my bf does private serucity in foriegn countries like right now he is in iraq and sometimes has had do that. i was wondering does that make him a bad person. i mean i don't think so as he has always been loving to caring to me but just wonder what other people thought.
2007-01-29 00:37:15 · 11 answers · asked by mrs. smutty aka sodachix 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have to say to the person that compared my bf to nazis was out of line. and being very mean
2007-01-29 00:47:44 · update #1
and for the record i live in fear all the time that i will get a call saying that something happen to him. i love him very much. I was just wondering this cause we are having our 1st baby in the fall.
2007-01-29 00:49:56 · update #2
His job requires him to do that. He is not less of a man because he is doing something like killing.
Murder - aha - that's different. It is an intentional one to get rid of someone because they are in their way in their ordinary life. It is not their job.
See the difference?
Only concern you might have - when he comes home will he be psychologically whole.? Many Nam-vets had problems dealing with ordinary life. They had such traumatic experiences that they had to recant. Actually killing another human being even though it was war that act left a deep scar in them.
I am thinking that in years to come, when our troups come home (whenever that is), we are going to hear all this over again.
2007-01-29 00:50:44 · answer #1 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be similar to dating or being married to a police officer, or anyone who is in the military. It's their job, it does not mean that it is something they enjoy or seek out. Most try everything possible to keep a situation from getting to the point where that is the action they need to take. Also, a strong suggestion for you - make him keep work at work, not bring it into your relationship. That means you won't know all - which in this case is probably a good thing - and it gives him a saftey zone, where he can mentally escape anything that may have happened.
2007-01-29 00:42:33 · answer #2 · answered by buggsnme2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most cases it is hard to separate a person from his work. I would go out witha guy who has your BF work cos I would think he would protect. He is definately very strong and instinctive. I would also be proud of him considering he relies on me to stay in touch with his emotional side. being a security guy is just in his line of work and most of all he needs all your support
2007-01-29 00:42:35 · answer #3 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-03 04:41:44 · answer #4 · answered by winkles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I have dated killers...
u need to understand that only serial killers will kill everyone and anyone but not a plain killer...because a plain killer only kills the person he needs to kill that is in his way and most of the time it is a job or something...not ever a woman in a relationship.
my man treats me right.
2007-01-29 00:40:48 · answer #5 · answered by La'Grange 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope the answer to your question is "yes" because otherwise, no one in the military would ever have a bf / gf.
2007-01-29 00:43:08 · answer #6 · answered by I hate friggin' crybabies 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure could.. he's just doing his job.. it's not like he's a hired hitman.. now that profession u need to watch out for...
2007-01-29 00:40:17 · answer #7 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's his job dear...it's his living why are u so much worried about it?
and don mind me telling this ... u r worried about what people will think...not that he mite die...
do u really love him???
2007-01-29 00:47:26 · answer #8 · answered by uniquesri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think he's a bad person. If I was going out with a girl who was a cop or something like that, I wouldnt think anything bad of her, thats just her job.
also, can anybody please help me with my dilemma?
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2007-01-29 00:41:06 · answer #9 · answered by thats it 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mmmmmm & the Gestapo went home at christmas time & were loving & caring to their families....
2007-01-29 00:41:50 · answer #10 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋