My fiance always offers oral but I often shy away from it. It just doesn't feel as good as sex and often feels wierd to me. Is it just me? Do some women just not enjoy oral? Or is there something different I can tell him to do?
2007-02-15 16:27:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not going to "feel as good as sex" because it is different. I enjoy oral sex very much (if it's done right) but prefer the feelings from penetration.....
Let him keep trying, so u can figure out what works for you. Here are a few tips:
1. If he is inexperienced tell him to just write the alphabet with his tongue....making sure to reach all areas
2. soft biting is good...
3. a little penetration with the tongue is also good
Hope it works for ya.....
2007-02-15 16:37:17 · answer #1 · answered by answergirl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I was really uncomfortable with it at first, but believe me I got used to it and now it's great, tell him how you like it and what he's doing wrong, the first and most important thing is take a shower right before that may make you feel a little more comfortable. Try what makes you comfortable believe me when you have good sex it makes everything else better.
2007-02-15 16:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by dolphin 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, go over it with him, and see what you two can work out. He could try performing oral on you and asking questions so he has a better idea of what works for the two of you.
2007-02-15 16:32:00 · answer #3 · answered by Zeppboy67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I never let any guy or girl give me oral. I've done it but haven't received it. Even when they really wanted too, I felt awkward and wouldn't allow it. I doubt I'd let my boyfriend do that after we're married. He believes in no sexual contact until after marriage, so that's why I say after we're married. :P It just seems very awkward in my eyes...
Try getting some toys, maybe that will spice it up a bit.
Good luck love,
-.-'
2007-02-15 16:37:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some women just don't enjoy it...but you can tell him to try different techniques or maybe you should just relax and enjoy it (and stop concentrating on the fact that you don't like it cause you just might eventually).
2007-02-15 16:33:55 · answer #5 · answered by That Diva 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude must not be good at oral. Never met a woman that didn't get off oral (done right). Try coaching him if he's open to it. Lots of times that may turn him on because he's helping please you.
2007-02-15 16:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by trailblazerfan 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess it comes down to your being comfortable with and loving your own body and sexuality.
Me...I could enjoy that 24/7
Don't be afraid to guide him though, he might just not be hittin it correctly. People don't mind when their lover shows them what to do, it's all a part of getting to know each other intimately.
2007-02-15 16:34:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I guess not everyone likes it but what about a comparmise like let him for a second and then change it up. or if you just dont like it let him know there is nothing wrong with being open on how you feel and what you like and dont like.
2007-02-15 16:33:32 · answer #8 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the only way to work it out. Go slow and suggest ways that he could give you a better sensation and pleasure.
2007-02-15 16:34:07 · answer #9 · answered by chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER SAY NO TO ORAL!!!!
1. its like a slap in the face
2. you won't get it again...
3. Shower, wipe, whatever, get clean and enjoy it!!!!!
2007-02-15 16:35:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋