Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

Okay so i like this guy a lot, i mean he fits all the qualaties in someone that i have always wanted, and turns out he likes me too, but when i decided to step up and ask him out he said he liked me but he wanted to take things slowly. Is that just an excuse that guys use if they dont want to be in a relationship or do you think i have a good chance here?

2007-02-15 18:30:38 · 5 answers · asked by pansymafia 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 18:29:19 · 10 answers · asked by Hunter 1 in Singles & Dating

He says that its real sensitive whatever that means and he cannot help it.

2007-02-15 18:29:09 · 24 answers · asked by Amy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-15 18:28:31 · 4 answers · asked by NEERU 1 in Singles & Dating

My very special friend yesterday asked me to define love and I was wondering how to define it exactly. Matter is pending and I have to tell her tomorrow...! Pls. help!

2007-02-15 18:28:00 · 45 answers · asked by SWAPPY 1 in Singles & Dating

i just met this chick not too long ago and we both have attraction and shes been making me want her and telling me shes interested in gettin down and then she goes and meets another guy...is she tryin to keep me to the side?

2007-02-15 18:27:37 · 7 answers · asked by wizzpack 2 in Singles & Dating

I loose friendships because of him but me and him have been best friends since kindergarden! I love him so much! but also my friends! wut should i do? Even gurls I don't even know be hating me!

2007-02-15 18:27:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

finally got up the nerve to ask my crush(my trainer) to 'hang out". i text messaged him asking him that we should hang out soon and he text messaged me back ten minutes later...that he would, although it have to be the next time he gets paid because he's broke as a joke" quote on quote.. andas we conversated furthur he went on furthur to say that he's a shy guy when it comes to women because he's afraid or rejection.. I asked him does he fell confident enough to get with an attractive woman..and he said yes but usually and he's not in pursuit .. well, he said it depends what mood he's in...So I text messaged him about a job..he's suppossed to be hooking me up with get no return message,I even called ..no call


I know in the past he has invited me to his church group(but never came through on his invite)..and he invited me to workout with him(never followed through)..but he has told me that if I ever hang out to call him..so we can hit up a movie..so I did..

2007-02-15 18:25:57 · 4 answers · asked by Lola M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, i met this guy who works not far where i work too, so everytime i was passing by his work and saw him, we had small chat, he gave me compliment and i gave him, so anyways i think i was the 1st who said u should stop by sometimes at my work to talk and hang out (i work as a server), so later afterwards i saw him couple times he said he would stop by on wed (i work there like 4 days aweek) and every wed, so every wed passed he did not come to hang, but when i saw him again afterwards he said i'd come wed.. So what is your opinion abt guys? is the guy not seriously interested? or just think" another pretty face" whatever, but i cant understand why keeps saying he would come on wed, and than following wed., again.

2007-02-15 18:24:41 · 6 answers · asked by M A 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 18:24:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm not talking about a the 2 week relationship, i mean someone you seriousally dating or engaged to for a year or two... Did you break up with them for something minor or just because you were boored?

2007-02-15 18:23:20 · 5 answers · asked by Jim V 3 in Singles & Dating

I had the best night with my boyfriend tonight he is my soul mate. But after I dropped him off at home a few hours later I let out a few tears for my ex. It was a srprise because I feel I'm over him. What could this be, why is it happening?

2007-02-15 18:22:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I come from a close, loving family. My father especially was loving, warm, and wonderful. When I married (years ago) I thought my husband would grow into a loving husband and father, but it didn't happen. Throughout the marriage I have had close male friends (not affairs, no physical cheating). I am sad because my husband doesn't give me the affection/appreciation/affirmation I need. What to do? Counseling hasn't helped.

2007-02-15 18:21:49 · 16 answers · asked by sarahwf1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay I'm 19, there's is this girl I like, and she likes me, we always flirt, if I joke with her in a sexual way like "oh you said you want me to come in the stockroom with you?", etc. she smiles and turns away blushing. She has a b/f and I have a g/f. I asked her for her phone number but she always just say I have a b/f and what about your g/f she's gonna get mad, and things like that. How can I get her to give me her phone number or at least break the ice somehow?

2007-02-15 18:21:15 · 7 answers · asked by GRS 1 in Singles & Dating

After18 years of marriage my husband and I seperated. we both started seeing other people while the course of our seperation i realized how controlling he was and I began to enjoy thinking for myself not having to answer to anyone, doing things that i was unable to do because he didn't want me to or bcause he would be angry I met this guy he is a great guy and I fell in love with him but he is financially incapable of taking care of me for I found myself taking care of him but we have so much in common and we get along so well and he really does love me for me, I can be myself when im with him and the sex is excellent. after a year my husband came back into my life saying he wants me back i went back to him because of all the years but im not happy, yes I have material things, but my heart feels empty and once again the real me has to be hidden I do this to make sure that my kids have the best. I want to love him again. Its hard. I haven't had an orgasm since weve been back together.

2007-02-15 18:19:53 · 9 answers · asked by thickness 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why do guys only like skinny gurls??

2007-02-15 18:17:29 · 4 answers · asked by Ashley E 1 in Singles & Dating

outside means from other partners

2007-02-15 18:17:03 · 7 answers · asked by while007 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance has left me after 3 years of enguagment. He says he needs some space. I think he was getting cold feet. He still tells me he loves me and wants to be with me but not right now. It has been 3 weeks and nothing is getting better. Any ideas on how to get him back?

2007-02-15 18:17:01 · 19 answers · asked by lazerangel99 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i recently got engaged. like yesterday. and i dont know what hand my ring is supposed to go on.

2007-02-15 18:16:30 · 17 answers · asked by Veronica R 1 in Weddings

i mean it's part of life, we all get forced to do things we don't want to. i don't want to go to work or pay bills, but i have to, and yet i don't go around making a huge deal about it. so why go chicks go around making such a huge deal out of things if they're forced to have sex for a few minutes?

2007-02-15 18:16:29 · 20 answers · asked by steve efa 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 18:16:07 · 5 answers · asked by naseem 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating this girl and we haven't even kissed yet because we were friends first than we decided to go out when i was away... it's been 5 months now.... when i see her it'll be our first time holding hands kissing etc... I wanna know how to make it perfect... for both of us.

2007-02-15 18:15:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I take the time to listen. And I usually know what to say or suggest for the situation. And I dont tell anyone. But how is it advertised to people that I do this even though I dont say anything about being this way. Alot of friends come to me for counseling or to listen to their drama. Where I feel good about helping them, it just drains me/makes me tired to do it. Sometimes I get to the point where I dont want to deal with it but do anyways because they trust me. Plus I have my own drama to deal with.
But I dont get how they could know that revealing these things to me can work out? How come they trust me that much without knowing from someone else, me saying anything, or previous experiance?

(and they dont come to me with little things. But with big stuff like their rape stories from the past or current love relations being the main themes)

2007-02-15 18:15:35 · 9 answers · asked by rezruf 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I told myself not to fall for him because I could tell he knew he was good looking & charming.he courted me & I couldn't help it. He seemed genuine once I got to kno him we became friends and went out a few times.anyways we eventually slept together (after 7 months of talking/hangin) He didn't think his performance was up to par & put himself down as soon as we were done it was kind of odd, I wasn't sure how to react but i responded the best i could(he had some probs). I didn't think it would go far (he's 21, I'm 19, 2 diff college lifes) but after we slept together he ignored my phone calls...threw a party & didn't invite me It's been a little over a week & i've only called him 2 (to insure him i didn't care bout his prob) but he's not called me & I'm still upset.are guys really that sensitve to "poor" performance? i have a feeling this is a patteren 4 him w/ women. if i dont call mayb he'll think 2's bout how he treated me, but im dumbfounded & cant decide if a want a friendship.

2007-02-15 18:15:32 · 13 answers · asked by Jessica C 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you consider a best friend and why?Would you change anything in them if you could?

2007-02-15 18:15:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

honestly? srry just been something Ive always wondered

2007-02-15 18:15:19 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

really try to guess the person after reading the question?like I always try to guess ....who the asker is? especially for this "singles and dating" category.
I mean she/he could be someone close to me? Honestly...I know its kinda crazy thing to do and ask but I was just wondering if anyone else do the same?

2007-02-15 18:15:07 · 11 answers · asked by Jill-mommy of a cute lil fellow 4 in Singles & Dating

Did you ever get so cought up in life, like being a Mom, keeping up on the house, being a wife, bathing the dog, paying the bills, School plays with the kids, and all the other things that life gives....

then one day some thing happens that makes you step back and you have absolutly no idea who you are.
How do I find my self after 10 years of doing whats right? Of course i still want to do whats right, but I also dont know who I am.

some one asked me what I like to do for fun... I was stumpted, I have no idea.

where does a person begin when trying to find them self?

2007-02-15 18:14:47 · 24 answers · asked by Me 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-15 18:13:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 18 and i've been with my girlfriend for 6 months. We still live in the same city but we go to different universities. I see her bestfriend almost daily, and she always comes by my house (i live on my own) and we fool around (taking showers together, and hot tub). Its been going on everyday for the past 2 weeks and today my gf's best friend told me she wants to live with me WITHOUT my gf knowing. This gives her a free place to stay, and in return she said she'd clean the house and have sex as many times as i want. She also said if i dont comply she'll send the videotapes to my friends and family. I WILL NOT break up with my g/f and the relationship i have with her friend is just based on looks. should i keep this a secret and lead my life OR if i do confess to my g/f, i'll have my parents see my tape, no girlfriend and a girl that will try to ruin my car/house.... what should i do?

2007-02-15 18:13:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating