i have this fear of fat girls, that i let my fear dictate what i says to female friends. i find myself constently passing fat jokes to girls who are not even close to fat. Im afraid that one of these days i will hurt someone. I dont know why, but this happens automatically.
2007-02-15 18:09:36 · 13 answers · asked by I LOVE YANKS & DESPISE REDNECKS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. stop joking then
2007-02-15 18:21:23 · answer #1 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably have already hurt someone. Think before you talk. Weight issues are no joke and you seriously need to explore within yourself to find where this fear of overweight women is coming from...and fix it.
2007-02-16 02:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEEEESSS! You need an attitude adjustment. You really need to look inside yourself and think about why it is that a person who is "fat" is somehow a "lesser" person and somehow undeserving of your respect. You don't have to be attracted to them, and you certainly don't have to believe that if they are indeed overweight that, that is perfectly okay because people DO need to maintain a HEALTHY weight. HOWEVER, you have NO RIGHT to ride rough shod over peoples' feelings like that.
Let me put it this way...If someone treated you like that would you appreciate it?
...............I didn't think so.............
2007-02-16 02:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by melchuck29 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems u might be insecure...not trying to put you down but that seems kind of obviouse. Just try thinking before u speak and if it slips out correct your self right away by saying that you "didn't mean to that" or "man i need to stop saying stuff like that" it shouldn't be too hard to do.
2007-02-16 02:32:18 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait til you get married and ur lady gets "fat". see what she does when you throw a "fat" joke at her.....
but honestly, i think your fear of fat ppl is becuz you really have a thing for em/US.....
keep on talkin ur fat jokes if u wanna and BIGMOMMA is gonna take u down with her on top....
2007-02-16 02:19:33 · answer #5 · answered by hunniebuggs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to sound like some idiot psychoanalyst, but this just hit me: you fear women in general. You are heading in the direction of being a misogynist...a man who hates women. Please get some professional help.
2007-02-16 02:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by Esther 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you afraid of us? We don't bite (unless you ask us to)
we are people.
We are the majority.
We have feelings and lives and people who do love us and are not afraid of us.
Keep it up and you will wind up fat yourself one day and know how it feels to be made fun of.
Karma....it will bite you in the ***.
2007-02-16 02:14:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever think that maybe you're turned on by fat girls (attracted to them) and you're in denial? Your way of coping with it and avoiding it is by picking on them, being rude, and calling them names. Hmmm...something to think about!!!
2007-02-16 02:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by Rayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody has their own weaknesses, yours is obviously making crucial remarks. one way that i know that can help you is read the Bible. What does God say about love? You need to renew your way of thinking and God's word is one real good way to help you. Plus, you have Him to ask for help.
2007-02-16 02:17:28 · answer #9 · answered by JANE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are being a jerk. Try to exersize just a little self control.
2007-02-16 02:12:55 · answer #10 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋