Family & Relationships - 30 January 2007

i dont have a pic but i'll describe her...
asain, dark bobbed hair with fringe, large cat shaped black eyes, thick brows, snubby nose, rosy cheeks n lips, face shape kinda like drew barrymore's ( slightly plump, like a doll)

2007-01-30 20:16:02 · 20 answers · asked by revengeofthemisfit 2 in Singles & Dating

even love. I got rejected by the guy I was so sure liked me. He was blushing around me, he went out of his way for me, he treated me well....but I asked him out and left him hanging for a few months, then I asked him out again and he's like, "I'm in a relationship now. Thanks for asking"....

I'm bummed out that I didnt move fast enough and that my shyness came off as arrogance, which I am not. At all. If only he knew......

2007-01-30 20:14:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 20:14:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

gone to the extent that I can't even stand my job anymore. I love my job very much if only it was nearer to home. I've tried everything to get another job but I just can't find it.This is so depressing because I seriously need my family and friends at this stage of my life, because to tell the truth I've never spent a lot of time with them- I asked to go to boarding school when I started high school and then immediately went to college and only saw them during holidays. The worse part is that renting apartments in this city is very expensive if I was staying at home I wouldn't even be paying so much for accommodation I suppose I'll have to be patient until another job comes along

2007-01-30 20:12:44 · 3 answers · asked by myyus4cedl 2 in Friends

My husband and I got married last December and now I am having problems regarding our handling of our finances.

Before we got married, we decided to have a joint account and have him handle the account since I can be lavish and overspending.

Since we bought a land lot on an installment basis, a great percentage of our salaries immediately goes to the payment of the lot. At that time, I felt like I no longer have an access to my own salary which I worked for because our salaries are already been set for the payment of our bills.

Now that we're married, I still feel like I am no longer comfortable buying stuffs for myself because I feel like I need to ask for his permission in using our money. We have talked this problem over several times and he is always providing me with what I need, assuring me that I can spend our money.

I just don't know why I feel very uncomfortable. I am working but I can't enjoy my salary and buy things that I also like... what's wrong with me...?

2007-01-30 20:11:58 · 7 answers · asked by Charmaine * 3 in Marriage & Divorce

They use something like the vacuum cleaner, or start a project and then just walk away from it and leave it where they were working on it. In my mother's house we had a rule, and i'm sure it still stands, that if you get something out, bring it from your bedroom or start a project, then when you're finished playing with it, you put it away. I thought i taught this to my son when he was younger, but i guess it either didn't stick or because my husband doesn't do it, then it's not been reinforced enough. Or he just thinks that if my husband doesn't do it, why should he? It makes me a bad guy.

I've tried the "evil box" where i collect their stuff at the end of the day and they have to either pay a very small fee to get it back, or negotiate a chore. But then i'm still the one picking it up. Tried leaving it and trying (hard) not to let it get to me, but i just can't stand clutter and having to live with it all the time, stresses me out. Any suggestions would be great. Thanx

2007-01-30 20:10:17 · 7 answers · asked by jama_bc 2 in Family

2007-01-30 20:07:56 · 10 answers · asked by Jasmine Q 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My aunt recently passed on and While sorting her things out and cleaning the house I found a key in an envelope.

On the envelope a reminder is printed: do not keep both keys in one envelop. and something about rent and that if they do not hear anything from the client the rent will automatically be renewed... we suspect its a key to a safe deposit box. But there's no indication on the envelope or key as to where and what establishment it came from.

what to do, what to do? help.

2007-01-30 20:05:40 · 2 answers · asked by jennie o 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am over than 25 but i diden't know that how would i start having sex with my wife i had olso red kamasutra but i haven't gave any good result i need help so please let me know what is the first second or therd steps i am very shy and there are very restrictions in my home so i can't se blu film etc
so please help....................................

2007-01-30 20:02:47 · 11 answers · asked by Rishabhdeo 1 in Weddings

I have 8 & 6 yrs old kids left in Papua New Guinea. My papers are still on process, I can't go back.

2007-01-30 20:02:35 · 4 answers · asked by iel2in 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I married a woman who was 5 yrs older than me and she was divorced. She was married in the age of 14. Due to no support she began to walk on the wrong way of life. I met her and had affair for 4 years and my parents came to know about her they tried to break up, for that they have also beaten many times. At last I married her, but after one year also my parents found us and began to harsh. I leaved her on her way and came away because my sister's engagement was broken and for my sister's marriage I have to leave her. My wife don;t know where I am? I remember her and want to live with her because she is really a innocent woman who have loved me a lot. She don't want anything from our parents except me, I also don't want anything from my parents.
I am just confused and don't understand what to do? Please Help me.... This is my personal appeal to you all please suggest me what to do?
I really loved her and I will love her forever.

2007-01-30 20:01:49 · 5 answers · asked by Jaadugar 1 in Family

Here's the scenerio....(get ready for lesbian drama)

History: Lesbian #1 dated lesbian #2 AND lesbian #3.

Friendship Status: Lesbian #1 and #2 are still really good friends (dispite the breakup). Lesbian #1 and #3 are also friends.

Now, Lesbian #2 and #3 are dating. They know each other through their mutual Ex---lesbian #1.

Lesbian #1 is not cool with this. Lesbian #2 only told lesbian #1 what is happening after a date with lesbian #3.

Is lesbian #1 over-reacting or is it clearly seen as hurtful for an ex to date your other ex?

2007-01-30 20:00:27 · 13 answers · asked by •ºJen•º 1 in Singles & Dating

And why?

2007-01-30 19:57:37 · 23 answers · asked by Colette 5 in Friends

I pay for my items and the cashier gave me my bags of item with a smile. Came home and check my stuff and missing 2 items that the cashier must of not hand me in the bagging place. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

I'm thinking of going there and talk to them about it but I also want to make sure this doesn’t happen again. I know sometimes they make mistakes but it's a hassle to drive up there and try to talk with them. I don't know if they will believe me though. Any suggestion on what I should do or say?

2007-01-30 19:57:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 19:57:17 · 12 answers · asked by Lothario 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what went so wrong??

2007-01-30 19:57:13 · 13 answers · asked by soren 6 in Friends

i am boy say i love girls plz help

2007-01-30 19:56:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've known her for more than a year now and still nothing is happening between us. She says we can go out this weekend but I know it wont happen because of all the other times it didn't work. I give up.

2007-01-30 19:55:32 · 20 answers · asked by lmao 2 in Singles & Dating

shes been living with this fella whos 20 years older,they drink all day long and fight wen they got no booze,he wont let her put the heating on wen its cold and he wont let her out of his sight.ive tried to get her to leave even to come and stay with me,but she always got an exuse not to leave him.she 37 wat can i do ?

2007-01-30 19:54:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years..and we've been living together for a year. He wants to wait on marriage, until he can get a higher paying job but wants to buy a house with me. His view on marriage is...engage for a few months and then get married right away..I told him that was't a good plan, too much money in such little time..(ring cost and wedding costs)..I told him my views on buying a house together for marriage, (I'm not for it)...What should I do? What else should I tell him to convince him it's not a good idea?..Help!..

2007-01-30 19:54:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

looking for beverley gray last known living dayton rd hull will be 44yrs old now divorced in 1998 daughter of clive used oddbottle pub

2007-01-30 19:52:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my ex was on and off with me for 8 months and is still undicided with with me and seems like she just wants me when she needs me and thats it and she also likes to hit on guys right in front of me all the time, idk what she gets out of screwing with me like this....

2007-01-30 19:52:06 · 10 answers · asked by dark_days7 1 in Singles & Dating

HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-30 19:51:14 · 3 answers · asked by cathleen e 2 in Friends

I have a friend for 7 years. We were close. Her uncle threw her out of the house and she had no other family. I gave her shelter and food, paid for her bills while she was depressed, and when she got better, I gave her a job at my office temporarily even during a rough time financially. I never charged her rent, food, bought her new clothes and paid her a good wage much to my fiance disagreement about hiring her. A year later, I was going through a rough time with my fiance. We had arguments often at home. I crashed physically and emotionally for 3 months and couldn't work. Then when I came back to work, she started to resent me. I was told that she wanted to have a share of a project my fiance got going at work. My fiance and I got married. She told my mother that I force him to marry me for the money (he is totally in debt). She didn't go to my wedding, moved out when I wasn't home and stole the files at my office. We had never argued. I am confused? What happened

2007-01-30 19:49:19 · 8 answers · asked by no where 1 in Friends

i was with the gal i've been seeing last nite.... (seeing her for 3 months) anyway, we were doing some midnight athletics, i took her in my arms gave her a big hug, an was staring in to her eyes, it kind of felt right to say i love you !!!!!!

I didn't though, shall i wait for her to say it me, as i dont wana scare her off this soon.....!!!

2007-01-30 19:48:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 19:44:53 · 11 answers · asked by firas z 1 in Singles & Dating

tell me when is marriage. &i recently completed my sap(fico)
course&i decided to search for job oppurtunties. tell me how is my future.

2007-01-30 19:44:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My father died in 1996. My mother moved 150 miles away and I lived alone as a 16 yr old senior in high school so I could graduate with the friends I'd gone to school with all of my life. My mother drowned in her own sorrows, drinking at bars and coming home with different men all the time. I fell into a downward spiral over the years - drinking, drug use, etc. After graduation, I ended up under her roof, but was eventually kicked out because I couldn't support her. I've since joined the Air Force (been in for 7 years) and have a beautiful family of my own. My mother has never been to any of my daughter's birthday parties. I'm stationed in Germany, and she claims her fear of flying keeps her from coming to visit. There is much much more to the story, but I don't have the room to write about every little thing she's done to disappoint me over the years. I can honestly say that I don't like her, but is it wrong to hate her? Am I allowed to never speak to her again? Please help...

2007-01-30 19:41:34 · 18 answers · asked by Jennifer D 2 in Family

I have this wonderful man that love and it scare me that he dose . but i came out of a 18 year marries that was bad. i thing that have alot to do with it. I love this man and i dont want him to be hurt or thing i dont love him what sould i do?

2007-01-30 19:41:31 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 19:41:01 · 6 answers · asked by rocky s 1 in Singles & Dating