Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

I have been in a relationship with a married man for six months. I really need to let go because I think he is doing this with other girls. I am single and beautiful, yet I am clinging to him and never met him. What should I do?

2007-02-15 17:09:06 · 12 answers · asked by friday 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Because I haven't gone to her Uncles viewing due to work and her exhusband has, she tells me he respects her family, but i'm not filipino like her family and don't want to see a body that has been on display for 4 days now. Basicaly i'm not Catholic and don't grieve the same way. should i be angry that she don't understand?

2007-02-15 17:05:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Difference between man and woman? A woman will love a man to the point of lying about who she is, meaning; to the point of dating a man for years then cheating and not telling her man just to keep the relationship together. And a man will do the same on the surface! However when a real man commits, he will never stray, though a woman will continue to live the Lie for her Owen happiness. What do you think the difference is?

2007-02-15 17:05:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 17:05:17 · 15 answers · asked by atul 1 in Friends

2007-02-15 17:05:09 · 11 answers · asked by calgary shoes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this guy whom I have gone out with a few times before. For the past few mths, he would come talk to me on msn almost every night. Everything he did sort of hinted to me that he likes me, eg. fetching me to sch though we dun live near each other at all. He has weird msn nicks that suggests to me that he's probably interested in me. I'm not too sure abt this but one thing i'm certain of is his nicks r always referring to a gal he lks. However, on the recent v-day, he asked another gal out instead. Though after that day, he honestly told me he went out with another gal, he kept denying that he's gg after her and that they are just frens gg out. He told me he asked her on v-day eve, on an impromptu basis. I do not quite believe he doesn't like her since it dun make sense for a guy to ask a gal out on v-day if he only sees her as a normal fren, and what's more, it's obvious the guy is interested in a gal, so y would he go ask another gal out if she's not the one? Any opinions?

2007-02-15 17:03:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 17:02:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 16:59:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so this girl tells me that someone has a crush on me and i ask her who it is and she says that she isnt gonna tell me who my crush is. i tell her that she wouldnt have said anything unless she wanted to tell me who it was and she replies w/ idk who it is and that she doesnt know how she knew that someone had a crush on me. now this is by far one the most confusing things girls do. is she lying to me or what? any suggestions as to how i can find out the truth?

2007-02-15 16:57:20 · 14 answers · asked by jmon 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay I been w my bf for 5 yrs now we have are up and down like in every relationship.but am just getting sick and tired of him always telling me how stupid i am and calling me ***** and saying the worst you can imagine.things that make me feel worthless and then he has a anger problem he says cuz a piss him off and I can't have a intaligent canversation w him that why he gets upset w me.And then the worst part we dont havesex often either maybe every 2 mths and we live together. and to he don't even want kids. to tell you the truth he is a good man as far as providing for the family and loving my child. but how bout me he says he loves me to he sure can't show it.He says he shows it by helping me yeah he's been thier for me when I have needed him but I don't care about material stuff all I want is for him to act like he loves me. what can i do I really don't want to cheat but it's like they say what you don't get at home you will find it somewhere else. please help me

2007-02-15 16:56:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok we went out about a year ago and im a shy guy and nothing really happend and then we broke up but we stayed friends. well now i like her even more. and lately she seems as if she likes me to. but idk if i should ask her out and chance her not liking me and ruining what friendship we already have. please help. thanks

2007-02-15 16:56:26 · 3 answers · asked by deep 2 in Singles & Dating

A young couple I know is getting married soon. They already live together and have most of the household items such as dished, glasses, kitchen gadets, etc. What are some sort of fun luxery items that a poorer couple might not think to buy themselves becuase of money constraints? Just about every item on their registry has already been purchased. They don't need or want cooking items, cleaning items, or other traditional wedding gifts.

2007-02-15 16:56:00 · 23 answers · asked by stampadhesive 2 in Weddings

2007-02-15 16:56:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 16:55:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked her to help me ask him about the dance, and instead he asked her..

2007-02-15 16:55:15 · 7 answers · asked by sam3345 1 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes I feel horrible, but other times it just sort of happens.. have you ever been bad about keeping in touch with people you know are supposed to be close to you? Is this normal? I don't know..

2007-02-15 16:55:10 · 18 answers · asked by genuine♥ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-15 16:55:02 · 18 answers · asked by forest lover 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 16:54:46 · 7 answers · asked by stranger 1 in Friends

Is it true when a female turns 30 shes more highly sex drive?

2007-02-15 16:53:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to let my boyfriend know he's appreciated but i don't want to be like overwhelming or pushy, but i want to make him feel like a man and like he can do anything. If it were my friend or sister i'd probably just send her a card or something sentimental, but for him, I don't really know. any ideas?

2007-02-15 16:53:15 · 6 answers · asked by AmandaJanuary 2 in Singles & Dating

I say that her scabs and wounds are something she needs to heal and not just let heal. She will bring up guys from other relationships. She used to have several dogs in her yard and who knows where they went. I want a girl who, you know guys, she can feel it. I yelled and yelled at her outside her house. She finally woke up and did something about my pain.

2007-02-15 16:52:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a guy online, talked several nights and met him once. It wasn't a date or anything, he just came by to say hi where I was working. We talked again and decided to go to dinner. He leads a busy life with his job, kids, and community work. I called him tonight to confirm our dinner date tomorrow and got his voice mail. I presumed his kids were still up, so I left a message and called half an hour later at a time the kids should have been in bed, got voicemail again. He emailed me saying to call. I called, and he said he was talking to someone about a needy person they were helping and asked me to call back in a few. I gave him plenty of time and then called again, he put me on hold to finish the other call. I hung up. I feel bad for doing it but I am beginning to realize why his wife divorced him. It wasn't his religious committments, it was neglect. If a guy can't find time for you when you just met, just to talk, what does that say about anything else?

2007-02-15 16:51:32 · 5 answers · asked by hothumid 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 19 year old man, (getting ready to turn 20). I date a woman who recently turned 23(doesn't drink, which is awesome for me, don't have to take her to bars). No one thinks we're a strange couple, or taboo because well, I look (as told by others) like I'm 25-27, while she looks like she's 18-20 max. I know both our parents approve of our relationship (a little too much). But what strikes me as strange, is how my 21 year old sister got so much flak for dating a 25 year old when she was 20. Now, I know girls have more to worry about with guys, and an older man just seems like more chance for trouble, but the double standard is nonetheless striking. Ironically, she is now dating an 18 year old, which my parents are cool with (not that they really have a say in who we date anyway since A: we're adults, and B. we both live away from home) Anyways, any thoughts, comments, concerns?

2007-02-15 16:50:12 · 4 answers · asked by Zeppboy67 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 21 years old- grew up in a major metropolitan city in California for most of my life before moving with my parents to this small town a few years ago. I am nearly done with my first college degree (just a few more months!), work in a bank, do modelling on the side, etc. I am also aspiring to become something I always want to be: a lawyer. I have a very loving family and am very close to my aunts, uncles, and cousins. However, because I live in a rather homogenized small town, there is a certain type of culture aquainted with it. I have met many older adults who look down on me because (a) I am NOT married and (b) I don't have any children. And some people my age, who are already married with several children (no joke), view me the same way, unless I am just hallucinating. I feel like I have to prove, just because I haven't found a man who honestly loves me or because I am not a mother now doesn't make me less of a woman. Anyone else feel this way?!

2007-02-15 16:50:10 · 11 answers · asked by purringout 3 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend was spoiled by his mother, sometimes he is selfish

2007-02-15 16:49:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-15 16:49:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you noticed that occassionally you see a black male with a white female, but you almost never see a white male with a black female? Could this be an incompatible joining of pheromones or a cultural thing? Just curious.

2007-02-15 16:47:36 · 11 answers · asked by shkabaj 3 in Singles & Dating

ok i am a female, and honestly we all complain that men are jerks and all but as soon as a guy says something nice we become like men are the best things ever!
so why do we complain about them, and yet love them so much???

2007-02-15 16:46:19 · 28 answers · asked by shrimpy 3 in Singles & Dating

Yes, he kisses me on the nose and laughs a little. Why? What does this mean?

2007-02-15 16:46:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do guys think about dating moms?, do they get scared away? what if she takes good care of her child and is not looking for a "baby daddy"? is she datable?

2007-02-15 16:45:50 · 4 answers · asked by Jenelle 2 in Singles & Dating