Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

I am always serious about my study. love to read & want to build a better future as an Architect. everything is nice & beautiful around me. but sometimes i become frustrated. I start thinking what will i do in future, i'm not able to do anything good, i'm alone in this world, people around me doesn't love me( though it is not right). everything seems to be annoying to me. loose my confidence. it stays about 2-3 days and then again I become normal. I am a very happy person with my boyfriend. even he can't understand why i am so much upset though there is no reason. can you help me how can i increase my confidence??

2007-02-15 18:13:07 · 6 answers · asked by Cindarella 2 in Friends

I am just trying to be realitic here with my two previous questions but I get nothing but sour advice from people who appear to have been burned in previous relationships.

So why is OK to be wild while single, but then its taboo when married.

If people weren't such hypocrites during marriage, maybe they would last longer and the divorce rate would not be so high.

Did you girls ever think about that?

2007-02-15 18:12:11 · 15 answers · asked by Mai L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

that other persone really loves you back but has a special person already!

2007-02-15 18:10:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have this fear of fat girls, that i let my fear dictate what i says to female friends. i find myself constently passing fat jokes to girls who are not even close to fat. Im afraid that one of these days i will hurt someone. I dont know why, but this happens automatically.

2007-02-15 18:09:36 · 13 answers · asked by I LOVE YANKS & DESPISE REDNECKS 1 in Singles & Dating

iam goin to married a 42 years virgin lady what type of cream is good to use not to heart

2007-02-15 18:09:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does love mean anything anymore? I mean I've seen so many people say I love you and not mean it. am i the only one who thinks love is more than three words?

2007-02-15 18:09:21 · 10 answers · asked by ~*Zaidens Mommy*~ 3 in Singles & Dating

most of the girls in my group of friends have been rape victems. Others have come close. I'm the only guy of my friends that I know has been raped. Only 1 guy in my group knows about that though just cause he's my best bud.

Anyways why is it that I seem to unconsciously become friends with these people?

(Note: reason this is coming up is because I discovered another one that was. I'm sorta annoyed that I continually find out this stuff while dealing with their current drama.)

2007-02-15 18:08:34 · 12 answers · asked by rezruf 3 in Friends

...about sixteen different guys last year! Unless there are some she didn't mention. Several threesomes (2guys and herself), a couple married men, a few were strictly f*ck buddies, some were from failed relationships, and of course some one nite stands, too. Does this make her a slut? Some of my guy friends get laid all the time and would be very happy to get as much action as her. What I'm asking is-if you think she is a slut, is it because she's female?

2007-02-15 18:07:39 · 48 answers · asked by kissgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

I've met so many girls that "never do that sort of thing" but usually have one or two exceptions in the course of their lives. My question is what spurred you to do that? A bad break up? Too much to drink? Unbridled physical attraction?

2007-02-15 18:07:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok..ive been frustrated for years over this, is it just me? im 17 and a half years old. my parents still give me a bedtime of 10 sun-thurs(school nights) they dont let me go out unless im back by 10:30-11 on weekends, and if im more than 10 minutes late home from school there trippin where im at. i have to call them every second. i have friends NEXT DOOR and if i go there more than 2 hours during the day there calling me to come home. i have to sneak out of my house every weekend to do anything with my friends. and to top it off im a pretty good kid get decent grade's never got caught up or else i might be locked in the living room or in a bubble. there weird.

2007-02-15 18:06:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

When you have sex with someone that's not supposed to mean anything(no I'm not talking about strangers, I'm talking about friends), and after the sex, you love them and appreciate them on a deeper level, not expecting them to care about you or return the love either. That love and appreciation is strictly friends only. When they show they care about you, you feel touched and flattered.

Is that spiritual bonding?

2007-02-15 18:06:25 · 3 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 18:05:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I saw my ex-gf with another guy in two different locations on one night on valentines day. I mean could it be any worst. I mean really. She dumped me for this guy she hardly knows and I was with her for 1.5 years. (friends for another 1.5 years before). It is just so painful to see her with another guy. I am still hurt and it is almost approching 2 months. When she phoned the other day, I said it is just too much to speak to her and I decided to tell her never to contact me again. She said I was childish. I mean I practically lived with her in her townhouse for 7 months. Only for her to find a "better" guy and quickly move on. Is that not using someone? I thought we were in a solid relationship? I mean was I being used until the "right" one comes along?

2007-02-15 18:04:58 · 8 answers · asked by stephen b 1 in Singles & Dating

i hope u will mail me .bcoz there is only u who can understand my problem.and for u i think i can understand your problem

2007-02-15 18:04:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

These guys always ask me for sex...I don't dress that way or act easy. I hate it what can I do they are like flies..how can I make them go away?

2007-02-15 18:02:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

These answers will be crazy ones I'm sure.

2007-02-15 18:02:36 · 9 answers · asked by andyt 4 in Friends

Without them ever telling you they do?

2007-02-15 18:02:33 · 5 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i saw my ex but we were both on our own and all he did was star at me... he sent me a message saying hey. but i didnt reply. last time i saw him (just looked at him walking past!!) he told everyone we slept together... i asked him why he said it and he said so my b/f would dump me so he could have me... does he like me or is this some sick game in his mind?

2007-02-15 18:01:15 · 4 answers · asked by young, hot, and Aussie! (chick) 2 in Singles & Dating

just wondering.

2007-02-15 18:00:11 · 23 answers · asked by liliaceae_aletris 2 in Singles & Dating

You sleep with your guy friend who is still engaged to someone else and you guys still hang out, and hug and stuff as if you guys never did it?

NO NO it wasn't me just making stuff up lol./

2007-02-15 17:59:28 · 6 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Friends

as all of you know there was Valentine's Day and my bf surprised me with flowers anda box of chocolate and then after he got off work he took me to this restaurant called teh Cheesecake Factory and we had dinner followed by him shopping with me at Victoria's Secret and buying me whatever i wanted. no problem, rt? wrong! i ended up spending the nt. at his place and it was not that romantic. i mean we cuddled and stuff but we did not have sex. i was sort of disappointed yet my bf acts as everything is ok and that nothing happened. i called some of my friends and asked them if i was a turn off or if i did something wrong and all of them said that my bf was just tired but how i can tell my bf that heck 2 days in a row we are cuddling and nothing more and it is annoying me i mean you guys get the idea, ne help! especially guys opinions would help a lot!

2007-02-15 17:58:13 · 18 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm about to see my love very soon after 5 months... i need something sweet and romantic to say or do when i first see her to let her know just how much i love her and how much i missed her... i want it to be no ones ever done or said to her before.. .i want to make it very special.... its a newer relationship so nothing too serious just to be safe.. don't wanna scare her off! haha

2007-02-15 17:58:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

GUYS!! I asked this question 15 minutes ago, but when I say that I've never had a boyfriend, I don't mean that I've never had sex. I've had sex with 3 guys, but I've never had a boyfriend, and I am 21 years old. Is this weird, attractive, or doesn't matter? Would it change your mind to date a girl like this? Thanks!

2007-02-15 17:56:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am expecting my kid on this monthend. what is the best thing which I can do for my wife at this point of time. i want her to feel that she is the most luckiest wife in the world...

2007-02-15 17:55:49 · 17 answers · asked by menon 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a foreigner... I heard that there is a made of honor in a marriage. What is that?

2007-02-15 17:54:07 · 8 answers · asked by rachel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has done so much for me over the years I feel like I should do something special for him.

Given that he has never been with another woman except me, I feel like I should give him a threesome or something wild like that. I would like it to be a fun and no strings attached encounter for him.

I can tell that the fact that he has never been with another woman is starting to get to him. Especially since I had my fun before I married him. I just think it would be selfish and hypocritical for me to deny him that kind of pleasure. Plus I don't want him going to the grave regretting that he never experienced all of what life has to offer.

Why should he be punished for being a good husband to me all these years? The way I see it, he has earned it.

And please no bible thumpers or stuff about sacred marriage vows.

2007-02-15 17:53:39 · 30 answers · asked by Mai L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really do like my teacher. Im a junior in highschool and i think i have a HUGE crush on my teacher. He makes my day. He knows how to cheer me up, even if he doesn't know he's doing it! We have so much in common and I don't know what it is about him.
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Like this one time.. I went to his classroom and he was sitting down in his chair and I was standing by the door. He was "looking around the class" but I caught his eye and he was looking at me. He weakens me with his smile.

Also another time, he said "A way to pick up ladies is by showing them you got a nice ride" he looked at me and said "or the other way around". I wanted to make a comment back and say, "If i had a nice ride can I pick you up?" I know it may sound stupid but then just the thought of it made me laugh inside. Up to know im still curious to what he would have said if i did say that.

The bottom line is..what do i do? I mean he's young and HOTT!! Help Me...!

2007-02-15 17:52:42 · 17 answers · asked by We Match 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey people,
I'm lookin for a new online EMAIL friend. NO instant messaging, NO webcams, NO photographs,NO explicit stuff, NO cheap guys trying to make Girlfrnds, NO threats,NO ASKING OF PERSONAL INFORMATION etc. Just to talk abt stuff and share views.It would be fun if it is a person frm a diff. country. Preferably students of age grp b/w 16-22. Dont care if it is a gal or guy.Just clean fun & discuss abt daily issues.So Email me then.

Dont tell me to try networking sites, its not of my interest and dont tell me to meet a psychologist or somthin.

P.S. Dont take it too 'seriously', i was kinda bored so thought this would be a grt idea...... & don think im phony or stupid. Well, i deeply apologize if ny1 does'nt like such posts.

2007-02-15 17:52:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-15 17:51:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why does everyone get so jealous about things they don't have?, why do people bash others? Why do people try to put others down? Do they not have a conscience?

2007-02-15 17:51:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends