2007-02-15 17:05:09 · 11 answers · asked by calgary shoes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I take it you mean this as it relates to your involvement with others, potential lovers or friends, not just to you and how to get through the night. Many people stop and realize that they are only viewing another person in regard to their being a sex partner, not as someone who is worth knowing or spending time with outside of the area of sex.
Looking at someone and seeing them as they are, isn't easy to do once you've begun a sexual relationship. It's not impossible to change the dynamics of it midway if you want to.
I've had to do this twice. One time I tried to turn romance into friendship, it didn't work and the girl was hurt when I refused to have sex with her. The second time I'd been having sex with a woman but I decided it was really too soon and wanted to stop and wait for a time it seemed right to make love. That time came when we got married.
Often a relationship falls apart when it involves having sex early in it rather than later, not necessarily because of the sex, but that's not what holds a couple together, then something else is wrong.
If this is what you mean by focusing on sex and not being able to stop to see or think of anything else about another, I hope my experience will guide you a little bit.
2007-02-15 20:07:13 · answer #1 · answered by Nightwriter21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dr.Mobby longneck here follow these few simpel steps please
Get : 1) Econo Size Lube from Costco
2) left hand (or right)
3. Cable TV with no Parental guidance blocks
4.(50) premium payper view channels....I gaurentee you'll be chaffed by the end of the day. P.S- take care and i hope your weine.r falls off
2007-02-15 17:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by Dr.Mobby longneck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a hobby, get in the sport. if u mean, that when u look at particular very attractive female, all u do just think abt sex? than try to look her other qualities beyond her hot looks. Her personality qualities might be very nice, take time get to know her, be friends 1st.
2007-02-15 17:11:19 · answer #3 · answered by M A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me see, play video games online like Yahoo.com/games or you can always read up on news. Another good thing you can do is maybe read up on how to save mother earth.... Good Luck on your adventure to stop thinking about sex...
2007-02-15 17:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by Rain L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the produce aisle and get the biggest squash or electric toothbrush and have at it...this should cure for a couple of hours. If you use both your good for a full day.
2007-02-15 17:11:44 · answer #5 · answered by Timberland 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on filing your taxes. If that isn't a buzz-kill to ruin a mood, I don't know what is!!
2007-02-15 17:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smack yourself with a hammer, that'll help for about 5 minutes, at least for me....
2007-02-15 17:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by bigbro3006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it.
2007-02-15 18:13:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
read the bible, go to church, alot. that will turn you off quick.
2007-02-15 17:38:32 · answer #9 · answered by friday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jerk it til it hurts
2007-02-15 17:12:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋