GUYS!! I asked this question 15 minutes ago, but when I say that I've never had a boyfriend, I don't mean that I've never had sex. I've had sex with 3 guys, but I've never had a boyfriend, and I am 21 years old. Is this weird, attractive, or doesn't matter? Would it change your mind to date a girl like this? Thanks!
2007-02-15 17:56:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you were the "POPULAR" girl.
No boyfriends, lots of sex.
I'd date you, but wouldn't introduce you to my friends or family. I wouldn't want to be your boyfriend, but I'd be OK with being #4 on the list.
2007-02-15 18:00:53 · answer #1 · answered by Sarge1572 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it would be a turn on most generally ,,,, If you are a virgin then you have something the guys want ,,, Don't be so ready to give it up ,,,, Proper respect is the issue here ,,,, Most guys your age let their glands do their thinking for them ,,,, There are allot of women that say they fervently wish they would have waited for marriage ,,,, Virginity is a very special gift a girl has to offer the man she loves ,,,, If you've given it away to some jerk on a fly by night date or a go no where relationship it's gone ,,,, There is no taking your actions back and there is no getting your virginity back either ,,,, It's gone for ever and so is your chance to give your special gift to the man you will eventually truly love ,,,, You said you are 21 ,,,, Well there is no hurry ,,,, You've held on to it this long ,,,, It's not going to hurt you to hold on to it long enough to meet Mr Right ,,,, Don't lose it in a one night stand or a 4 week go no where relationship or any kind of a relationship that doesn't lead to marriage ,,,, Wait till after you are married ,,,, If he can't wait and he pressures you then he's not the kind of guy you'd want anyway ,,,, Some guys will say or do anything in order to get what they want including getting engaged ,,,, Allot of them think that getting engaged is all thats necessary ,,,,And if they get what they want before they are married they sometimes figure out a way to reneg on the ceremony if getting engaged was all it took get what he was after ,,,, If he can't or doesn't want to wait then he isn't the kind of man you really want ,,,, Like I said earlier respect is the issue ,,,,If he has the proper love and respect for you then he will also respect your wishes ,,,, Yoda told you this ,,,,
2016-05-24 06:02:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will not matter to guys. They will f anyone with boobs. There are ultra religious guys and this may turn them off. But if any guy gets crazy about who you slept with just ask them how many girls/guys they slept with. And besides your past is your past, its none of they business and totally not cool to judge someone on things they have done in the past. ppl grow up and things change. I think you need to stop caring what ppl think and if they will accept you. You will find someone great for you but you first need to get over this
2007-02-15 18:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by I hate stupid ppl like you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To honest with you & thankyou for being honest to all of us, guys, I wouldn't want to date someone like you because (please, don't take this personal or get offended) this tell me that you can sleep with anyone on the streets regardless who sleep with. And quite frankly, I don't know if you have S.T.D or not and I hope those three guys that you have slept with are not your relatives like father, uncle, brother, or cousin like that.
What's done, has been done, the seal has been broken. I hope you will make a better choice next time.
I disagree with "mother of 2", being promiscuous will tell alot about your character, class, & self-dignity. She's probably one of those on Maury's show, trying pin point on random guys for child supports of her two children.
Good luck in your future & stay healthy & avoid S.T.D!
2007-02-15 18:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends! As long as long as you're not a "player" and is willing to engage in a deep, HONEST, and true relationship, it doesn't matter. Virginity is not an issue.
2007-02-15 18:02:45 · answer #5 · answered by Chuwariwap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, it will be a TURNON, provided the gal is too good to TURN ME ON.
but, one thing is for sure "No TURNOFF" on this ground
2007-02-15 18:09:20 · answer #6 · answered by hi_rahul007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 17 and never had a girlfriend, but done things with girls...i guess u and i have just havent found that one person we want to be with for an extended period of time, and exclusively. i dont think its weird.
2007-02-15 18:00:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me personally, it does not matter. Though if we were to get involved I would be curious as to what the story behind this is.
2007-02-15 17:59:52 · answer #8 · answered by Jordan S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be a bit cautious/leary/hestitant/down right freakin scared!
2007-02-15 18:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by dghrtyk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww you spoiled it.Girl chastity is cool.Like one guy put it that virginiy is precious its a gift meant for your husband.Keep it and they would love you for it.At least I would.
2007-02-15 18:08:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋