Family & Relationships - 30 January 2007

A coworker sent me an email that I was too weird for him to be friends with because I was sending him mixed signals. We had been close for awhile and I told him it was best that we ignore each other so I can get over my crush on him since he already has a gf. Anyway during all of this, he asked me if I wanted to hook up with him, of course I said yes, since I liked him.
Then I called him a dog via text since he jerked my feelings around and wrote a letter apologizing to him. This is what provoked him to ignore me for the past month. Yesterday, he looked at me like he wanted to say hello and I emailed him asking hihim if we could just treat each other like coworkers and say hello. He emailed me back saying that I was too weird to be his friend and that we should just continue ignoring each other for both his and my sake and that i was wrong for wanting to hook up with him since he already has a gf. I didn't respond back to him, since he asked me not to. But then he got mad. ??

2007-01-30 23:59:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you confront them? I got on the computer today and hit history and noticed that he had been visitng places I have been to..I clicked on links and found that he had "family logger" hidden on the computer..I searched it and found hidden files of all my emails and pictures to friends..everything I sent and recieved was there..even im converstaions..I feel like he's been spying on me and invading my privacy..should I confront him?

2007-01-30 23:59:01 · 12 answers · asked by kim 3 in Marriage & Divorce

any handsome guy i am of 20.

2007-01-30 23:58:34 · 20 answers · asked by spicy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 23:58:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what I mean is whole of life spend in to became rich most of them only spend their life but very few rich to the goal need suggestion what is the easy way to became satisfactory with in middle class Thanks regards Hafizblr

2007-01-30 23:58:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-30 23:56:47 · 17 answers · asked by non active 2 in Singles & Dating

she has had past drugs problems but is clean now , but occasionally have mental flashbacks ( small halcinations lasting only seconds)

she is also shy, has had a bad past, and has some emotional issues..and self esteem issues, she puts herself down alot and feels she isnt good enough
Can be kind of distant when i talk to her sometimes its easy to see that she is thinking of something completely off subject or maybe talking to herself in her head..she has had past depression problems, past anxiety problems, past relationship problems

but she is interesting , spiritual , beautiful , sweet, down to earth, funny

I really like her and am going to continue to see her, but i am curious of your opinions. .

would you date someone like this?
would you marry someone like this?
could you trust someone like this?
could you fall in love with someone like this?

would you take an interest on this sort of person or would you walk away from the beginning?

2007-01-30 23:53:39 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are you afraid that your respectful manner will lessen your chances of motivating your husband to change?

2007-01-30 23:53:28 · 3 answers · asked by uniquechild 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm seeing a man who has admitted that he used to hit some of his ex-girlfriends especially when drunk.we've been seeing each other for a year and he's never struck me or yelled at me to the point where i get scared. can i take it that he's "changed"? he's asked me to marry him

2007-01-30 23:52:56 · 12 answers · asked by therna 3 in Singles & Dating

i am 17 years old and i have ALL (Acute Lumatic Leukemia) and yes, i know that there are more things to life than dating, but damn it....i like boys!! lol but is there a chance that having cancer, doing chemo, loosing my hair, and getting sick is scarring away boys and making me hard to date?

2007-01-30 23:52:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend and she has been dating a guy for five months.

2007-01-30 23:52:24 · 4 answers · asked by Quiet V 1 in Singles & Dating

my name is sheenam and my date of birth is 03/12/1982.my home town is fazilka and his home town is abohar.i am m.sc ,b.ed

2007-01-30 23:51:30 · 6 answers · asked by ASHUM G 1 in Weddings

2007-01-30 23:50:45 · 22 answers · asked by gabi jordan 1 in Family

my brothers friend scully always checks me out i dont know why he has a beautiful wife and kids all my brother friends check me out?

2007-01-30 23:50:29 · 8 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-30 23:50:12 · 7 answers · asked by swarna_mugil 1 in Singles & Dating

well, this mat make me sound like a jelous cow, but i guess i have to admit yes. i am jelous. iv been best friends with my m8 Taryn for almost 7 years now and weve always been the closest out the group, shes l8ly been spending time with her newest friend Ange n trust me i am NOT saying she cant have other friends, but i feel so left out without her, we used to spend everyday togetehr, stay with eachother every weekend n stuff, but every weekend her n ange drink at her house, n she never invites me cuz me n Ange dnt get along, we see eachother about 3, maybe 4 times a weeks if were lucky n she dosnt call me anymore, at first i thought i wouldnt say anything cuz were all aloud more than one best friend, but i just turned 17 n Taryn says she fell asleep at 6 am n slept till 10 n couldnt hear my calls.she missed my 17th birthday party n she dosnt seem to care, but i dnt want to lose her, WHAT SHOULD I DO???

2007-01-30 23:49:58 · 7 answers · asked by Pyro W 1 in Friends

When your sister in law starts running her mouth about you and your family .. what would you say??shes always putting me and my family down becuz were not rich .. and classy although each time ive ever gone to her house its always messy stinky and seems like everything she has is either given to her or bought at a second hand store.. i dont care if it is.. that doesnt bother me.. but why does she always put us down.. ive never even been in a second hand store.. why am i the bad one.. and why does she hate me so much .. and say she cant wait for the day im out of her life.. and when me and my boyfriend do leave she gets mad at us .. and tells us were not welcome in her family anymore..

2007-01-30 23:49:55 · 7 answers · asked by danielle112307 1 in Family

2007-01-30 23:49:50 · 11 answers · asked by muppet 4 in Singles & Dating

I got married for past 1 year and wife was truely a gem. At times i used to wonder abt her nice qualities and i praised her with my parents and friends. But recently I came to know that she had loved a guy before marriage which she did not tell me. On the contrary, i never hid anything to my wife and she knew that.Of late I see few symptoms that her love for me is fading, though she says she loves me so much. I am broken and deeply hurt. I never shouted at my wife. I never loved any girl other than my wife and my wife will be my first and last love in my life. I have no bad habits. People say i am one of the the few good men in this world. I am proud of me being nice to others and sincere to my wife.But why such things happen to boys like me. I am shattered to learn that my wife loved someone already and they used to talk daily for more than 30 minutes and exchanged gifts. I know my wife will not love anybody other than me now. I don't want to hurt her by asking abt this. pls help me

2007-01-30 23:49:02 · 12 answers · asked by Neena 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-30 23:47:59 · 14 answers · asked by hemant editor 1 in Singles & Dating

this happend to me alot. that was after I was grounded, banned from watching TV and had all the books taken out of my room.
it could last up to six weeks where no one in my family would talk to me. I think its worse than being beaten, because it mental torture.

2007-01-30 23:46:38 · 8 answers · asked by kennyboy 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-30 23:43:54 · 4 answers · asked by priti b 1 in Singles & Dating

i just dont know but i cant let his past GO. my fiance that is.
he was sexually active and i have always be self coutiouse, meaning i had no or little sex.
he on the other hand was and i mean was very sexually active
it bothers me, to the point that i cant have sex with him, he makes me sick sometimes, i often think that he has diseases.
i always through his past in his face and he hates it.
i really dont know whats wrong with me, i cant bring myself to be kind to him, am i selfish, rude, ignorent, or do i just really hate him.
and think that i love him.
i have never been so confussed in my life, i just cant tell.
we have been together for awhile and ever since we met it always bothered me, i thought id get over it coz it was new, now since then its been nothing but fights and hurtful words

your opinions matter
sorry for my question to be so long

2007-01-30 23:42:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

WE FIGHT ALWAYS THOUGH.

2007-01-30 23:42:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

you move in with them??
or marry them??
random question but interested to hear your views..i know some people who are together for years before moving in together and i know others who after a couple of months move in with one another!!
it seems all so easy and flexible these days..do you agree??
thanks for your comments x

2007-01-30 23:42:10 · 16 answers · asked by Lydia K 4 in Singles & Dating

I am a muslim girl and i love a guy, he is hindu.We want to marry. His family are ready to accept me but my father is against with this marriage. What should i do? My all friends gave me an advise to elope with him. My best friend yasmin has also an affair with a hindu guy and they are going to elope and get married. She told me that their is nothing wrong to elope with hindu guy. plz suggest me what should i do? can i elope with him and do a court marriage?

2007-01-30 23:41:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Wouldn't they want somebody less educated than themselves? I am marrying a girl from Thailand with an 8th grade education. I have a bachelors degree. She is defintely better wife material than these western women with their 'degrees'. I think marrying a foreign wife who is way less educated than you are is the way to go. They'll have much less incentive to divorce because they don't have any silly career 'ideas' and they'll see you as the sole provider. But I'm confused as to why some western men say that they want educated women. They don't make any sense. Why would an educated woman want to marry at all? There is no economic incentive and there is a higher risk of divorce. So why do these new age type softy western men say these things?

2007-01-30 23:39:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 23:38:45 · 10 answers · asked by sky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-30 23:38:01 · 8 answers · asked by Ma. Meilanie F 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is embaressing, but I was wondering if anybody could tell me what anail sex is? Sorry, about the question, but since a guy mentioned it to me, i am curious.

2007-01-30 23:36:21 · 8 answers · asked by alwaystaker 1 in Friends