Family & Relationships - 29 January 2007

Hi, i am a punjabi guy, living in the heart of Punjab. If any one intersted in me, can message me at search4friend01.waiting u there.

2007-01-29 00:54:43 · 3 answers · asked by search4friend01 1 in Friends

i need help from people that have been through this. how do i get the images out of my head, how do you get past the feeling of hurting even though you cant change what happened. i need some real help im in so much pain
i never cheated on her but she thought i did not love her so she strayed but shes back, i want to forgive her but how do i do that with all the pain. we tried counsling i stopped going because i dont think she helped either of us we might start again in a week or so
right now even though im with my wife i stll feel so lonley sometimes im very depressed and i just cant help it
any words of advise?

2007-01-29 00:53:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do women have a tendency to comment when they see a extremely beautiful
woman.she is nothing special but when the woman is ugly they say she's pretty

2007-01-29 00:53:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to have an equal number of bridesmaids and groomsmen. My fiance is set on having 6 (ages 16-30); I currently only have 5.

My options are
1. picking between 2 close friends (I really dont want to do this)
2. asking my cousin (age 8) to be a junior bridesmaid, which would make my father very happy
3. having uneven groomsmen & bridesmaids (I really dont want to do this because I want groomsmen to escort bridesmaids down the aisle)

If I ask my cousin to be a junior bridesmaid, who would she walk down the aisle with?
the youngest groomsman who is 16 but rather shy?; or my brother who is 6'4, but related?

Would it be weird to have such a young girl (who is gorgeous and very mature for her age, but still only 5 foot tall) among such grown adults?

what should I do?
Thanks!

2007-01-29 00:52:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

his girlfriend keeps interfering. she is the one that sends me emails, voicemails, etc. they are for the most part being nasty. am i obligated legally to discuss my son with her. she basically has tried to take over the mothering role of my son. he lives with me now, but i am really sick of having to deal with her. i think it is shawn's (my ex) job to communicate with me about my son, not hers. she keeps threatening to take me to court for custody. lol i think this absurd. can someone tell me from a legal stand point what my rights are?

2007-01-29 00:52:08 · 15 answers · asked by Tara F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-29 00:51:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this guy ever since....but now, i dunno if i still like him...but theres this other guy who comes along... and i have a crush on him too.... which one shud i pickkk ??

2007-01-29 00:50:42 · 9 answers · asked by Jani N. 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy never said he likes me. But his many actions tell me so. I've implicitly told him we should not get too close. He was visibly upset for the few days that followed.

Have you been through such situation where you are being rejected and yet you need to face the girl everyday? what goes through your mind?

2007-01-29 00:50:13 · 4 answers · asked by isabella 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating a guy for about a month and we have slept together twice. The last time he was holding me and told me that he loved me. I didn't even breathe! I didn't respond either. It was the middle of the night and I just faked like I was still sleeping. Bad move? He was very cranky the next day and hasn't returned any of my messages over the weekend. Two text msgs and two voice mails. Now I don't know what to think! Have I hurt him or is he just scared because he said it too soon and didn't mean for it to slip out?

2007-01-29 00:50:04 · 13 answers · asked by spiritual.rollercoaster 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex will not sign the papers, they want me to give them money before they sign. We have no children and no proterty btw us,. we've been seperated for a more then 3 years, not even together a full year before he ran off. I just now found out where he lives.

2007-01-29 00:49:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He told me she only calls him to tell him she found some of his stuff, but here lately that she hasn't called. For some reason though I don't believe him. I think that they call each other. He says no matter what he does she is going to call him that she didnt care wether or not he was with me, But dont you think he should care that he is with me? And its bugging the heck out of me, to me exes are the past and that's where they should stay! I find it funny she only seems to call when im not around (mmmhmm), Should I keep putting up with it, should I say something to her? I don't know what else I should say to him, cause I feel he is lying to me. I really care about him, and I dont know what to lose him . Some other things on his myspace, she leaves comments talking about the sex they have had and on tables and all that he says she can say what she wants cause its the past but I feel like she was throwing it in my face, what would you do?

2007-01-29 00:49:26 · 10 answers · asked by Amber Vance 2 in Singles & Dating

okay, so this boy i like right, i was at his house the other night, and we were watching movies and cuddleing and he held me in his arms like all night and just sat there and kissed my forehead and like we were acctually dating, and that is what it felt like, and prior to that night he had told me that he had liked me as long as i have liked him (since 7th grade) which would be lik 3 years now. and he said that he wanted to go out and stuff.. so i was talking to him last night, and he was really drunk from like 16 shots and really high from quite a few blunts, and he said that he didn't like me and didn't want to go out anymore, do i liten to him, or do i ask him again when he is sober??? i really need help on this.

2007-01-29 00:48:53 · 20 answers · asked by HisSweetestSin235 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 00:48:30 · 9 answers · asked by pradyumna 1 in Friends

What are the possibilities of your partners coming back to you?

2007-01-29 00:47:38 · 17 answers · asked by sheneverhappened 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My sister and I and a few other family members are holding a benefit for our sister in law.Her baby is in the hospital(as i pre.posted) and the hospital is quite a distance away from where we all live.We are having the benefit to help raise money for traveling cost, Room cost,Food and etc.They do not have much money and need to pay bills at home as well. We also put money jars in stoes as well to help.She has not said anything directly to me,But she told her sister that she was overwhelmed and kind of upset at it all becuz now everywhere she goes people are asking how Faith(baby) is doing and she is really not sure herself of the answer.We are only doing this to try to help and we thought she would apprieate it.We never thought it would be a problem so we wanted it to be a surprise.Now I do not even feel like doing it if she is gonna get mad.The most important thing is Faiths health,And we all cant help make her better,So we thought we would help with the money burdins..Plz help

2007-01-29 00:47:05 · 10 answers · asked by rowebaby 1 in Family

2007-01-29 00:46:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

how do we know is the girl is having a sex or having a multiple sex at times?is on the she walks?i mean on her behind,(if possible may change)and possibly on her physical appearance?(not the pregnantcy)can someone share your oppinion on this one,i just though to knowing this stuffs because i'll never known whats my gf's doing when i turning back.. and all other things..^^

2007-01-29 00:44:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm kinda enduring an awkward situation at work. One of my closest guy friends works at the same place as I do and I began to develop feelings for him though he's in a long-term long-distance relationship. I told him I liked him and that it was best that we ignore each other for awhile so I can get over him. Anyway he asked me if I wanted to hook up with him, i said i did, but then he said i should do it with another guy I like. Anyway during all of this, I got mad at him for jerking my feelings around and I ended up calling him a dog, but then I apologized. I said all of this via text. The next day I wrote him a letter saying how sorry I was for how I acted, and that it was better that we treat each other as professionals since he has a gf and I need to move on. The thing is he's ignoring me and has been for the past 4 weeks. Last week, was my birthday and I got a card from some coworkers. He wrote Happy Birthday, but didn't sign his name and he's still not talking to me.

2007-01-29 00:44:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and one month. He is 35 and I am 20. I am now 4 1/2 months pregnant with our first child. He is very excited about the baby.

Last August, he cheated on me with his ex-wife. (of whom he has 3 other children with.) Although he did not want to, I begged him to tell me exactly what happend, every detail of it. He always tells me how much he loves me, always there for me, and that it was a big mistake.

This was the first time he has ever been unfaithful to someone. On the first week that it happend, he would always cry and ask for me not to leave him. I love him too much to, but my self-esteem is low, I have no trust for ANYONE, and my emotions are a rollercoaster. (also before I was pregnant.) I still feel betrayed and broken down no matter how much he tells me that he loves me and how beautiful I am to him.

We both want to repair this and live our lives together, but how do I move forward without holding a grudge?

2007-01-29 00:43:57 · 7 answers · asked by bella_honeylove 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Good or bad idea? My fiance and i really want to get married, our wedding date is set for 06/29/08 but we aren't 100% sure we can afford a wedding and honeymoon by that time. Would it be a horrible idea to get married this may when we go to vegas then save up until we can afford a beautiful ceremony like we want. I am just scared our family's will be mad if we get married in vegas and not have our family there. ANy ideas or suggestions?

2007-01-29 00:43:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

how do i find people who r married and looking to make friends?

2007-01-29 00:43:24 · 12 answers · asked by iamurcolour 1 in Marriage & Divorce

tommorow is my fathers birthday what present should i give him??any clever ideas?
p.s.i dont have alot of money...

2007-01-29 00:42:37 · 18 answers · asked by greentea 5 in Family

2007-01-29 00:41:53 · 15 answers · asked by Morning dew 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-29 00:41:20 · 19 answers · asked by princebizzie 1 in Singles & Dating

my sister is having self confidence issues at the moment because she has a picture of me in her purse and all of the guys she likes always tell her how hot i am and whatnot. she says that she thinks all the guys she likes wants me instead. she says she doesn't feel pretty compared to me and whatnot.
she's 15... soon to be 16 and i'm 20.
i try telling her that i had self confidence issues when i was her age and then i grew into my looks and body finally.
she's a little larger than me but carries it really well.
she's a beautiful girl and just a doll to be around.
i know she'll grow up to be beautiful but i can't make her see it right now.
i'm not like forcing words down her throat that aren't true or anything.
and i've even cracked jokes about it to lighten her up by saying hey look on the bright side you don't look like kevin (our brother)
can i help her overcome this or is it something she'll do in time?

2007-01-29 00:39:58 · 10 answers · asked by Back*To*Me 4 in Family

At least it is safe $ex......

2007-01-29 00:38:37 · 18 answers · asked by nothere 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy(i think he likes me)but i want him to ask me out!!! How to i let him know the i like him without blurting it out???

2007-01-29 00:38:09 · 8 answers · asked by beileve in the unicorn!!!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 00:38:06 · 8 answers · asked by SOLACE K 1 in Friends

my bf does private serucity in foriegn countries like right now he is in iraq and sometimes has had do that. i was wondering does that make him a bad person. i mean i don't think so as he has always been loving to caring to me but just wonder what other people thought.

2007-01-29 00:37:15 · 11 answers · asked by mrs. smutty aka sodachix 4 in Singles & Dating

Ive been with my b/f for 3yrs this year i love him very much, we have a child together which we had quite early on in the relationship. When we first got a flat together everything was ok then baby came along and we was both getting tired and argued alot.so we moved to a house which is now easier for me to go out with baby, we still argued and my b/f moved out then i got paranoid & started sending him fake emails from his x he found out and said there is no way were sorting this out, i threatend to kill myself cause he dont believe i love him. Since then we have sorted things out and were finally becoming a family again, but he is distant with me and blames me for everything, our baby had his phone this morning and now the sim is missing i get the blame. he also asks me to go out withhim i say yes then he says dont want u to come, he meets his friend every thurs n is going out 2 days on top of that i dont get to go out cause my family n friends live away i feel like s**t cause of this

2007-01-29 00:36:03 · 2 answers · asked by kittyprobs 1 in Other - Family & Relationships