does he have underlying motives? what could they be?pls im so naive.....
My BF keeps making excuses 4 hurting my neck? what is he really trying 2 do, & get away with?
i told him dont touch my face, he keeps moving my face which causes my neck to unwillingly move right to left cusing me days of pain and in my shoulders, and neck just by him simply moving my face right or left unvoluntarily. i told him not 2 do this anymore and that its causing me pain, and he it now keeps happening and he keeps saying he likes touching my face. If your boyfriend gives you a box of opened, all ready eaten chocolates, could he be trying 2 poison you?
FOR VALENTINES DAY-2 months ago he told me he wanted revenge, and will not be satisfied until he gets it. he hurt my neck 3 times in the last 2 months and said it was an accident. they are fannie mae turtle chocolates some have dented, tiny holes in a few. maybe it was just manufactured that way.
2007-02-15 16:31:10 · 22 answers · asked by newport l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take the chocolates to the police...And run and hide...You can make a report on the abuse he has done...
2007-02-15 16:53:09 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
These things your boyfriend is doing may or may not be deliberately meant to harm you but the fact is that you are feeling uncomfortable about it and with him.That says something in itself . He should be someone you are entirely comfortable with all the time. There must be a reason why you are feeling skeptical about the way he treats you .You should never have to live in fear of him.If this doesn't feel right you need to trust that feeling in the pit of your stomach and end it! There are a lot of decent guys out there that will treat you with respect and care about the way you feel . do yourself a favor and move on .
Good Luck !!
2007-02-16 00:45:40 · answer #2 · answered by uncle louie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONEY...What you are with is called a saddist. Please get away and I mean far away as soon as possible. Possibly he was abused as a baby. He is very dangerous. It is maybe not his fault but it is definately not yours. Do I need to tell you about the 15 year-old that shot his girlfriend in the stomach at a movie theatre. His only excuse was that he loved her.
2007-02-16 00:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jacks036 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wooow ,there is something deeper than this situation.What is he wanting to get revenge on?Why would you think that he would try to poison you? You don't trust him and if you think that he can poison you ,you guys don't need to be together.There are always two sides to a story ,you need to find out what made him so angry that he wants revenge on.
2007-02-16 00:41:18 · answer #4 · answered by TRUTH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief! I hope you are kidding about all of this! If you aren't, then I suggest you dump him straight away! He continues to inflict pain on you when you have asked him to stop. He has no respect for you and can't possibly care about your welfare in any meaningful way. He just sounds like bad news!
2007-02-16 00:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by Luna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I dont know why you deal with that he is causing you pain over and over again and then giving you something that looks like it has been messed with. That all seems a little weird. be carefull if you are going to stay in that situation.
2007-02-16 00:37:05 · answer #6 · answered by xyz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer to this: RUN. Get away for him. Way away.
He has a sadistic streak a mile wide. You cannot put up with this-
that's why you asked us. Sweetie-don't even look back.
2007-02-16 00:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by life coach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, he just loves you.......................... WRONG!!!!!
You need to get away from him - - NOW!!! He is not hurting because he loves you. He is hurting you because he enjoys it. He enjoys causing you physical pain. He is trying to control you, show you how much he can hurt you, so that if you ever leave him you know how much he will hurt you (or worse).
Those chocolates.............. they do not come dented or with holes in them. They were tampered with! Do not eat them!!
2007-02-16 00:57:41 · answer #8 · answered by noonecanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something attracts you to this jerk, get over it.
Ask mom and dad for help.
Get the book, "But I love HIm" Talk it over with your parents.
If any guy treated my daughter like this he'd have a broken neck and wouldn't attract many girls as a parapeligic.
2007-02-16 00:38:18 · answer #9 · answered by mt_hopper 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun, why do you keep asking this question? I just answered it under your other name, along with several other people. Is there some specific answer you're waiting for and not getting?
2007-02-16 00:39:24 · answer #10 · answered by selena n 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋