I met this lady at work, she recently marry this guy but she claims she made a mistake, it appears she is or was attracted to me and I am definately attracted to her. One day we got together for lunch and we hugged and kissed, she is all over me saying these things, next day she is confused and ignores me, I started ignoring her too and she sent me an email asking me not to be that way, she claims is not easy for her to talk about her feelings. Since I like her a lot, I try to talk to her but she plain ignores me, did not reply to my emails, and I finally called her but she did not pick up, I just wanted for her to talk to me, I just said I did not appreciate her behavior, I felt as though she was laughing at me
was I played?
I am going to see her at work but I just going to ignore her and pretend nothing happen, I am hurting, what can one do? I don't know what to do, I thought she was sincere
2007-02-15 16:32:49 · 13 answers · asked by Mr 777 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No she didn't play you...................... but if you keep caring on like she owes you something, you're going to make her dislike you or treat you like a stalker.
Its obvious, she got married and she love her husband. However she's willing to mess around if you don't make it such a big deal.
p.s. Did they make "booty call" an official word in the english language.......................... uhm.
2007-02-15 16:45:45 · answer #1 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is a classic case of "she's just not that into you" if she is even seeing another man let alone MARRY another man when you two are together. She's just playing you honey. I'm sorry to be the one to tell you but she's probably done this many times before. Do not reply to her emails. If she talks to you be nice but not overly nice. If she talks about anything you two may have had together tell her that was before she was married & there is no need to discuss that now. It's better not to date in the workplace if it can be avoided... it just ends up bad & you have to see each other everyday if something goes wrong. I'm sorry she did this to you but learn from it & move on & don't let it happen again! :)
2007-02-16 00:41:44 · answer #2 · answered by DeLIZious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her! She seems psychotic and you don't need to be caught up in her psychotic little game that she is playing on the job. Seems to me that she has insecurities with her new marriage and feels the need to see if "she still has it". Please don't let it have an affect on your work. Do a little reverse psychology and ignore her. Act as if she does not exist; that way you can make her feel like she got played instead! Good Luck. Remember, be consistent!! Everyday when you see her, look straight through her.
2007-02-16 00:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by babyface 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is mental and doesn't know what she wants. I personally would never get entangled with someone who is married. If I were you I would just ignore her and do your job. You wouldn't want this situation to interfere with your job and because she is a female she can jeapardize your job if she mentions you two doing anything or your behavior.
2007-02-16 01:42:51 · answer #4 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not sincere, she only wants u when things aren't going well at home, u think more of her than she does u, if she were so interested in u why did she marry this other man, think u should get far away from this woman, as u want to avoid a broke heart.
2007-02-16 00:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't know what she wants either. Be professional with her and don't let it get past that, unless she can show you come divorce papers. There are plenty of women out there who would like your attention, so start focusing your energy in that direction, and away from your co-worker.
2007-02-16 00:43:14 · answer #6 · answered by I do 26.2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to be played she would have gotton something out of you. What did she gain? I would stop emailing & calling her. It sounds like she is no longer interested.
2007-02-16 10:15:55 · answer #7 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sound like she has some issues that she need to deal with
and she does not know how to handle them. but you dont need
to be a part of this game that she playing, she know what she
doing. i would just leave her along when she ready to talk to
you then be there for her but dont play the game.
2007-02-16 01:03:52 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems like she is playing you and her husband both. She is double trouble sounds like.
2007-02-16 00:38:37 · answer #9 · answered by question212 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you're still getting played. she's married, move on.
2007-02-16 00:38:04 · answer #10 · answered by jeffrey m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋