These guys always ask me for sex...I don't dress that way or act easy. I hate it what can I do they are like flies..how can I make them go away?
2007-02-15 18:02:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The quickest way is to service these people.
2007-02-15 18:05:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys have one thing on their minds...and you know what that is. Some...if they cant get what they want they move on to the next person...it does not matter what that person is like inside...how they think, how smart they are and how much they enjoy their company and talking to them. They have a one track mind.
There are others...that are not this way, but you have just not found them yet. You must be attractive enough to make them want to ask in the first place...nothing wrong with that.
To make them go away...well those kinds are never going to go away...but you can limit the time they talk to you by just being firm and telling them you are not looking for the same things they are...so they need to take the bus down the hall.
If some day they find out there is more than just sex in a relationship...then maybe you could be friends. Tell them that in as few words as possible...and walk away...they will get the hint...the word will get around that you are not that kind and eventually the numbers will back off.
2007-02-16 02:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by natashainka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My father told me that sex is always on a guys mind. It may not be a woman's fault at all, but we can't control what goes on in a guys mind. All you can really do is make it clear that you don't appreciate them asking you for that, but still be nice about it. There's nothing like making an idiot remember they are an idiot! Don't ever forget that!
2007-02-16 02:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by Honesty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell these guys that you feel sorry for them. Ask each and every one of them how would they feel if their own sister or mother would be asked the same thing by other guys. If they wont feel anything. Then something is really wrong with them.
2007-02-16 02:08:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww diddums. I can see how it would be a problem for you. But they must be getting some sort of signal from you. Ask a male friend if you do (unconsciously of course) put out any "I'm available for sex" signals. - Or don't wash or shave your legs for a few days - that's a sure way to get rid of unwanted attention. :-p
2007-02-16 02:11:27 · answer #5 · answered by rmxer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the problem, you can't make them go away. You have to walk away yourself. That's the only way they will get the point
2007-02-16 02:08:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. My mama always tells me: "Resist the devil and he will flee." Maybe you're just fly like that, or maybe they're just nasty, but as long as they aren't doing anything to deliberately hurt your feelings I don't think you should be offended. Ignore them, and know that you control your feelings and reactions...NOT them.
2007-02-16 02:09:17 · answer #7 · answered by melchuck29 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a restraining order on them. Good Luck!
2007-02-16 02:08:39 · answer #8 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always act like a lady and you will be treat as one .walk up to them and and tell them to grow up and you dont like their remark and asked them if they understood you then walk away good luck
2007-02-16 02:10:30 · answer #9 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop taking showers. Do not bathe for a month. And spend a lot of time around them. They will leave.
2007-02-16 02:07:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, when they keep pestering you. Can you hang out at different places ? Keep telling them "NO". If this is in the workplace, tell your supervisor, or your supervisor's supervisor. It is against the law in the workplace = sexual harrassment.
2007-02-16 02:10:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋