just wondering.
2007-02-15 18:00:11 · 23 answers · asked by liliaceae_aletris 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no im not the girlfriend. and when it happened i didnt know he had one.
2007-02-15 18:25:35 · update #1
wow hell yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ummm let me see, thats called CHEATING. it wouldnt still be rite if the gf allowed it or didnt cared! its like a man going to a strippersclub on v day when his gf is at his house waiting for him!
2007-02-15 18:06:35 · answer #1 · answered by i luv u, tho u broke my heart 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, physical intimacy of this type is wrong if the guy has a girlfriend. You don't say if you are the girlfriend? If you are, you need to have a talk with your boyfriend about his behavior. Tell him it is disrespectful and that it hurts. If you are the girl he is grinding with, respect yourself enough not to do it again.
2007-02-16 02:12:58 · answer #2 · answered by ragged 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, it would make a very jealous girlfriend. Every relationship is different. It depends on the amount of trust between each other and who the girl is. Some random girl is going to cause trouble. But maybe with a mutual friend it wouldn't be so bad. I suggest talking about it with the guy and coming to an understanding.
2007-02-16 02:05:44 · answer #3 · answered by Jess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong for a guy to grind with a girl who's not his wife! And even then, it's wrong to go for it in public! Geez kids! Have some respect for yourselves! This is the message you speak when you grind in public: "I'm a cheap whore, and you can use me and treat me like that, because I don't think I deserve any better. Actually, I'm lower than a cheap whore, because I give it up for free." Character counts, people! Tell your guy that!
2007-02-16 02:09:40 · answer #4 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, and it's also wrong for the girl to let the guy grind with her! both people are at fault. unless the girl didn't know that the guy had a girlfriend.
2007-02-16 02:02:26 · answer #5 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It obviously is. im sure it would hurt the girlfriend the most. And i think that it is very inconsiderate of the other girl to be flirting back with the guy. Unless it is ok for the third party to be cheated as well as soon as she gets her own guy, then its good for her.
2007-02-16 02:06:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Women=Men
2007-02-16 02:03:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Considering that grinding mimics a sexual act...I would think so. BUT if both of you all are okay with that type of behavior and you won't get upset about it or feel guilty, then grind away. It's your relationship...you define it.
2007-02-16 02:06:00 · answer #8 · answered by melchuck29 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your asking the wrong question you should be asking did he get any wood while he was grinding you know? Mahogany maybe Ebony ? then I would have to say yes
2007-02-16 02:02:53 · answer #9 · answered by epicn61 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Depnds on the girlfriend's feelings about it. Put yourself in the position of the girlfriend. Would you like it or not?
2007-02-16 02:03:33 · answer #10 · answered by lejumpsuit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋