When you have sex with someone that's not supposed to mean anything(no I'm not talking about strangers, I'm talking about friends), and after the sex, you love them and appreciate them on a deeper level, not expecting them to care about you or return the love either. That love and appreciation is strictly friends only. When they show they care about you, you feel touched and flattered.
Is that spiritual bonding?
2007-02-15 18:06:25 · 3 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it's not then what is it?
and you didn't have sex just to feel accepted or loved. You did it because you love that person like a friend and willing to share yourself with them.
2007-02-15 18:07:41 · update #1
You are the only one that could say what kind of bonding you may feel toward that person. If you are confused and really feel strongly toward him, then maybe you should explore your relationship. Do you want to throw away the possible Mr. Right because of how things began. Also, if this man is falling in love with you, you are going to lose him soon. So it is at least worth giving it a shot. If not, you may be a double loser (friendship & love).
2007-02-15 18:22:34 · answer #1 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, butterfly, I think that is just how love happens sometimes. It could be the beginning of a great relationship. You see if we had a magic wand we could just wave it and be in love. Unfortunately, it doesn't happen like that it could be that your friend has become your lover, or it sounds like that. That's cool as long as it is a friend and not someone closer. Perhaps, this person is the one for you to spend the rest of your life with. Don't push it and don't run from it, just let it happen naturally as it has.
2007-02-16 02:17:54 · answer #2 · answered by 5-Stars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, its not a spiritual bonding..its because when you have sex with someone, you give part of your heart away...they know a part of you that no one else knows and vice versa..thats why people wait till marriage cuz ppl get emotionally attached, have sex then get dumped or hurt in some way shape or form..the reason you feel touched or flatterd is because well simply..you had sex...its a special thing God gave us..try not to abuse it ;)
2007-02-16 02:16:52 · answer #3 · answered by advice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋