Family & Relationships - 30 January 2007

i am scared beacuse there are 3 boys who are harresing me and they have come to known that i am alone at home for 3 to4 days.

2007-01-30 23:04:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok my bezzie mate has got this guy recently - they spend all day texting and speak pretty much every day - they've done the nasty quite a few times and do stuff like dinner and drinks once or twice a week. HOWEVER the problem is we dont know what he is - like without knowing the full ins and outs of it as Im only going on what shes saying - shes convinced he's a bit of a player in that he's pretty much said he doesnt have a lifestyle for a girlfriend (travels/works etc) but that hes not meeting anyone else as where would he have the time etc and that he wouldnt do it to her anyway - I think from what shes told me that he sounds like he could be going down the road toward commitment over time as I would imagine a player wouldnt be so keen but Im not really sure....Im asking because right now I think hes really good for her and she's really happy with him but shes thinking of walking due to what she thinks he is....what do you guys think!?

2007-01-30 23:04:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I get angry & annoyed so easily, that even when my mom walks thru the door i want nothing more than 2 leave my home or go 2 my room 2 escape from her nagging. She always complained about not doing good in skool, being distant from family, the way i dressed, how i thought about myself, & never wanting 2 do anything w/ her. Growing up I was always put 2nd, I would try 2 talk but then got told 2 stop for she didnt want 2 talk about it, or when my brother interupted, she would listen 2 him 1st. My brother would yell & hit me when i wouldnt do something right. It got 2 the point when I stopped trying 4 acceptance, didnt talk about my feelings, & tried 2 get out of the house as much as I could I began eating less, started smoking, smoked weed, skipped school, got addicted 2 coke @ drank whenever gotten the chance. I want nothing from this life, & when when I die I hope 2 put my family thru the pain i lived day 2 day, so they no what it feels like 2 loose a loved 1, which i lost long ago

2007-01-30 23:03:04 · 27 answers · asked by Ellen B 1 in Family

Okay then, I never yell at my father (mother? :( she's passed away long time ago...), still sometimes I disagree with him but never has it ended with yelling each other.... I wish and believe that how I treat my parent will be similar to how our children will treat me.... Do you agree with me here? If not, why? Could you give me any reason and example then?

BTW, have your children ever yelled at you? What and why did they yell at you? Do they ever regret it now and then?

2007-01-30 23:01:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

They were together for 3 years, the kid is now 2 years old. She left him (went back to Poland) and told him that the child is not his - she's been together with other men while they were a couple.

He is obviously distraught! Though I can imagine the practical approach (take a lawyer, sue her, give DNA sample and check paternity) I am at a loss as to how to console him.

So I guess what I'm after from you today is some guidance in how to approach this topic, what he needs right now to make him feel better, how he can gain a positive attitude to give him sufficient energy in order to tackle the situation.

2007-01-30 23:00:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend just found out his ex-girlfriend had a child 2 years ago and just approached him telling him the child is his. If the child is his, will he have to pay child support back-pay of 2 years even though he just found out he is the father or will he start paying regular child support payments?

2007-01-30 22:59:48 · 7 answers · asked by needhelp16 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am always amazed at this, I have gone to bed with my ex BF's in the past in their PJ's and the bed hasn't moved, and suddenly next time I look under the covers they are completely naked with a silly grin on their faces, how do they do it!!!

2007-01-30 22:58:18 · 23 answers · asked by greatdane 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 22:53:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what are the best ones?what should you write in it for a long term boyfriend?

2007-01-30 22:52:03 · 10 answers · asked by Mal S 1 in Singles & Dating

i was in school yesterday and a guy told me to come here ( i have a crush on him) he gave me a kiss on the cheek, in front of everybody. could i just go back to him and do they same thing? in front of everybody

2007-01-30 22:51:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For 4 to 5 days.

should i call any friend at home?

2007-01-30 22:50:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I only got "you can love a rich man just as easy as you can love a poor man" to "make him pay for everything", and "never trust a man".
I'm thinking that maybe I don't know how to be in a relationship as well as some girls because I never had anyone to give me positive advice...

2007-01-30 22:45:34 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

How can I show him that I have a high self-esteem. What are the signs he's taking me for granted? I really want this to work, but he hardly calls me and I feel myself calling him all the time....help me please. Do you think dumping him cuz of his lack of consistant calling will make him think I'm not as insecure as he thought?! I P.S. I called him friday and it's now wednesday, and he hasn't called me.

2007-01-30 22:45:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am just wondering how it feels to be suckered in to pay for and take care of another man's offspring?

2007-01-30 22:43:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you honestly like curvy women? Some men say they like curves on women, but they choose to date skinny almost adolescent boy looking women.

2007-01-30 22:41:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 22:40:05 · 18 answers · asked by ♥♪MissSoprano♫♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 22:39:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy asked me out on friends advice. thing is i'm really nervouse. supposably he's good looking and that in my experience mean there kinda picky (not always) and well i'm scared he wont be attracted to me, i've been trying to keep my confidence up, and i have a feeling that will just bring it back down.
any suggestion?

2007-01-30 22:39:35 · 4 answers · asked by XcharX 3 in Singles & Dating

In my culture they are so religeos and that thing is not acceptable , but I love her .
I don't know how she lost it she says she was drunk for the one time in her life.

2007-01-30 22:33:32 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 22:33:10 · 17 answers · asked by Love Sparkle fairy 2 in Friends

I m getting married after 2-3mths and my fiance don't know that i m not a virgin and i don't want to disclose it in front of him.coz everyone know in india nobody accept it...so plz help me how can i hide it from him

2007-01-30 22:33:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Can some one please explain WHY, the Catholic Church does not allow the, Here Comes The Bride song played anymore ?
I find this totally unacceptable. Just another reminder of why I left the church.

2007-01-30 22:31:49 · 10 answers · asked by MKM 3 in Weddings

this work mate of mine really hurt my feelings. She likes to tell me off . eg. can u speak softer, don't use the shreddar machine it's loud and annoys me. She makes demands which really trigger my anger. it seems like what ever i do is wrong and rubs her in the wrong way. i have always agreed because i didn't want to cause a seen... but it's really getting me annoyed too. what should i do? i still have to work in a close environment and we have to always relay on each other. am i too passive? i've nevered criticise her even if she hurts my feelings

2007-01-30 22:28:56 · 10 answers · asked by Pink Lotus 1 in Singles & Dating

loraine kelly

2007-01-30 22:28:39 · 6 answers · asked by TREVOR N 1 in Friends

2007-01-30 22:28:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 22:27:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 22:26:39 · 15 answers · asked by jyoti g 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 22:24:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i've been seeing this gal naw for 3 months.... She's a Uni' girl, being in university she wants to go travel after graduating.... should I try an supress the intense feelings im getting towards her.. as i will end up getting stung, when she ups and leaves....

Or carry on going with the flow... and see were it takes me....


I know this is a negative approach, but im really getting attached to her.. I got hurt quite bad by my ex (she went to uni swell)

2007-01-30 22:22:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm a virgin and has always wondered if first time having sex hurt? what does it feel like when he insert it into u for the first time.

2007-01-30 22:21:28 · 5 answers · asked by Pink Lotus 1 in Singles & Dating