy it and I like to be naked so.... You should talk to your wife and make sure that she understands how beautiful she is naked, small steps, she might be self conscious about something and if so, then talk to her about it and see why. If she has stretch marks kiss them, make her feel great in her body and she will be more likely to do that. Some people are just more modest then others. You can start by having sex with the lights on if you don't do that, or joining her in the shower, get her comfy with you around her naked and knowing that you can't get enough. Women love to be adored and you should adore your wife. You married her:).
2007-02-16 00:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by Hawaiisweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not do this because I have 3 sons in our home.
Your wife may not do those things because she probably thinks you are crazy or because she feels insecure about her body, the way she looks, or feels just naked without clothes on. I really don't know, you may want to ask her why she doesn't do those things for you. She probably feels better in the room where it is more private. But, if you two have kids, then that's probably why. Keep those private things in the bedroom until the kids are gone!
2007-02-15 23:47:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure your not the type to fantasize about other women while making love to her despite her wishes? DO you respect her when ya'll are out and about? If not then she doesn't feel like you deserve it. Make sure your intentions are good.
I would personally do it for my husband cause I like the way my body looks (slim/fit) and we don't have a problem being naked around the house.
2007-02-16 00:13:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she feels shy to let you see her naked. How long you been together? Let her know that you think her body is beautiful. Try being naked yourself, it might make her feel more relaxed about it.
Explain to her that she does not have to give you sex if she doesn't feel like it, you just enjoy seeing her naked body.
Good luck mate, I guess it depends on her personality.
2007-02-15 23:47:55 · answer #7 · answered by _Steve24 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would do it at least once if he really wanted me to. If I hated it, I probably wouldn't do it again, but knowing me, I probably would do it again. As long as no one else can see me, just him, who cares? If he made it known that that was his fantasy I might even surprise him one day when he came home from work by already doing it when he walked in the door. Why would I do it? We all need a little extra something to spice up our love lives, and that's something that's harmless and would make him happy.
2007-02-15 23:47:03 · answer #8 · answered by meh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you do housework naked...i'll do housework naked.
You cant force her to do something she doesnt want to no matter how big of a turn on it is for you. the more you push themore likely she will resisit. Let it go for awhilerevisted it with a pair of sweet expensive shoes and victoria's seceret thong...ya never know
2007-02-15 23:46:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about you go to work in a thong and your wife can sit and watch you work naked......gimme a break, i think you need to remove the "work" from the scene and you might get some action!!! Good luck!
2007-02-15 23:57:00 · answer #10 · answered by quest girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋