as all of you know there was Valentine's Day and my bf surprised me with flowers anda box of chocolate and then after he got off work he took me to this restaurant called teh Cheesecake Factory and we had dinner followed by him shopping with me at Victoria's Secret and buying me whatever i wanted. no problem, rt? wrong! i ended up spending the nt. at his place and it was not that romantic. i mean we cuddled and stuff but we did not have sex. i was sort of disappointed yet my bf acts as everything is ok and that nothing happened. i called some of my friends and asked them if i was a turn off or if i did something wrong and all of them said that my bf was just tired but how i can tell my bf that heck 2 days in a row we are cuddling and nothing more and it is annoying me i mean you guys get the idea, ne help! especially guys opinions would help a lot!
2007-02-15 17:58:13 · 18 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we have been together almost 2 years
2007-02-16 00:58:23 · update #1
we met a jr college and then we both transferred to the same university; when i met him i was 21 and he was 23-now i am 22 yet almost 23 inthe summer and he is 24 and he will turn 25 in december
2007-02-16 01:10:27 · update #2
now a days he is rired but i am just fed up with not spending quality time with my bf; before it did not matter even if he had work he would still find time for me..now times changed
2007-02-16 01:11:53 · update #3
Initiate it yourself.
Maybe he is afraid to take the final step, or is unsure that you are ready.
Women often just sit tensely waiting for the men to start. This reaction is totally useless to men. If you want him to 'go for it', then maybe you should show him that it's okay. Start undressing him. Tell him that you want him. That is what men dream of, but RARELY get from the women we love.
2007-02-15 18:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romance isn't measured in how many seconds it takes him to get you in bed. He spent the whole day doing very sweet things with you, which is considered romantic. Just because he didn't have sex with you doesn't mean he doesn't care about you. He could very well be trying to show you respect by keeping away from that topic until you bring it up.
If that's the kind of relationship you want, maybe you should sit down and talk to him about it. Ask him why he's never made the move, but keep a level head and don't yell at him. You may be surprised to hear what he has to say.
2007-02-15 18:06:57 · answer #2 · answered by Honesty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm, i imagine your theory is an effective one, yet that is basically too extreme a punishment (50 factors - one hundred factors). How about 20 or 25? i love the idea of someone being suspended after being reported a particular type of situations. i fairly do not care if a persons'' Q & A is deepest or no longer -- that would not difficulty me in the least!
2016-12-04 06:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see the problem...why do you need to have sex to be romantic. He spent time and money with you on V-day, would you rather have just had sex, without the flowers, dinner, gifts, and cuddling. It doesn't sound like he is cheating and he must think you are sexy if he wanted to buy you something from V.S. Just chill, this guy is plenty into you :)
2007-02-15 18:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, if you want to know what's going on with your boyfriend, the only logical person to ask is your boyfriend. Maybe he is trying to be romantic. Maybe he is turned off. Maybe he fell and became impotent. Nobody on yahoo answers will know the answer for sure. Ask him.
2007-02-15 18:04:23 · answer #5 · answered by Jordan S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress at the job turns men off.
2007-02-15 18:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he felt that if he pushed for having sex, it would have seemed like he was paying for sex. So he just waited for you to make the move instead.
2007-02-15 18:01:37 · answer #7 · answered by i♥sf 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he seems like a sweet guy who really likes you so u shoudnt worry. how long have u guys been together?
maybe he's just shy... or mayb he thinks that u guys arent ready yet. my advice would be to talk it over with him first instead of jumping to conclusions. or perhaps talk to your girlfriends about it. =]
2007-02-15 18:08:25 · answer #8 · answered by leeloorox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a few days and if he doesn't apologize then bring the subject up and call his bluff. I might think you're going to forget about it.
2007-02-15 18:03:06 · answer #9 · answered by dghrtyk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol sorry but i think its sweet, i wish mind would be like that and not just want the sex all the time, hey lol just tell him you need some love haah im sure he will be ok with it, have fun
2007-02-15 18:03:54 · answer #10 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋