There's this guy whom I have gone out with a few times before. For the past few mths, he would come talk to me on msn almost every night. Everything he did sort of hinted to me that he likes me, eg. fetching me to sch though we dun live near each other at all. He has weird msn nicks that suggests to me that he's probably interested in me. I'm not too sure abt this but one thing i'm certain of is his nicks r always referring to a gal he lks. However, on the recent v-day, he asked another gal out instead. Though after that day, he honestly told me he went out with another gal, he kept denying that he's gg after her and that they are just frens gg out. He told me he asked her on v-day eve, on an impromptu basis. I do not quite believe he doesn't like her since it dun make sense for a guy to ask a gal out on v-day if he only sees her as a normal fren, and what's more, it's obvious the guy is interested in a gal, so y would he go ask another gal out if she's not the one? Any opinions?
2007-02-15 17:03:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask.
Yes, just come out and ask him. Don't be in his face, or over the top, just genuinely ask him how he feels about you.
Then accept his answer and either ask him out, or move on. The complications of endless wondering and strategizing will wear you out emotinally. This is a case where the truth really will set you free.
2007-02-15 17:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by Jeanne B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's true that u have to ask if u wanna noe the truth. however, being someone who has been thru' a similar situation b4, i had the feeling of not wanting to ask directly as i feel that since he hasn't said anything concrete to me, being a gal, i dun see why i shld be the one to do the talking first. Sorry, i know this sounds rather conservative but shouldn't the guys be the one to do smth abt it first. Just wat's holding him back if he really likes a ger? Why can't he tell her directly and why does he always give mixed signals? could it be a change of target?
any guys have different views?
2007-02-16 01:44:47 · answer #2 · answered by gemlin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just ask the guy if he likes you. bcuz it sounds like he does but he doesnt all at the same time. Does that even make sense? Anyways just because he went out with another girl it doesnt mean that he doesnt like you. SO JUST ASK!
2007-02-16 01:09:30 · answer #3 · answered by Kassy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way out would be to ask him about his intentions. That would make things really clear.
2007-02-16 01:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by cocoa prinzess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋