ok i am a female, and honestly we all complain that men are jerks and all but as soon as a guy says something nice we become like men are the best things ever!
so why do we complain about them, and yet love them so much???
2007-02-15 16:46:19 · 28 answers · asked by shrimpy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Conservation instinct.
2007-02-15 16:49:41 · answer #1 · answered by Roundup Ready 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
men dont realise when they say something that's nice, they just think it's normal conversation, that;s what makes them so sweet, they always mean whatever they're saying, men are more honest than women I think. We complain they're jerks because they're open and honest with us, whereas women tend to be more bitchy and secretive, pretending to like someone or not, men just dont give a s h i t I dont think. But there's just something about the way they can lift us up over their shoulders that is so hot! I gott admit! l love guys!
2007-02-15 16:51:18 · answer #2 · answered by Ari J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a biological urge to be attracted to males (if you're a heterosexual female). It's an instinct. So, enough said basically. It's just like the food addict that complains about McDonald's all the time but keeps getting a Big Mac everyday.
2007-02-15 16:49:34 · answer #3 · answered by bchic89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, look at the alternative. Not that chicks are bad, but anatomically...you gotta love that man!
Not all men are jerks either. Sometimes women like that 'bad guy' thing and are attracted to it...if that's your category then yes, you will probably always get hurt and ask people like us why we still love them.
2007-02-15 16:50:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I look at myself and wonder that same thing, Me and my friends drink, have farting contests, tell dirty jokes and sing really bad karaoke...all around our women.
Maybe some women think us men's dirty habits are cute in a way. Who knows? All I know is I love women. And I can't live without the women I am with now and yes I still wonder how she can stand me so much.
2007-02-15 16:53:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We need the affection of the opposite sex. We complain about them cause things are bad at the time and we talk to friends about them when things are good.
2007-02-15 16:50:18 · answer #6 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are ugly, hairy, and smell bad. But we do kill spiders, take out the garbage, and think all of you are the most beautiful things in creation. When we look at the right one of you sleeping next to us we think we are the most fortunate beings in the universe. Sometimes we are bewildered as to why something so sweet, kind, gentle, and pretty even wants to have anything to do with us.
2007-02-15 16:56:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
because women love unpredictability. they want to win that man, but when that man is a jerk to her, she initially says 'screw him' but subconsciously longs to please him more. she is more drawn to him. and then all of a sudden that man becomes a nice guy to her for a second and all the woman's emotions burn up and sends a signal that she likes him. this all sounds so illogical but it's true. it's what creates heartaches too, because women don't know the right things to look for in men. they like men who drive them crazy instead of a man who would love her trully, but women wont admit.
2007-02-15 16:55:28 · answer #8 · answered by J.P. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
JUST.....Because!
Guys generally are a pain in the rump, but all us girls want is to be loved and adored. So yah when we get validation from a guy it makes us feel good. It's just the way it is.
You know the old saying. Can't live with them, Can't live without them...it's so true.
2007-02-15 16:50:07 · answer #9 · answered by Kurius_Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is because somewhere deep down inside females really want to find that extraordinary male who is all that and then some, imagine the disappointment when we find out they are just normal human beings who screw up too! lol
2007-02-15 16:50:34 · answer #10 · answered by snickers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋